/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.QOTT>Are you a fan of enemies to lovers? Favorite lesbian trope?>How do you decorate your room? Would you date someone with a messy room?>What songs do you listen to when you’re falling in love? During a breakup?>How will you celebrate the new year? Will you have a new year’s kiss?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold thread: >>42115509
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>>42154456Of course! Friendships can always be revitalized as long as you didnt do something grievous. Honestly it sounds like it's mostly you being a little weird and distant. Have a 1 to 1 with your friend and make it clear you still want her in your life as your best friend.
>>42154721it sound like she has some pretty strong feelings, it might be best for Her to move onbut thats her choice to make
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>>42154731>>42154721It is me being weird and distant.But I also do have strong feelings... I never got in her way and I didn't complain when she started dating but it hurts so much and I can't pretend anymore.IDK if she'll want to talk to me anymore if I take all the time I need, which might be a while...
>>42154686>Are you a fan of enemies to lovers? Favorite lesbian trope?I love "enemies to lovers". Uh, hatesex is kinda hot. But it rarely works well irl, lol. Usually theyre enemies for a reason.Favorite trope is useless lesbians. The endless flirting and insinuations are cute! Someone make them kiss already!!!>How do you decorate your room? Would you date someone with a messy room?Uh, Im still figuring out decorations. I mostly collect trinkets and put them around. I want to start giving my home more personality soon.Depends on how messy. Im cluttery person as is and that stuff can amplify. Dont want someone else cleaning up after me, but definitely dont want to be stick picking up someone else's dirty socks, ykwim?>What songs do you listen to when you’re falling in love? During a breakup?Songs that make me think of them. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jo_-vr1FwJ0This has been on my mind a lot lately. Read the Taiwanese lyrics with it."Even if the tragedy's coming, there's no way back. // Weave my sould into your melody // Fly away with blooming silver wings"I dont have any breakup songs. I tend to listen to less music or none at all when Im deeply depressed. If you come into my home and find silence, something is *wrong*.>How will you celebrate the new year? Will you have a new year’s kiss?Might try to see some fireworks. No New Year's kiss if I can help it. I dont want to kiss my spouse at all right now...
>>42154840well its your choice to make
>>42154874I know... I already made the choice to stop talking to her.It hurts though, almost as much as continuing to talk to her did.
>>42154840That's on you honestly to figure out. I personally like watching people I adore flourish even if it doesnt involve me.Maybe go get you a girlfriend and revisit the friendship later?
>>42154889but eventually you'll be able to move onhopefully soon, taake the time you need for yourself but make sure to take opportunities to meet new people if/when you feel ready
*whistles to myself nonchalantly*I love deceiving
>>42155092You're not racist I bet you would only judge someone based on their individual merits and not their ethnicity. Avoiding trashy YN's on public transit is just common sense it isn't racist or wrong.
you keep saying to get over strong feelings but my feelings are so pure and beautiful I will never get over them. even if I scared her away with them, they are so pure and beautiful. she will just never understand how special she is. I will never want to get rid of my beautiful feelings. if that is scary then I will be scary. if that makes me insane then I will be insane. I am filled with love and that in itself is beautiful.
