A regular blowbuddy of mine (20, twink/fem bottom, likes to crossdress, attends local college) got kicked out of his parents on Halloween and I let him crash at mine (pullout couch in living room of 1 BR apartment). On our way to my apartment I made a joke about him paying for rent by sucking me off every other day and cleaning the apartment weekly but he actually has been doing that and cooks dinner and packs me lunch most nights. He even got a french maid outfit and wears it some days when cleaning. He knows I dont want a relationship and hes nearly done with getting enough credits to transfer to a university where he'll qualify for loans and probably be in a dorm. I made it clear if he wants to see other guys I don't care but he can't bring them over and he said he appreciates it but doesnt have time, doesnt like most guys in the area, and said he doesnt mind if I bring other guys and girls over and he can be discreet or join. We may do a MFM bi threesome.Obviously I (33, bi otter top daddy) like this. Never have felt like my balls were drained like this since quitting porn/fapping last decade. This is as fulfilling as when I was with my ex and we were bi swingers on Fetlife. But there is a deep seated fear I can't shake. Can this arrangement fuck me over? If he ever feels like not sucking me off I wouldn't push it (I already, even before he moved in, never pushed it when he didn't want to get fucked). I looked into it and the cleaning thing can be legit barter. I'm thinking of making a rental agreement that does does that and keeps it at that. All my sensitive stuff is locked in a safe and I already use a PO Box. He's borrowed money for groceries but promptly pays me back even though I insist he doesnt need to.Anyone been in a similar situation? Tips? Tricks?TLDR Dream come true for me but want to cover my ass
>>42186778You have a rentboy. Congrats. A few of my friends used to be rentboys. This is common enough in the gay community that the twink probably knows what’s up more than you do from the sounds of it. Just let it ride and enjoy it.
>>42186916I dunno, I've always had to train him on certain things that are usually, I dunno, commonly known like preparing his ass, testing, poppers, PrEP, etc.Any watchouts as the uh renter? CA state doesnt have common law issues, though he should be done with college either next winter or spring 2027.
absolutely disgusting. why are gay men like this
