i think the tweet is pointing out that oftentimes it is people who hypocritically make culture war politics and right-leaning agendas their entire personality, accusing others of making queerness a part of their personality in any degree as being "their entire personality" often because they lack self reflection and think that any open sexuality that isnt straight is obscene.

>>42181304
desu whenever I hear "im gay but I dont make it my own personality" it often translates to "I technically come out but still carry a lot of baggage about being gay" and the longer you spend time with them the more you realise they have no gay friends and their "accepting" family has a hissy fit over them doing anything remotely "gay"

Maybe im just salty though because I had such a woman come on to me hard over the last couple of weeks and then bail on me 2-3 hours before we were going to go out to a New Years eve event with a bunch of queer people

>>42181424
Or they just dislike loud, flamboyant queers

I support gays completely but if I know you're a fag within 60 seconds of meeting you then you honestly kill yourself lol.

>>42181461
I don't think so
Some men just naturally are just more feminine and have a fag voice

>>42181461
Agree 1000%.

>>42181449
Look, im aware enough as anyone that some members of our community can have... personalities. But thats why I chose this event, chill vibe skews a bit older and I was going to introduce her to some good people. the "Private group chat" crowd not the "public group chat" crowd

>>42181461
I agree with this but I also agree with the inverse, if I know you're a hetoid as well as soon as we meet then you should also kill yourself. I don't want to know anything about your sexuality unless we're friends and I ask.

>>42181461
>>42181516
I agree with both.
I honestly find it weird when people start talking about their sexuality mostly unprompted and within minutes of meeting them. Seriously, that shit is weird.

>>42181424
>the more you realise they have no gay friends
Other than my husband, I didn't have gay friends for many years. Because the "community" is full of largely off-putting personalities.
I can go to a church and get less weirded out than in a queer space.

In fact, I may have more gay acquaintances but I just don't know. Because I don't talk sexuality IRL outside of really close friends.

> t. married tranny