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Do I just have to accept that I will never be a woman?
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>>42174753
RAPE
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>>42174753
>conventionally attractive woman
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>>42174753
yeah, and then you manage your expectations and work around it
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>>42174778
How do you work with "not being a woman" as a very dysphoric trans woman with severe self image issues and a tendency to spiral into negativity and self hatred that gets worse and worse and quickly turns into self-harm and suicidal ideation?
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>>42174753
Please, tv make and model
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>>42174825
old ass phillips tv
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>>42174790
the way you deal with anything exceptionally taxing:
therapy with someone competent and (ideally without, but if necessary) with meds
this sounds like dysphoria is just part of the bundle that comes with being you, and that sucks. maybe underlying conditions can be alleviated such that life becomes bearable to you.
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>>42174825
i was just wondering if you ever got your answer lol
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>>42174840
Point is I can‘t live as "not a woman". I would rather be dead than accept that
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>>42174884
i think you would be surprised to learn what people can live with.
this is still a matter for a competent therapist, though.
or an affirming therapist that will try to convince you that reality is not real.
either way, i hope you find peace.
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>>42174753
julie, why did you ever think that you could become something you aren't? if you don't identify as a woman no amount of transition will ever convince you that you are a woman. transvestites are not the same thing as transsexuals. it has to do with their psychology. you're proof of it.
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>>42174898
Just say that you don’t understand dysphoria and likely don’t live with it yourself or call this "functional repressing" or something like that. No matter the intentions your actions or rather your words don’t help when you are just talking out of your own ass
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>>42174753
Yes, and stop posting attention whore threads on this 2-3 times a week
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>>42174909
You misunderstood what I said. I know that I am a woman, it’s just that my body, my appearance, has caused me intense agony all my life and it’s hard to see any realistic way out of it. Before you say anything derogatory like calling me a transvestite again, maybe ask me a question first instead of interpreting your own meaning into my words
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>>42174915
i understand dysphoria fairly well, and i didnt call it "functional repressing". i told you what options you have outside of suicide, but clearly you just wanted affirmation (which is why you posted that picture in the first place).
not my job, though, and youre not really worth me going out of my way.
>>>/soc/
>>>/lgbt/passgen
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>>42174753
why the fuck do you have a ps4 sitting on a GAME CASE and a TV sitting on the ps4?
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>>42174925
Why do I even bother posting, I know none of you have any compassion for others left in you. I just scream into the void hoping to find some kind soul who listens and talks to me about it but it’s always the same
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>>42174935
>I don't like your looks and attitude so I am just going to talk out of my ass halfheartedly and either you accept what I say or I don‘t want to deal with you
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>>42174957
your looks are irrelevant to me (how would i even know that's you in the picture) and i dont find your attitude particularly displeasing. we just arent friends.
>why do people avoid dealing with me when im being rude
curious
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>>42174929
you said:
>>Do I just have to accept that I will never be a woman?
verbatum. this implies that you are not currently a woman. that means you identify as a man. quit your back pedalling you bandwagon tranny. literally: the reason you block your face is because of your shame revolving around your hair loss. instead of going to turkey for hair transplants you thought estrogen would help you regrow the lost hair. ridiculous. the early onset male pattern baldness was too much for your peter pan ego so in your pursuit of an escape you subscribed to transgenderism. the whole reason you get called a faker or a fraud is because you regurgitate rhetoric that you learned like monkey. monkey see monkey do. it has nothing to do with who you are as you're a wholey inauthentic person. a liar. you hop on the coattails of other because you're too stupid to chase clout of your own accord. you want the trickle down clout of those that came before you, the ones carrying you on their coattails.

please julie. become the hero we all know you can be so i never have to see you post anywhere anything ever again. i'm tired of your bullshit pity party.
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Genuinely yes, forget about it and live as a very fem man. That's what I do, still hurts but like at least you don't have to try and live in delusion
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>>42174778
>>42174989
>>42175044
You people are fucking miserable and ten times more delusional with your "feminine man > tranny" cope than any trans woman. Reading the replies to this post is like eating popcorn while watching monkeys fight
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>>42174753
Julie post disc
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>>42175060
i dont see how i'm coping with anything, i'm not the person with a problem itt
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>>42174753
seek the help of a mental health professional asap
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