Why is it that only hypersexual transbian hons are interested in me, all the passoids i know are either not looking or taken or are a walking red flag, i want a passoid gf that is not a sex obsessed feind who just wants to chill and is emotionally avaliable, whoever suggests i date cis women will be obliterated, maybe my only option is theyfabs...
why is it so important to you?
Have you considered men?
>>42194553Men(chasers) prefer twinkhons. Men(regular) prefer cis women
I feel horrible for thinking the same way. Maybe im a chaser but I want to date other transwomen that also pass.
>>42194586You think men won't want you because you pass too well?
>>42194586i can vouch that this is true. i generally dislike SRS vaginas but i would rather take a twinkhon with SRS pussy than a fully passing troon with a dick. its just not hot anymore for some reason if you actually seem fully like a woman.t. chaser
I'm sorry for being clocky, malebrained, hypersexualI wish I could be what you want. I'm so tired of wanting to belong to someone for life but it never works because I'm too stupid, fucked up, sex driven, obsessed with needing to be owned, and not even with an attractive body to make up for all that. Just a stupid clocky cute androgyny face not even a woman's face. Fuck me
transbians are so funny
>>42194553If i found men attractive i wouldn't be here complaining about hons wouldn't i?
Not my fucking fault shit family screwed me up and made it impossible to transition until it was too late
>>42194675But what if we were lying on a blanket by the fire on a warm summer night looking up as the stars just begin to become visible. You're telling me about a book you just finished reading. I ask some questions about the characters and the plot and you answer even though we both know I'll never read it, because I don't read.We start to point out constellations. Just the easy ones. I tell you about the trick of using the cup of the big Dipper and the handle of the little Dipper to face north. You use that to estimate the direction of your house. Close enough.We pass a cheap bottle of wine back and forth, taking sips. Each handoff, our hands get a little closer (am I doing that, or is it you?) until the bottle is nearly empty, and they touch.I put the bottle down in the sand. You notice the lightning bugs starting to flicker around us. I brush a small twig out of your hair.Our other hands are touching. When did that happen? You smell sweet pipe tobacco. my cologne. You already made fun of me for wearing it even though I don't smoke. It mixes with the sweet cherry smell of the wine. We're close now. Can you feel your heart beat?I lean in.Wyd?
>>42194592i also think im so evil for that but i cant lie about my wants
>>42194552cuz i want to truly be loved and i dont expect that from a cissie>>42194751that sounds adorable anon, idk i think i would kiss you and then lean my head on your shoulder and continue to talk about some other nerdy things
>>42194751I would've scooted away uncomfortably when you started brushing up against me and ask about your latest video gaming
I am in a passoid for passoid relationship. It sound to me that even if passing is a consideration for you, the thing you are looking for in a partner first and foremost is being normal and chill and not some sort of cringe tranny. Most trannies, especially online, are not very well adjusted and have a lot of unchecked mental illness. The issue you have is you are using a body of mentally unwell people as your assumed dating pool. Normal well adjusted pretty trannies exist but they leave that group of people and assimilate into the world more widely. And so to find a relationship with one, you need to do the same thing you would do to find any other relationship. Live a full life, grow, work on yourself, put yourself into the world. The way you talk in OP tells me you are most likely a hyper online shut in with low self esteem, and so you are still part of the group of poorly adjusted weird trannies.
>>42194543>is not a sex obsessed feind who just wants to chill and is emotionally avaliable,That's me but it's extremely extremely rare for me to develop an attachment to other people. If we become close, then I'm the most loyal girl in the world, and full of love and energy. But that's a big ask. It tends to just happen on its own from time to time.
>>42194894Thanks for your suggestion but how can I find one in the wild in a country with few trans people, the local trans community here is basically a one big friend group, everyone knows eachother and my OP is from my experience mingling with them IRL.
>>42194818We kiss, both holding our breath until we let out an exhale at the same time. You feel my lips move into a smile against yours. My hand is on your waist, yours on my cheek, rubbing against my stubble.We break and watch the reflection of the fire dance in each other's smiling eyes for a moment. You put your head on my shoulder, I put my arm around you.I take your hands in mine, warming up your chilly fingers.We chat into the night. You talk about your hobbies, books, games, crafts. You catch me not paying attention; not because I'm not interested, but because I got so lost in listening to the pleasant sound of your voice that the words weren't registering.I ask random questions. What's your favorite retro console? What should have gotten a sequel but didn't? Do you get more excited about flowers or mushrooms? What's your favorite dessert?You don't know it yet, but I'm going to find the place that makes the best version of that dessert to take you on your upcoming birthday. Maybe I'll even find that old console on eBay.The fire dies down and you start to get sleepy.Let me drive you home.
>>42194937Ya your local community is unstable that was my point. The normal ones don't fuck with other trans people in that way. They have their friends who may or may not be trans and probably do not engage with the scene much because its full of unstable weirdos.
>>42194543>i wanna date a passoid>no cis lesbians though!!explainalso, what's wrong with being sex obsessed
>>42194543I had thisbut unfortunately there is only one passoid on earth that isnt fucking evil and its me
>>42194543You became a full time drag queen so that you could then date women, which already makes no sense, and you're also especially obsessed with being with another he-she drag queen that you can have gay boy butt orgies with. So, you're clearly extremely mentally ill and delusional. If I were you I'd be worried about surviving past your 30th birthday given your extreme mental illness, not so much playing butt games with other crossdressers (who won't do that with you btw, because there aren't very many people who have the kind of mental illness that you have, and you're chasing after a delusional fantasy). Hope that explains why you're struggling.
>>42195397am not op but, I just notice throughout my interactions with every cis woman (or trans man for that matter) there’s a level of disconnect that is missing for me before I’d consider dating/long-term with any of them. Cis men included. Being friends with anyone non-trans fem is fine but it hasn’t really compared to that “just get it” and empathy vibe experienced with other trans women (as well as the type of neurodivergence that makes me smile).That said; most other trans women are way too unstable (understandably so due to hard lives and terrible political exposure), or are obsessed with sex as their choice of drug to the point they’ll ignorantly abuse and even rape others to get their fix.>what’s wrong with being sex obsessedI don’t want a relationship where nearly everyday is like a scripted OF scene. I enjoy connecting and sharing hobbies and living an enriched life with another that is more than 1-dimensional.I’m minimally self-aware there’s probably still some unchecked illness even with myself if I’m here contributing, but it’s cathartic to vent frustrations every now and then, while also working on improving the situation.
>>42195636You said every single word i wanted to say>>42195397Consider my response the same as them
>>42195636real
