>talking to guy on discord >has a nice personality so i assume he'll look decent (retarded i know)>shows me what he looks like after a few hours>4/10 balding ugly pectus excavatum freak with a shrimp cock that looks deformed>panic and delete my discord account (was a burner anyway)>don't even send a final messagei used to be pretty ugly myself but he was unpleasant to even look at, like i wouldn't want him as my waiter at a restaurant or something.i feel bad because i used to be incel before realizing i was gay but holy shit most men are so ugly it's insane and no he didnt give me money or anything
>>42147591No, ugly people are evil. It's called physiognomy. If he were a good person he wouldn't be ugly.
>>42147632i see, very well then.deep down i do feel guilty, he is a human being with dreams and goals but i just cant lmao
>>42147632kys>>42147591No. You’re normal. I feel the same way looking at ugly people despite being ugly myself. One time someone sent me just a facepic of themselves smiling out of the blue and it actually jumpscared me.
>>42147591i mean, you didn't manipulate or lie to him or anything. he's just butt ugly and that's not ur fault or his. if you don't find him attractive, it wasn't gonna work out anyways and it's not like you owe him a relationship.plus ur on fucking discordthink about it this way: it's a shame that you found out so late he was so aesthetically incompatible with your tastes, but if you saw him on a dating app you would just pass immediately, yeah? so there's nothing to be done here
I vowed to never flirt with an internet person again unless I knew what they looked like first. It's because I ended up in the exact same scenario as OP and had to go all "oh my god you're so cute!" and then feign interest until coming up with a realistic excuse to disengage that had nothing to do with appearance. I hated the situation I had created because I was scared of hurting someone's feelings so much but I also can't force my body to feel attracted towards every appearance
>>42147591I did this to somebody before and I got scared and blocked all the other people I met (a batch of people added me from a post)I felt really bad about it for awhile so you’re not alone..
>>42147632Dorian gray ass logic
I always open with pics in the first few messages to avoid thisProblem is I just pick my best angle from 30 demo pics every time I post something so it's basically catfishing by hyper-curation and tricking people into thinking I look good
>>42147591>4/10 balding ugly pectus excavatum freak with a shrimp cock that looks deformedLiterally me
>>42147591one time i got $11 and deleted my account bc he was weirdi had no plan but i knew theres no way id be friends with this guy before i got the donation they wanted me to use to do dxm with them
>>42148474how was he weirdwhat do i do to avoid being weird bc women block me randomly all the timei have autism btw
