why are you gay?

why does it suck?
asking so when I eventually get a boyfriend I can not suck

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>>42168462
avoidant & immature
I can't discuss any serious issues with her without having to coddle her a bunch or else she'll hold a grudge over dumb stuff
if I'm a little bit mean she'll shut down and I'll have to spend days trying to get her to open up and realize talking things out works a lot better than isolating

>>42168829
Hey I hate to be a generic "u should break up :DDD" poster because that's the first thing people always say but I'm done with relationships where I can't discuss our issues. You're describing various exes of mine here basically and I just remembered a bunch of stuff I'm glad to not be dealing with right now.
If I can't go "hey XYZ made me upset and I want to talk about it" without coddling or sugar coating or grudge holding I'm just out, idgaf whatever troubled childhood she had I'm not dealing with it anymore. Not letting myself fall in love until we have at least one disagreement and I get to see how she deals with conflict resolution.
t. had a woman mad at me secretly for months because I made fun of a character's line in a show.

>>42168829
>avoidant & immature
Yeah. I mean we shouldn't frame it as a trans girl thing in general, but having any partner with those two qualities can really suck. Communication is so important to a relationship's health and success. I miss my recent ex with all my heart, but she was the most avoidant/uncommunicative person I have ever met. It led to so many problems, no matter how much patience I met it with.

>>42168975
>had a woman mad at me secretly for months because I made fun of a character's line in a show.
wtf

>>42169218
I didn't mean to trauma dump in your thread but you are describing people I dated. It just sucks ass idk man I feel for you. Having difficult uncomfortable conversations is supposed to be part of adulthood

>>42168126
most of the bait threads on here meant to be awful just slide off my back at this point, but this one got me. i am reminded i am an unlovable monster and my feelings are hurt great thankyou thankyou. i hope you are happy. you are so good at hating us

>>42169540
You are upset over nothing. As long you provide sex and provide sex when asked to you wont have any problems. Youre a woman right? It is literally your one purpose in life
Should be easy

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>>42168975
I'm sorry you had to go through that stuff nona
It's tough, but I really do love her a lot and I don't think she'd do well without me
she's been making progress lately but it's very hard on me when she gets like that
I just needed to vent a bit is all
I'm really hoping she can overcome this evil side of herself and do better
I know she doesn't want to be like this and I want to be there to help her become the girl she dreams of being
>>42169203
That sucks, anon, I'm sorry
>we shouldn't frame it as a trans girl thing
I'm just being petty because I'm upset
>>42169540
you're not an unlovable monster
I don't hate you and you shouldn't hate yourself
you're gonna make it, nona
I promise

>>42169567
i get so little satisfaction from the knowledge that im a better person than you

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>>42168829
>Tfw I'm kinda like this and my bf likes JoJo
Uh oh
u arent R are u?

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>>42170869
I'm not
my girl isn't allowed on 4chan anymore because it was very bad for her brainworms
you should check in with your bf and make sure things are okay though