>>42179574
Leak sex tape

>>42179574
By introducing them to your new boyfriend, duh.

>>42179574
Let me dick you down in front of her.

>>42179574
with an animation meme

Suck a tranny penis and record it, then send it as a gift ;)

i don't understand gay men with wives AND kids. how do they manage to get it up and cum in a woman but still say they aren't attracted to her?

>>42179617
same way I can cum in a fleshlight
there's mechanical stimulation and I ignore the voices in my head screaming at me

>>42179600
im not that gay

>>42179574
Just tell them.
Get the divorce and spend all your money on child support and alimony.

>tell wife
>don't tell kids
>stay with wife for sake of children
>negotiate an open marriage? between only you and wife?
Inheritable wealth is built on lifelong marriages, consider what that does for your children.

>>42179767
my wife's family is rich and I paint houses.

>>42179867
But you are the one that wants another man's cock between your cheeks.

To the extent you can, make sure none of them can fuck with your assets and living situation. Prepare for the worst basically. Maybe legal advice idk. Then
>hey wife and three kids, i'm gay

>>42179574
How does it get this deep in? I’m genuinely curious where your mind was when she was merely just your girlfriend? Tell your story. Not trying to hate.

>>42179867
cash in on that alimony?

>>42179617

This is so retarded.

I hate blue cheese. But if all of society told me I was a faggot and couldn't get married or be respected if I didn't eat blue cheese, I would hold my nose and eat it. It doesn't mean it's what I prefer, it doesn't mean i don't find it gross.

>>42180089
I had met other girls before but she was a lot gentler and more understanding and her dad owns a big cattle ranch around here and I thought I could just charm my way in and make it work. I sort of figured on some level she has to have known, and is probably a lesbian herself. She's slightly a tomboy, her family has hunts on their ranch every so often and she tends to tag along. She doesn't really wear makeup.

We sort of fell in together. She was dealing weed when I worked at the pizza place and it was good weed. She doesn't do that anymore.

Everyone told me I couldn't find monogamy with a man and I should just settle for a woman. Plus, I wanted kids and I'm happy I have those, I just wish I weren't married to a woman.

>>42180200
she seems chill
I'll tell you again to stay together. Look up "lavender marriage." You don't even need to divorce. just work it out

>>42180200
I can relate to that.

t. repper with kids

>>42180186
I don't think you're following

Males, heterosexual ones, would get aggressive if pitted with another male with sexual intent, even if they liked them.
It's abject violence. Disgust. Combat.
Or just running away but not before the slug the fucker

>>42180216

Yeah why doesn't every gay person just marry women! Just do a lavender marriage bro! I'm sure your wife will be so heccin accepting!!

You ever wonder why divorce rates are like 50%?

>>42180237

Ooookay? And how does that in any way relate to a gay man fucking a smaller weaker woman in the name of comp het?

Honestly, just live the rest of your life in the closet. I don't think it's such a big deal compared to breaking up your family and life

>>42180186
whatever.

i get that i worded it crudely, but i still don't fully understand how it can be said that they are definitively "gay" and not "bisexual" when the act of (i assume, willingly) having sex with somebody multiple times would imply that you're attracted to them.

>>42180241
It's actually a decent option if you want a kid with your own genetics.
>You ever wonder why divorce rates are like 50%?
Because people are rushed into it as some checklist of status symbols like OP did.

Just float the idea
>"what if I was gay? should we stay together for the children?"
It's either "don't you ever say that again" or she calls you out and tells you that she knew basically the whole time. "Oh yeah I know that, but you seemed happy and I wanted kids too." Pretending to love someone sounds like hell but apparently not caving to peer pressure is worse somehow I guess

>>42180266
I'm thinking about it, but I want to feel the warm embrace of a man. And I wish I could touch a man and just hold him. And my kids would hate me if I did that. They would probably never speak to me again. And I've heard all these horror stories about women turning the kids against their exes.

>>42180291

Personally, and maybe I'm just too headstrong here (i'm a tranny after all) I feel like if I was a gay man I'd actually rather just be publicly married to a man or straight least have that goal, and if I was a straight women I'd rather have a marriage that wasn't just a shame for muh kids.

As for staying married for the kids, my parents actually literally did that and it's actually not as awesome as it sounds. Kids can very much tell when the parents don't love each other (yes incl. Sexually) and it can fuck up their concept of romantic love and sexuality for a long time. Kids need and deserve honesty from their parents and if they get the opposite they might get very traumatized.

>>42180387

Dude your kids will be fine with it eventually they're not going to be assholes about it. Can't say the same for the wife but honestly she'll probably come around. I don't think any of them would really want you to stay closeted, you shouldn't take advice from other reppers on this board who may or may not be 19 year olds shooting E in their mom's basement.

>>42180400
I had one friend whose parents divorced. They stayed in the same house together while he was in highschool and boy were they upset when he didn't go to college or work he just stayed in the house watching anime lol. Thanks parents. He was an only child though.
Just think of the children, they have more life to live than most people

>>42179617
Men will shack up with anything for convenience, they never had to love anyone

>>42180550
I have no interest in casual sex.

>>42180421
Gay men are seen as disgusting and unsafe. There's a reason I didn't come out so far. People do care, even if they say they don't.

>>42179617
>i don't understand gay men with wives AND kids.
My first reaction was "they're bi, not gay." But I've been with several guys who were married and had kids and they insist they are gay. They got married because of family or societal pressures, didn't enjoy sex with their wives and eventually it wrecked their marriage.