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i'm bi. i have a t4t girlfriend. i would never tell her this. but my comphet is severe.

i'm not a puppygirl. i'm not autogynephilic. i'm not meta-attracted. i'm not ase. i'm not a gigahon (semipassoid). i'm not a creep. i'm not unfashionable. i'm not into anime. i'm not into fighting games. i'm not into board games. i'm not into map games. i'm bad at most vidya desu. i'm not a top. i'm not dominant. i'm not loud. i'm not autistic (i'm not). i'm grossed out by diapers and incest and loli and whatever.
i can cook. i do my nails. i'm constantly improving my transition. i can do my hair well.

i don't agree with these stereotypes btw... but i'm not any of the things someone would say a tranny is fakewoman for... EXCEPT being transbian.... and i feel so malebrained and amab and twittertroon.
i hate that i'm a cliche.
i can't even say i'm a lesbian for her.
i feel so bad :(((((((
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>>42185861
Idk this sounds pretty agp to me
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>>42185861
You are agp.
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>>42185861
>i'm not autistic (i'm not)
retarded then
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please define comphet and MEF
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>>42186278
i'm not MEF?
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>>42186292
thats ok. im just trying to learn what these words mean and i figured if youre using one i dont know you probably know a few others as well
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>>42185861
I feel bad for your girlfriend
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>>42186318
me too :(
that's why i need to fix this :(
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>>42185861
>i'm not a top
>i'm not dominant
neither are most transbians?
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>>42185939
>>42186248
>>42186262
can u all pls stop ur not helping :(
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>>42186325
ik but that's something that's "malebrained" and then ppl say makes you a man and fakewoman...
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>>42185939
>>42186248
>>42186262
stop scaring the poor girl !! for gods sake
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>>42186332
>>42186350
There's nothing wrong with being agp.
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>>42185861
Go date a man for a few years and you’ll completely stop being comphet. There’s a reason why chasers say that trans women date men and then leave them for transbian relationships. It’s because being a trans woman involves such a specific and complicated experience that most non trannies will force you to mask various things due to just differences in person. It’s hard to explain but it’s not really sexual imo it’s just about personal understanding. I dated a man for a while and went from being kind of het leaning to considering myself mostly interested in other trans women. The level of mutual attunement is very difficult to replicate
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>>42186434
see i understand this on a logical level.. i know what i have with her is special (which is why i need to fix myself)

but she's had that experience with men and i haven’t so i don't really get this? this is my first relationship. and she's had several (of various genders)

and rly i don't want to break up with her to learn the lesson that i should have stayed :(
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>>42186396
there isn't but why do i feel like there is.
how do i get rid of this shame?
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>>42185861
>i'm so sad!! here's all the ways i'm so much better than my girlfriend and all other trannies. please feel sorry for me and tell me how awesome i am at the same time ;((((((((((((((((((
you're right, you are a real woman. only a woman could be such a shameless piece of garbage
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>>42185861
Hey I just wanted to say that wanting to date a man because of your own self-hatred for transbians based on stereotypes is pathetic and you're a bad person and your gf deserves better
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>>42185861
Ok, so you don't do any of the bad (or neutral) things which are sterotypical of transbians. Why is there any shame then?
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>>42185861
I'm into light petplay. I can easily be defined as AGP. I'm unfashionable. I'm into good anime (how are you not? Boring). I vaguely like fighting games. Vidya is my main hobby. I'm a switch. I'm kinda autistic.
I can cook. I file my nails short. I'm a depressed fucking mess. I can do my hair okay.

I am the fake transbian hon of your nightmares, be afraid of me

Anyway you really need to stop caring about this stupid stuff so much. Transbians are kinda cringe. So what, get over it lol, it isn't some existential horror. Imagine unironically letting retarded posters on /lgbt/ convince you to hate yourself. This is more cringe than the most autistic gamer tranny
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>>42186455
>how do i get rid of this shame?
you love your gf. t4t is pure and beautiful. Dont be like me and mess up
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>>42185861
you let em infect you with the brainworms and now you gotta deal with the symptoms
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>>42185861
youre everything you fear (and more) and should probably break up with her and be sad as penance
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>>42186457
no i'm not better, i said i don't believe in those stereotypes making you more or less of a woman (even the creepy ones)
i didn't even say she did those things.
i just feel "not valid" by these stupid standards even though i otherwise would fit some definition of "trutrans" just because i'm gay.

>>42186462
i don't believe in the stereotypes. also i want to date her.

>>42186483
they aren't all bad stereotypes. and it's because i'm gay :(

>>42186536
i'm not afraid of you, you're fine. i just feel insecure about being a transbian.
> get over it lol
this is the part i need help figuring out.
> Imagine unironically letting retarded posters on /lgbt/ convince you to hate yourself
it's more society in general i fear judgement from, not 4channers lol.

>>42186568
okay i will <3

>>42186576
what does this mean :(

>>42186585
i should be sad and pay penance but idk if i should break up bc that would hurt her too.
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>>42185861
doomed yuri brainworm4sneedhon
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>>42185861
Search up the formulas of sexuation please.
You are just fine and have nothing to be ashamed of.
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>>42187692
i don't really understand it well. i'm kind of stupid. if you have time can you explain? also why is it relevant to this?

being the love object seems very nice though wow.. :O
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>>42187809
>being the love object seems very nice though wow.. :O
never beating the agp allegations
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>>42185861
this is a bit of a longshot but were u the anon who met her gf thru twitter and then got asked out after a very expensive date? and that you'd prefer to date a guy, but youre worried he might leave u if he suddenly stops liking u?
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>>42185861
you are definitely AGP. you don’t end up a transbian otherwise. you sound really insufferable too ngl. like wow you do your nails, what a huge flex, such normie, waow.
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> female brained person

> same-sex attracted

I have news for you OP, female brained people can be attracted to the female sex. The only difference is you got unlucky and your fembrain got put in the wrong chassis. There are cisf bisexuals, cisf lesbos, even cisf puppygirls. It's not AGP just to be SSA, want sex, or even have kinks.
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>>42188265
>like wow you do your nails, what a huge flex, such normie, waow.
no i'm not flexing, i don't believe in those stereotypes making you more or less of a woman (even the creepy ones)
i just feel "not valid" by these standards just because i'm gay, even though i otherwise would fit some definition of "trutrans"

>>42188260
uhhhhhhhhh *gulp*
i might also be slliiiiightly ragebaiting / altering things / leaving out some concerns in this thread.. but i do actually have genuine concerns yeah. :< i was sad that thread got nuked yesterday.
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>>42185861
Well, you are agp
You are not trutrans
But thats okay doll.
You deserve to be happy, and if being with another trans girl makes you happy you should do that.
I do wish I could have you as my puppygirl and to marry you, but if you don't like cis guys like me why should you feel ashamed about it?
Stop caring about what others think, doll
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>>42188324
im worried even this thread would get nuked. is there any chance i could add u and talk to you? i just wanna know ur story and how you wound up in the situation ur in. im the person that was talking to you yesterday when that thread was nuked.
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>>42185861
putting down others like you so you can try to escape out of the bucket is genuinely so disgusting. you dont deserve your gf
also agp isn't real lol



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