>be me>mtf 20s transbian pass hot idk>arrive late to NYE party w gf and friends>start talking to old friend "max">max says "thank god, everyone has been third wheeling me the entire bight">party is geniunely boring, every couple is in their own world>catch up w max>another friend "emma" walks up visibly drunk half awake>"im down half a dozen beers now">she looks like it, she gazes emptily into space like shes about to fall>she snaps back and says "yeah i was about to kiss you but your gf is here">what?>i did not enjoy this comment>comment felt gross>not sure what kind of face i made but she left after my expression>stay until its 2026>leave p much immediatelyever since i started transitioning i told myself that i wouldve made it when women start disrespectfully hitting on me. first time it happens, it turns out getting hit on is actually gross as everyone said:(how was yr nye?
>>42200870I'm sorry that happened to you :(My nye was okay. Went to a house party. Was the only queer there. No twink to kiss at midnight, but that's nothing new.
>>42200870>nervous late 20s hon>late to party because every fit seems way too agp and I'm depressed rn>settle on very basic fitted tee, jeans and a random bra>arrive at 11, having a hard time socialising but strangers keep starting convos which is very unusual for me>2 creepy guys hit on me and everyone keeps complimenting my halfassed outfit>at midnight everyone else makes out and i go hide in the bathroom cos upset then leave at 5 past>friend insists on following me to check im ok and talk>"are you wearing a padded bra? everyone's been talking about your tits all night">oh for fucks sake
didn't kiss anyone but hung out w my ex and my friend and we were all each others parents
>>42201033what does this mean
>>42201087well i cooked while they talked to each other. and then me and my ex talked to my friend about something she knew less about. lots of dynamics going on especially when everyone i've ever dated turns out to be my dad. even if they're a woman and actually especially.
>>42200870i spent my nye on this board talking to other anons
>>42200870Yeah it sounds a bit degrading.The solution is to hang out with people who don't date. Then nobody tries hitting on you and nobody ignores you in favour of their partner.
I got invited out to a NYE party by another transfem I was flirting with earlier and when I arrived I find she also invited someone else without telling me and was just all over her the whole night. I just kind of awkwardly participated in small talk with other ppl while they were eating each other's face and left after the new year. Weird night but it's about part for the course when dealing with other trans ppl.
I didn't spend my time with anyone because I have no real friends. Cheers anon I'm sorry that happened.
>go to new years party>hardly speak for 6 hours>come home to flirt in chasergen and watch adam sandler moviespretty ok night i guess
