I've got a new neighbour since a week and we're outside smoking pot together every day since...we've kinda become friends and he's rly chill, but I developed a crush on him...he's just so sweet and so much taller and stronger than me (most guys are about my height/not much taller), but he's straight and sees trannies as men (which we obv are)I think the reason I have a crush on him now is because he always humiliated me for basically being a woman mentally and physically softwhat do I do about this? I seethe more every day and can't rep my feelings any longer, but he won't be my friend anymore if I tell him and I don't deserve a guy like him anyway, so how do I cope/get rid of these feelings?t.giga-manmoder
>>42175742maybe start to gently flirt (still with plausible deniability) with him and see how he takes it?
>>42176364i neither wanna get hopes nor bother him, it def won't work and I just need to baka rep, cope with or if possible lose those feelings
>>42175742dress more fem and see if he says anything about it
>>42176364they said he's straight, so what would that accomplish?
>>42176724I have a friend who claimed straightness but then told me he's actually not entirely straight and is into traps after I came out to him.
>>42176533Fair. To get over it, constantly remind yourself of his flaws and that you wouldn't make a good couple even if things did work out at first. Doesn't have to end the friendship, but you need to change your perception of him
>>42175742>but he's straight and sees trannies as men (which we obv are)>>42176533>if possible lose those feelingsez then, if you think yourself such a man:>hey man love spending time with you but I gotta be honest with you, I'm a troonanneroidgendernerd and got a crush on you, and since you're straight and I'm totally a mandudebromasc I don't wanna harsh your buzz>whaddaya think would be best to do - no contact or sumshit?>t. actual man, ya woman
>>42177542i'm shy, unfortunagely that doesn't make me a woman tho
>>42178891true, your brain having been forcefem'd in utero does however
>>42178953nigger, iwnbaw
>>42179162ywnbam, retard
>>42179197i'm xy, you rly wanna make me kms rn...what is a woman in your opinion then? imo a woman is an adult human female... I don't fall under this category, therforce i'm not a womanalso what use would the title of "woman" have when i have a male body while everyone also treats me as a male? i don't wanna be a woman for the title, but the later two characteristics
>>42179296>you rly wanna make me kms rn...why would I want to do that?>>42179296>what is a woman in your opinion then? imo a woman is an adult human female... I don't fall under this category, therforce i'm not a womanthat's brainrotted terf 80iq idiocy, these retards wouldn't know disorders of sex development if their sibling had oneI don't care about words, I care about the objective reality - you've got gender dysphoria (I assume), so you're not a cis man, and with current med tech it's inhumane to make you larp as oneso next, the least worst treatment we have at the moment is transitioning, as much as possible given the social and biological circumstances. for the latter, ideally with medical help that actually gives a fuck about you instead of sticking to the standard of care, as that is hopelessly behind in this area (as expected, would take ages to get RCTs due to the usual factors, doubly so with how touchy the subject is ever since you were made a politics scapegoat), someone that would get you on a regimen, monitor, get a damn WGS and consult others so they figure out what actually gets your body to feminize in case you have the wrong genetics bugs to make you a low responder to E, and so onbasically in a decent society, the goal should be, first to have not left you to slip between the cracks, and instead diagnosed you at the start of puberty, and given you a dignified passing life; failing that, to help your transition as much as possible so you do have a female body (to the limits of current med tech - primary sex characteristics are still a frontier we should be working more on), and are treated as a woman
>>42179472>failing that, to help your transition as much as possible so you do have a female body (to the limits of current med tech - primary sex characteristics are still a frontier we should be working more on), and are treated as a womannot gonna happen, ergo iwnbawalso there is no such thing as a societyand I still don't get how feminized males are women, you can simply not change your gender... if you are male, you will always be male and nothing can change that atm and no straight guy will by definition date a male, so i'm stuck with a miserable life and will never be happy... can't rly change that
>>42179977>not gonna happenrepper?
