nonbinary people are the only ones to call me slurs. they joke, but they do it before even knowing me very well as a person, if at all. they justify it, claiming they're "reclaiming", and that they "should get used to the fact that not everyone likes being called slurs". i don't know what would give you the impression that people would automatically be okay with it in the first place. if they know you're trans because they met you through other poor friends, it's annoying. i feel like they think they're affirming you somehow, to acknowledge you being queer, but it's just irritating and uncomfortable.it would be more fine with me if it were people who had transitioned in some way medically, who have been seen as men in any way to have these pressures of strict adherence to masculinity put onto them by people they meet, but they've never touched HRT. this is multiple people now. it just bothers me and i need to get this out there.
It was unfamiliar to me at first but I had enough positive experiences with it that now I kind of associate it with a feeling of family. If you had very negative experiences involving slurs in the past I can totally understand you being uncomfortable with it. If you never had any particularly bad experiences involving slurs then you're overreacting to words. Either way, you don't have to hang out with people that you don't want to hang out with.
Just call them, "nonbiniggers" or something for being fake and niggerly
if they're over the top with it or are clearly trying to test you or get under your skin just tell them to get a real gender and grab some popcorn
>>42179976The mass group of nonbinary people who are just cis and do shit like this should be exterminated.>t. Medically and surgerically transitioned enby