>bf says his feelings for me are gone because we never really went on dates>he see's me almost every week> 2 days later were back together>he goes out with his family but he leaves his pc on>checks his messages very flirtatious with other girls he call his "friends" but at the same time they know he has a gf and apprently rooting for us >me now knowing he calls them "his woman"and "his little gremlin"it hurts but i dont know how to let go please somebody help me i know i cant force him to love me i tried talking to other guys to try and fill the void in my heart even tho they like me they arnt him i only wanted him but i cant because he dosnt want me </3
>>42141851This most likely won't stop hurting until you've broken up and moved onHow come you see each other every week but aren't going on dates?
>>42141871we arnt mobile despite me making a effort to see him every week he use to live really close to me but its whatever
>>42141886So you're coming to see him and he's just having you sit at home? And he's the one complaining about lack of dates? Hmm okayDid you sleep with him?
>>42141917everytime id go there id stay for a good2/3 days in one of his messages that he sent to his friend he was like>i wish my gf wasnt so clingy but i understand why shes always with me her homelife isnt the bestlike why would you say that
>>42141973:/You gotta find someone that will actually love you and not shit on your back to.his friends (that he's flirting with at that).I couldn't imagine speaking like that to my friends about my gf.
>>42141973It sounds like he was never that serious about the relationship honestly with how little effort he put in.He also sounds retarded>flirts with other women>calls them his>complains about not going on dates>doesn't ser up any dates>while also saying you're around him too muchI'm sorry, anon
>>42142059ill get over it eventually but its one hell of a motivator work on myself
>>42142128As long as that motivation comes from knowing you can do better than this and not because you hate yourselfA new year can always be a good be start at least
>>42141851You're gonna have to go full, unreasonable, drama queen about the messages
>>42142235i cant hate myself when i know i was a really good girlfriend i was loyal i cooked for him i cleaned for him i took care of him when he was sick he cried in my arms many a nights and i was there through all of it but im gonna come out of this smarter cuter and with a better mindset for 2026 i just need to get past the pain of right now that is
>>42142304no at this stage of my life going off on a man who dosnt like me anymore isnt worth it im just gonna get my things together n leave
>>42142315>>42142334I'm sorry, anon, I hope you have some friends and snacks that can help you through the worst of itGood for you for not taking shit
nature is healing
>>42141851>because we didn't go on dates>is now stringing along a number of simps to fuel his need for attentionare you sure you're not dating a woman?
>>42141851>i tried talking to other guyskys whore
