Please give me some advice how I could cope with being cis man. I desperately need to accept the fact that I am cis man, but I'm struggling to do so to an unreasonable extent.
>>42143090watch animation memes
>>42143090Mahayana buddhism - you can alter the form of your reincarnations
>>42143090what do you dislike about being a cis man?
>>42143090Op this board is a waste land. Anyone who knows how to do anything leaves. The people remaining have very very little to offer. Get advice from real people. Friends. Therapist. There is nothing that will make being trans easy and nothing that is going to help you repress. We all tried to repress and troon out anyway. Once you troon and spend the 12 months acclimating, you see it isn't as bad as you thought.
>>42143158It's difficult for me to properly tell myself to be honest. Do I actually hate being a man, or do I just hate myself so much that I happen to hate being a man by proxy?Being a man isn't even bad in any meaningful way, and I feel like I just have to learn to appreciate it, but the thought of doing so is severely depressing in it's own weird way
>>42143090ur cooked unless you 1. have a good amount of willpower and can dedicate your life to your work to distract yourself or;2. are religious and willing to believe that not trooning out is for a transcendent purpose like following God, or;3. are willing to live as a miser foreverotherwise you're just gonna troon out or ACK yourself, if you want to live a "normal life" without trooning then 3. is what it's gonna come down to and you're gonna remain in despair
>>42143252That's the solution for the inverse of my issue. Everything points towards the fact that I am cis, and I'm struggling not to be in denial about it.
>>42143315i presumed you have GD, do you not?
>>42143339I don't think I do, because I actually feel completely fine being a man. Seeing myself in a mirror makes me feel nothing, and being perceived as a man also doesn't feel wrong.Despite that, it feels genuinely horrible to know that it doesn't feel wrong. I hate that it feels "right" to be a man in most regards
>>42143408I honestly don't understand what's troubling you, guess you are a victim of meta brain worms
>>42143556Me neither to be honest. Describing my issues as meta brain worms is quite accurate though. Like, I definitely despise being a man, but not because it feels wrong, but because it feels right
>>42143135How would that help me in this lifetime? Even if reincarnation were real, I can't really care about any future life if my current life doesn't feel worth living
bump. please, I don't know what to do
>>42145101how does the idea of being injected with estrogen make you feel?
>>42145118It's very anxiety inducing, because I know I'm not supposed to take it. There's very strong cognitive dissonance just thinking about it
>>42145236which sounds more appealing? being bald and hairy with a beard and a dick or having hair on your head, a mostly hairless body, boobs and a vagina?
>>42145283The former is definitely unappealing, but I don't know whether the latter is more appealing, even without taking cis privileges into account
>>42143090Trannies are men 100% of the time. It's not just you.
>>42145450I'm not a man who happens to be trans. I'm literally just a man who happens to be just a man, and it's making me want to flay myself