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Does not having kids bother you?
As long as I don’t think about it it’s fine, but every time someone does the whole “muh evolutionary purpose, the whole point of life is to have kids, if you don’t have kids you’ve failed as a life form and never experienced true joy” thing I want to curl up and die.
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>>42184363
the very fact that all men aren't doing this shows that most people aren't mindlessly reproductionmaxxing.
just because the evolutionary function of being alive is to pass your misery down to the next generation doesn't mean you need to mindlessly go along with it.
personally i think reproduction is evil and it's cruel to inflict life on another human being.
i am proud that my brain evolved to the point where it can transcend its dumbest instincts and understand that it's kinder to others and better for the environment to end my bloodline.
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I want to raise a being but not in a way that involves the government caring about the welfare of that being. Like I'm not gonna do a bad job of it, and that's my concern. The powers that rule us want my child to be a retarded lazy fat little faggot consoomer who trusts them instead of me and gets injected with tracking devices and survives off corn syrup, and I want to raise them to be better, so we will inevitably butt heads, and it's easier to just raise something that isn't even human that doesn't have thousands of invasive laws surrounding it.
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just bank before hrt
skill issue
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>>42184404
I (1) went the direction where that costs $10k to bank and more to use, and (2) was mostly sterile pre everything anyway
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>>42184363
A little, because my genes are good and i feel like im wasting them, but also im not ready for a kid regardless, and if i really wanted to i could donate sperm. I like kids, one day it might be nice to raise one, but not now. And certainly not because people expect me to. Ill do it when and if i know i can give someone at least as good an upbringing as i got. And obviously not if my bf has shit genes.
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>>42184363
No, by all accounts I am a failure and I wouldnt want to burden another human with my genetics. They would be totally retarded and useless and mentally ill. Most of your life is determined from genes and your parents temperament so its important to be responsible.
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the passing on your genes thing is small brained and a trap for drones, you're eventually mixed in with everyone else and your genes are disappeared just like everyone else's
and your inheritances will taxed, stolen, squandered
if you want to live forever your best bet is with your deeds, not your breeds
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>>42184474
>live forever with your deeds

cope
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>>42184363
What if you make a groundbreaking scientific discovery, create a great work of art, or help many people through charitable acts…but don’t have kids? Do you truly believe that would constitute failure as a lifeform? I think that would be an unbelievably primitive view. Having kids is one kind of purpose, but it isn’t *the* purpose—you’re not a drone.
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>>42184363
You are misattributing the phenomenon at work here:
>As long as I don’t think about it it’s fine
i.e. you don't give a shit about kids, because you never think about it
>but every time someone does the whole “muh evolutionary purpose, the whole point of life is to have kids, if you don’t have kids you’ve failed as a life form and never experienced true joy” thing I want to curl up and die
i.e. you want to rise to meet the expectations of others, and someone is explicitly judging you for your lack of kids, so you feel like a failure

I won't say "stop giving a shit about the expectations of others that are literally impossible for you to meet," because clearly that advice is unhelpful. You are a person that wants to meet the expectations of others, so it hurts you when confronted by people who are fundamentally incongruent with you life.
Instead, I will say you need to find more people that feed you with positive expectations, that are harmonious with your life and your values. Because they will push you to do the things you actually want to do, and become the person you actually want to be.
Perhaps you should also push some of the people incongruent with your values out of your life. But it's hard if they are family and shit. But if the preponderance of your social circle is affirming of your lifestyle and values, then the few negative people you meet will be obvious aberrations, and while you will still feel bad in their presence, once you leave those thoughts will quickly go away.
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>>42184363
Trannies weren't really the "go forth and be fruitful" type. In older societies we were adopting or helping out as caretakers. Which isn't bad, the world will always need mentors, caretakers, and adoptive parents.
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>>42184363
thd billions of people living in poverty and filth should tell you that having childen is not an accomplishment. such a normalfag cope because theyll never actually do anything noteworthy with their lives other than accidentally getting someone pregnant. we should just sterilize 90 percent of the population.
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>>42184474
The telegram guy from OP’s pic will have more genetic contribution in 500 years than the memetic contribution of like, 99.9% of people currently alive.
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>>42184533
Let’s be real I’m not doing those things either
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>>42184732
literal bug person mindset
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>>42184474
TRVKE

This weird obsession with passing your genes on is third world coded, every country that gets developed and educated starts seeing a downward trend in birth rates.

If you wanna have kids in this state of the world you’re no different than an animal reproducing just because of your instincts, you’re no different than a 600 pound obese person with 0 self control that just eats themselves to death because they just follow their most primal instincts of eating, reproducing and dying.
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>>42184363
i'd like to be a mother but i know im not equipped for it at all and i don't want to ruin some kid's life so i just look at pictures of animal families together and cry
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I don't care about having kids but I do wanna have an anal birthing orgasm.
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I can see how it could be fulfilling to raise kids, but the cons outweigh the pros to me. I don't care about legacy or whatever. It feels tacky to call those who do npcs or whatever bc it's such a basic urge of humanity and all of us are affected by our base urges whether we like it or not. Weirdo rich ppl like Elon or the telegram dude who are obsessed with having as many kids as possible are fucking weird for obvious reasons, but hey. There's a lot worse things people could do. I can't judge them for whatever psychological complexes they have going on that causes them to cope with existence in that way bc I'm a fucking weirdo for other reasons. I'm sure you are, too. We all are.

Personally, I believe every human was created with a purpose. God chose to create each and every one of us, no matter how boring you might think you are. We all have a role given to us in this grand merry go round of life I leading humanity to our final form. Having kids is just a single thing a human could do. Everything else we do is part of the domino effect of our consciousness. By purely existing, you are fulfilling your purpose. And it is one given to you by God. God literally chose to make you exactly as you are. What's there to feel shame for? You really think people have any business balking at a decision made by God? Lol
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>>42184474
So you want people to go extinct?
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>>42185022
God isn’t real bro
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>>42184363
>Does not having kids bother you?
Yeah, but it's not like I can do anything about that.



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