27 yo passoid about to start my first job in an office behind a desk after working wagie bullshit all my life. Is it even worth coming out at work or should I stay stealth?
>>42198096Stealth
>>42198096Oh how I envy youI think the best approach would be to be cautious and wait to see what your coworkers attitudes would be toward it. Maybe mention a non existent trans roommate or family member if you wanna start a conversation about the topic.
>>42198096>hey everyone i was born with X genitalswhy?
>>42198096no point in coming out at workunless it's like a super liberal area and it makes your boss scared to fire you
>>42198096Fuck you. God i hate passoids
>>42198161>I hate people prettier than meseems like your brain passes at least
>>42198096Yes OP you should absolutely come out. I recommend doing it in a safe space environment, like the women's bathroom. Alternatively you can send out a company wide email letting everyone know you have a penis but use she/her pronouns, this way people will be less likely to misgender you or treat you differently.
>>42198096Post pic I'll tell you legit if you pass.(You) Don't Get To Grade Your Own EXAMS.Passing implies normies reflexively interpret your presentation, and thus authentic, genuine... You know, the real deal... Post pic.
>>42198096"I'm living the best life a tranny could ever live. Should I ruin that by humiliating myself in front of people I barely know?"
Life advice from an oldhead: the people you work with are not friends and should always be treated as (conditionally) friendly-acting adversaries. You should still larp like you think you are their friend, as much as possible, because it is advantageous for you. But make no mistake they will throw you under the bus if it is to their advantage. And you should do the same without hesitation.So, no, you absolutely should not tell them about your personal life unless it's something you can't hide.
>>42198519let me actually clarify that a little: you should "tell them about your personal life" to the extent that it paints a picture that is advantageous to you. Basically think of it as a verbal instagram larp. Don't lie, but strictly withhold information as needed and feel free to bend the truth.
>>42198096if you're stealth the only time you should disclose is probably after the second or third date with someoneeveryone else doesn't need to know, except maybe your doctor if it become relevant
>>42198519>>42198541This is the way. They are not your friends. Be friendly but don't get too close. Nothing good can come of it>t. 33 yo corporate troon of 8 years
>>42198096You won't be able to keep up the lie around biological women who spend time with you all day every day for years unless you stay awkwardly distant in which case you'll be ostricized for being weird.
>>42198215anon, u realize by posting ur edgy webm youve basically made nobody trust u with their photos right, ur just announcing to the thread that you save unpleasant shit to make peoples days worse, so why would any trans person trust you on an anonymous board with their selfie. for all they know youll just try to out them
>>42198147absolutely never do this >>42198096stealththere is literally zero upside bringing this out it's way too personal for coworker relationships
