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i'm kinda socially retarded and can't communicate well. i pretty much have no friends at all, i haven't talked to anyone in months and i just wish i was different so i wouldn't be so alone
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It's normal to have no friends as an adult
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>>42164951
no, but it's normal to have no friends as a 4channer
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>>42164951
>>42164967
it's not normal but it is a common problem nowadays
do you have autism?
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>>42164951
You should get an internet boyfriend because I also had no friends before that and now I'm happier
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>>42164951
>>42164983

Seconded. As a chaser I would desperately love a lonely tranny with no friends.you should find one to make you very happy.
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Also I tried to e date a twink who had a solid friendgroup(most of his friends were girls, this in of itself was a huge red flag in hindsight) and we didnt go anywhere. I think he believed he was too good for me. As true as that may be I wasted my time trying to get him to like me instead of banging a twink off of an app or something.
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>>42164951
40 y/o chaser here
I have not had any RL friends for nearly 20 years. I only casually talk w/ a few people I met in a video game about 10 years ago. Otherwise I only ever hang out with whoever I'm dating

DESU I have people who wanted to be my friend only to realize I fucking cannot stand 99.999% of humans
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OP I had no friends as an adult
21st birthday I tried to get people to celebrate with but just got stood up by everyone including my sister.
I turned into a wrathful loner and was a pretty mean person for years after that.
Realized my bitter incel outlook was a self fulfilling prophecy and to work on being kinder and gentler towards everything.
Go on a discord server and it's a group of trans women being friends with each other in a clique and I'm permanently some nobody hovering on the edge of the crowd with no way to become one of those people.
Around 29/30 years old I finally found a group of internet cis men where I belonged and it feels like I have a group of people who care about me. It's not the same as a real life friend though.
Made friends with a cis gay man irl but when I grabbed coffee with whim he had a gaggle of adoring fans it's actually quite bizarre that he ran into 5 people he knew. He must have hundreds of friends or something. Complete opposite of me just a charisma chad.
Anyways life is painful and everyone is lonely these days.
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>>42164982
yes i have autism
>>42164983
>>42165007
i have a bf already he makes me really happy but i still wish i had friends to talk to or hang out with. plus anytime my bf is busy at work or anything i have no one to talk to
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>>42165117
does your bf have friends? have you ever met them?
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>>42164951
0 is the ideal friend distribution for a tranny
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I tried to date a guy who has a ton of friends (honestly too many because he's an extreme extrovert), but we didn't get very far. I kept trying to get him to commit to me and kept getting conflicting messages from him until I met someone else and gave up trying to force it to work as a proper relationship. Through him I now have a good amount of sorta friends. One thing that does kinda bother me is that the new guy I'm seeing doesn't really have any friends and seems to be kinda prone to blaming people that he can't get along with well and says he doesn't need friends. Idk if working on someone else's personality issues works or not, but I kinda feel bad for him not being able to properly understand why it isn't working for him.
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Im a cismoid and. I hadnt had friends in 7 years. I'm 20.
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>>42164951
My only friend is my boyfriend I'm also a loser
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>>42165354
Having known male sexuality i would worry that any bf i have as a troon would just want to use me as a convenient cumdump as opposed to having a real relationship
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It's 2026, it's normal for any adult to be friendless
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>>42165365
I worried about it too so I made sure my bf was hyper masc, stories here scare me tho... imagine getting a bf and he ends up being a fucking sissy
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>>42165385
I dont date but im open with my trannyfriends that im not much of a man and they always want to groom me but i dont feel like a woman at all. I'm just a moid with psychosexual issues.
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>>42165401
Being slightly fem and not weird with it can be sexy tho, being an actual masc guy and being weird with it is not
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>>42165436
Im not fem i'm balding and ogreskulled and filthy i just dont perform well as a male which is why i dont date or axt competetively ever or anything.
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>>42165385
my current one is like that, pretty masc and has a huge sex drive (porn addict type). He has a high bodycount but is at the point of realizing he wants an actual committed relationship and that continuing to sleep around isn't what he wants. People say it's all red flags but he seems like he has potential to me. He's not gonna troon out or try to find a guy to top him.
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>>42165504
If he watches a lot of porn that is a red flag desu, hopefully he's nice and settles with you and stops watching porn
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>>42165461
You sound depressed af desu, are you working out and keeping yourself clean?
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>>42164951
Yes trannies are autists, and autists lack friends.
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>>42165190
he does but most of them are late 20's mid 30's guys and i don't have anything in common with them
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>>42165685
you should find some female friends
do you ever go to parties where you can meet people?
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>>42165534
Not at all. I do the bair minumum to try and get my hair back since its a recent thing. Might be failing out of college doe.
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Just look for a social event in your area that looks relatively troon-friendly and bring food. If you can’t cook get some cookie dough
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>>42165524
>If he watches a lot of porn that is a red flag desu
What makes porn a red flag, honestly? I mean, I'd get it if he was still watching it with us living together, but we aren't at that point yet, so like I get it since he still needs to deal with being horny when we aren't together.
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>>42165873
Seeing how horny other guys get makes me feel emasculated. I have very uneventful faps like once every two weeks but i've heard some people get genuinely pants-straining painfully hard multiple times a day and then jerk it up and down crazy style for hours and i'm like eh ?
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>>42164951
I have Borderline PD. The number of close friends I have IRL is basically zero at this point. I keep losing it, burning bridges, etc. You aren't alone here. I basically talk to my mother daily. It's very sad and lonely, but it could be worse. I could have repped and kms.
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>>42165936
>very uneventful faps like once every two weeks
Have you ever had your t levels checked? I know some ace people who are completely fine with the fact they aren't horny and don't masturbate, but not so much for guys that aren't ace. I was also in something of a situationship with a guy who was self reportedly a late bloomer to masturbating, but it seemed like his sex drive was normal and he masturbates a decent bit now. I'd say a normal amount is gonna be somewhere between like twice a day and once every few days. Before I trooned I really couldn't bear to go more than like a week without it. I'd start having wet dreams at some point if I didn't masturbate at least somewhat often. Going crazy style isn't necessary by any means, but it sounds like you're having troubles with how it is right now.
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>>42166079
Just makes me feel fairly unmanly in comparison. I dont really have the desire mentally to fap more than what my body craves but whenever i do coom it's just kind of a barely registered sensation most of the time. Like a biological necessity instead of something i enjoy.
I think i might be depressed or low T bc i dont even get morning wood anymore.
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>>42166124
You should probably see a doctor about it. If you're feeling depressed, I'm pretty sure that low t could also be the cause of that as well.
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>>42166157
I'm getting bloodwork done and hormones checked and all that. dont exactly want to do TRT since that can make you go bald and i'm pretty young so that'd nuke my heart.
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>>42166256
Going bald will happen based on genetics and if you have a reasonable T level, not specifically because of TRT. Also, they have drugs to help avoid that if the men in your family are prone to baldness.
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>>42166342
They are, but all the meds agains that lower T so it'd be pointless to do both dutasteride and TRT at once.
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>>42166365
Whatever, better to be a bald man with a functioning sex drive than a more slowly balding one without one. There are plenty of hot bald guys out there.
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>>42166428
I'm also short so i disagree though i understand where you're coming from.



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