as a boymoder it seems my only options romantically are transbians. im not necessarily unattracted to transbians but its really mostly jealousy and im definitely more attracted to men and esp like being pampered and treated like a princess. i do get this from transbians obviously but i dont feel lust the same way and they can kind of tell. also im expected to at least try to dom her back which i really struggle with. always ends up building up a lot of resentment in the relationship as i inevitably end up treating her like a bf. is there hope that with enough socialization and transition guidance from transbians i can eventually graduate to real men or do i need to accept that its never gonna happen and somehow figure out how to at least split the man duties w her?
>>42128547I'm confused, why are your only romantic options transbians? If anything, in my experience, it's much easier to find guys willing to date trans women than nearby eligible trans lesbians who are monogamous.
>>42128648Not OP. I've not had this same experience desu but that's mainly because guys are scarier
>>42128666this is true guys are scary and transbians r easy to treat like bfs sometimes if their self esteem is low enough. a tragic fate for all involved...
>>42128648Well that's my other problem is that most of them aren't monogamous, that said since I'm not rly into them that's not rly a problem for me. I'm not passable or pretty enough for guys that aren't random grindr hookups>>42128666This too
>>42128547whered you get the top?
