I don't think fetishization/chaserism is that bad. Typically, when I fetishize someone, I feel a very strong sexual attraction to them. Combined with certain personality traits of them, it makes me want to love, cherish and protect them forever. Heterosexual sex is mostly fetishism, the concept of a wife and her physical appearance in contrast to her husband is more attractive than the actual woman and such. Therefore, chaserism is more or less typical straightness.
>>42204421having a fetish isn't bad, fetishising someone is bad. and by that i mean being a huge creep to people about your fetish
>>42204421Troons tend to feel validation when they have control over men. It's why a lot of chasers end up becoming transbians anyway, plus all that porn addiction.It's become such a buzzword, but a chaser is simply a man that is gamp-attracted. It's clear that transbians are simply threatened by men threatening their market, and so they push all this anti-chaser sentiment.
>>42204421the problem is that 98% of chasers are extremely low quality men
>>42204441I AM a huge creep and pervert, but only with people who appreciate it.
>>42204421>Therefore, chaserism is more or less typical straightnessNah, its normal homosexualism
I’m a chaser because I want a woman with a penis.(I am a cis woman)
>>42204421i have never understood the screehing about fetishism or chasers.>youre not allowed to reject me over being trans/asian/skinny, thats transphobia/racism/problematic!>nooo youre not allowed to WANT me because im trans/asian/skinny, thats chaserism!you just cant win. love whoever you want as long as youre respectful about it. stop giving a shit about retarded normie discourse t: tranny who loves chasers
>>42204662my favorite kind of person. we should kiss and breed t:>>42204706
>>42204662Whats the point even? Their dicks don't work properly. I see no added benefit of a limp cock.
>>42204737whats this meme? my dick works just fine. ive got a friend on hrt and her dick works just fine. skill issue ong
>>42204492True
>>42204706trvkeMy husband was a lowkey chaser. He was nowhere near as desperate as chasers are portrayed on these boards, but clearly being a tranny was a plus for him.Thank God these brainworms weren't so common back when we met.Still, once the "yay, I'm with a tranny" novelty wears off, personality is still make or break in the relationship. There's more to life than just sex.
>>42204494well, whether you're right or wrong, maybe a good time to just double check and make sure of that (the 2nd part)
>>42204492so are 98% of trannies, your point?
>>42204862you are that happily-married stealther that cooks for friendgroups during the holidays, yes?what the fuck are you still doing in this cesspool? you have a great life
>>42204897>what the fuck are you still doing in this cesspool?Every several months or so I have time to kill that is not enough for a movie but too long for just scrolling.Also, the weather is shit-tier (and I'm outdoorsy). Legit nothing else to do.Every once in a while I am hit by a desire to at least try to give a good word to another tranny struggling. I want other trannies to win at life. And it's harder now since mentorship is shunned.Maybe I'm too naive. But occasionally some nona is being helped by something I wrote.>you have a great lifeYes. I certainly would be a cunt if I were to complain.But I also think a lot of it is the result of putting in the work and learning to enjoy the journey. And a lot of that is under the control of the individual. If even one nona considers that, then at least I did some good too.Am I being too naive? Be honest.
>>42204934i think your efforts are wasted in 4chan. this place is home to the worst of the worst who genuinely wouldnt even deserve happiness even if they were capable of getting it
>>42204934i think you're naive if you think this is what people on this board want to hear. you may think it's what they need to hear, but from an outsider's perspective, it's far easier to ignore you on the basis of "you're just flaunting your assumed superiority" than to engage with what you're saying.
>>42204953>>42204958very bleak :sob:Then what? While not everyone can achieve everything, there is room for improvement even for the least fortunate.If nobody even tries, then the void wins.What's that quote that the only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good (wo)men to do nothing (or something to that effect)?I'm still looking at a way to start an IRL tranny support group, but I'm not sure that's worth it either as it'd soon be flooded by gigacommies and more crabs in the bucket.This is all so bleak. I just want more happy trannies. Is that really so bad and undesirable?
>>42204991What would you define as a crab in a bucket? I’ve only really encountered them in the music scene I occupy (because I’m a damn good drummer), and not really in IRL trans spaces. Oftentimes women like you who have lived a long time as yourself (aka you came out pre 2020) are misinterpreted as pulling the ladder out from under them lol.
>>42204991i'll try to be charitable here:you clearly have reasonable frustration with the situation and you're well-intentioned.but your delivery/stance is such that anyone attuned to language and on the edge about how life is going will reject it just out of resentment.and that's not necessarily something they did; that's possibly something that you did with the "how", even if the "what" is noble. this post too can be read as martyr-adjecent, self-soothing heroism porn. and i don't think that's your goal or default state of mind.
>>42204421>i don't think something that i do is badfascinating , really interesting thread
>>42204742>her dick
>>42205016>What would you define as a crab in a bucket?Every time I offer actionable advice, a third party comes in and insists it doesn't work even though routinely that third party hasn't tried it themselves either.And it's always some weird (routinely terminally online brainrot) motivation for rejecting it too.>drummerCute <3I used to do voice for a death metal band.>are misinterpreted as pulling the ladder out from under themAny idea why?>>42205018>languageOkay, then tell me what I should change on language, please.My native tongue isn't English but I doubt everyone will learn my native tongue in order to get a more profound meaning. I'm not strong enough to form a cult.
>>42204934Are you that misogynistic trooncell who wants to hurt cis women? You have nothing positive to give us if you are
>>42204991Please keep doing what you're doing. There's not enough people like you in the world
>>42204889they are mentally ill and think they should expect the same a 8/10 cis woman would
>>42204421gay men with long hair will cry about anything.https://www.tiktok.com/@maid.satinfairy/video/7576295820459396365
>>42205220>self-positioning as the enlightened exception - "every once in a while i am hit by a desire to at least try to give a good word to another tranny struggling" (quasi-spiritual calling vibe) or "occasionally some nona is being helped by something i wrote" (focus on own words as the saving force)>soft bootstrap narrative as universal truth - "a lot of it is the result of putting in the work and learning to enjoy the journey. and a lot of that is under the control of the individual" plus the classic "if even one nona considers that, then at least i did some good too">humility as a shield - "am i being too naive? be honest"invites criticism but makes it feel like kicking someone vulnerable>escalating to moral/cosmic stakes when pushed - "if nobody even tries, then the void wins">burke paraphrase about good (wo)men doing nothing - "i just want more happy trannies. is that really so bad?">externalizing failure to communicate onto audience/environment - "it'd soon be flooded by gigacommies and more crabs in the bucket"the overall tell is the constant subtle contrast between "me (successful, altruistic, seeing clearly)" and "you/them/this place (struggling, bleak, crabby)". it's wrapped in care and emojis, which hides the hierarchy even more.i get the esl angle, i have the same issue a lot. understand that this is what someone might gather from what you're saying even if that's not your intention. i'm not saying they're right, i'm saying you aren't communicating effectively enough that what you're trying to do actually succeeds.
