Any other ftms out there who just rawdog life with zero close friends, khhv, a raging porn addiction and little to no life success? I don't even feel depressed anymore, it's what it is.
Awesome picture, dude! Mind if I save it?
>>42133046>0 friends>khhv>porn addiction>no life successHow did you end up like this
>>42133055Not at all, go on
>>42133090I live a pretty normie life except I just never got laid or made good friends or did anything noteworthy
>>42133095Thank you very much :)
>>42133111>normie life>no friends, no sexual partnersI would consider this normal for my ex who played League of Legends
>>42133184I guess I'm not a normie then
I am ftm. I have a lot sex with a girl I don't like much but she's hot. I have a lot of people I keep at arms length. Won't let Anyone get close to me after the incident. Struggle to find success in my endeavors but I keep trying anyways. Sometimes life has hope. Often it feels empty.
>>42133444>I have a lot sex with a girl I don't like much but she's hot.A win is a win
>>42133444Either a larp or you're retarded. Hot girls both have a social barrier for entry and attract social interaction. You can't claim social distance if you have a hot gf. Stop fishing for a sympathy vote. You're way too high on the pyramid of needs.
>>42133512pretransition i was known as a bisexual pervert and a lot of women got with me just to spite their ex boyfriends (or they thought it would) but i didn't actually talk to any of them so it can definitely be done
>>42133512She's not my girlfriend we're just fwb. I have some amount of social capital i just genuinely don't feel close to anyone at all and there's nobody I want close to me in that way either
>>42133046You're as bad as the other incels. Literally just a matter of consistently taking part in social interaction (you actually can find people that don't suck to hang out with if you look) and you would solve like 2/3rds of your problems. Just find people who share interests. Also, it has to be in person interaction, the chemical benefits are different. Plus considering ftm are outweighed by a ratio of 5 to 1 chaser to ftm, not getting sex is your own fault. Yes, lowering your standards just to keep up your skills/for the fun, will get you to "the one" you do want faster than being an embittered porn addict because annoying biology requires that level of social interaction.It just seems like all of you want everything all at once and don't realize everything is a journey and you actually have to live your life to have a life.
>>42133685Stop trying to give this nice young man a STD from ugly people
>>42133551>>42133562Having social capital immediately disqualifies you from what OP describes, especially if you are automatically granted it and don't actually have to build it up.AFABs will never understand this in their desire for the social sympathy afforded victim status.
>>42133719Your right, every instance of sex is guaranteed to result in an STD and by lowering your standards of physical, relationship longevity, or social capital.. you are going to die of HerpaSyphillAIDSSo do you guys still wear the big buckles and murder native Americans for their corn or what?
>>42133785I don't really know of anyone who was ever automatically granted social capital. You do have to have some kind of personality and be present to some extent and do things. People wouldn't know you otherwise.Sure i "worked for it" I guess but so did everyone else. A lot of people don't like me all the same anyways. I'm kind of divisive.
>>42133444>>42133562You have really good taste in images, anon. I like them!
>>42133046Friend, that's the norm these days. Especially if you don't have a good social life and/or don't have a university degree, income, or stability; and you still depend on your parents' money.I see many people who have no social life, no prospects, or even a girlfriend or casual sex. Fight to break free from this cycle; everything can be fixed with the right determination, even if it's little by little.
>>42133951Thank you, I appreciate this. I believe becoming financially independent is going to be the number one thing that would change my life for the better.
>>42133823>Don't know anyone automatically granted social capitalMeaning you and the social strata you belong to are higher than the ones that actually aren't. Do you think it's a fluke that words like nepotism and social privilege exist?
>>42134055I've spent most of my life under the thumb of people with more social capital than me. Things just kind of changed a bit for me in the last year. The strata I belong to is a bunch of poor queers. I just live in a big city so we're all able to form large groups. Living in a big city is a privilege I'll acknowledge though. I'm not originally from here and I can really feel the difference.
>>42134137I think it's funny that it's entirely possible that they don't even know you're under their thumb, just like you don't see the ones under your thumb. Which then will inspire the argument of no one is under your thumb, anyone who could be either puts themselves there or can just bootstrap their way out. Or you being under the thumb absolves your responsibility. Retarded isn't it? But i digress. My point is you're not as low on the strata as you think. And honestly, you can't really fathom what it's like for those that are. You could share some of your wealth to make it fairer, but no one can make you. Can't even blame you if you don't. They'll bitch, you'll ignore them, the world will continue onward.
Not FTM, but i know the feel. But, I got to ask, are you complaining cause you want someone to help solve it, or just because you want sympathy?The former is masc, the latter is fem. Call me if you're masc, take your meds if you're fem.
>>42134218>And honestly, you can't really fathom what it's like for those that areI truly can. My social standing in my hometown was worse than dirt and I was only kept around as a scapegoat for everyone's problems. I'm aware I don't really have much in common with OP at this point in my life I just came here to talk about myself for no reason other than narcissism.
>>42134301No you can't. You're only capable of understanding relative to your own experience. This isn't a failure or your fault, it's a limitation of reality. No one can overcome it because it requires knowing something you don't know. At best, you guess.You guess your shitty experience is as shitty as theirs, you guess you had the same resources and support and understanding and awareness that they do when they go through their hell. So right now you're assuming you know what it is like to raw dog life because you had to deal with some douchbags. But you never got considered a constant threat just for existing, that your default is to hurt and you have to be assessed to be sure that you won't before you're even given a chance to show who you are. And you got some hot bitty to throw your shot into so you aren't so lonely you're constantly flicking your bean just to avoid seeing how empty your life is or that edge of screaming type restlessness where you want to do something with your life but every avenue is either closed or that insignificant a chance of success and far more than zero chance of failure that you know will set you back even further.And the reason for that is because someone who actually wants to be near you is an app message away. Someone to help share the burden in your melon so you actually have a chance to get out there and start unfucking your stupid life and seeing the shrink and taking the meds and getting the job and contributing to society.I know what it's like to be burned. But think i could understand what it's like to be that crispy dude half under water in the burn ward? Nope.
>>42133046>rawdog life>porn addiction
>>42134470If people see you as a threat it's probably because of your schizophrenic outbursts lil bro
holy shit is that the weird guy from Facebook petten hn or some shit from when I was a kid wtf what is source on op pic
>>42134512Your point is faulty and you know it. That fear judgement kicks in the moment it's established I'm a dude, without me even having to say a word. I'm sure you'd understand that instead of deflecting with an adhom if you were actually a dude and not just a girl cosplaying because you hate yourself and have grass is greener syndrome, which is a ironic by product of your own pedestal you placed men on existing alongside socially acceptable misandry, which locks in perfectly with that aforementioned self loathing
>>42134569what on earth causes this incel mindsett. amab
>>42134788meant to reply to this guy sorry >>42134732
>>42134788How does being a dude at birth justify your dismissal of the point as incel, even though classifying it as incel isn't actually addressing it in any way that disputes the point...>Amab hereAre you... Mansplaining?
>>42134732I don't place men on a pedestal but I do enjoy the privilege of passing as though I was one. If I got to the other side and the grass was actually greener is it really a syndrome? I don't hate myself for being female either I just always found that participating in girlhood was too cumbersome for me. Its all been about assimilating into society in a way that works for me. So yeah it is cosplay in a sense, I honestly don't make sense of myself as a man in a female body. I make sense of myself as someone who passes as a man to people on the street but has a queer private life.
