I have a question for my fellow trans:Let’s say you’re at a queer/ alternative event at a bar or nightclub. You see a transwoman, she doesn’t pass but she’s visibly on hormones, has an outfit that flatters her body type, makeup is done properly, etc. You notice that she’s been going into the men’s bathroom room instead of the women’s room. What are your thoughts on this? Do you shrug and not care? Do you think “ewww, crossdresser!” Or is it some mix of pity and confusion? I manmode in my day to day life and go out in girlmode to alternative events on weekends where I know that I won’t be the only tranny they’re getting stared at by normies. I think of myself as nonbinary, and while maybe it’s right for some other transwomen to use the ladies room it feels wrong for me to bring my bulky man body in there and make cos women uncomfortable, it’s out of principle, I’m not actually a woman. Yet I’m the only transfemme I see doing this. Even the 6ft 3 gigahons use the ladies room. Am I actually just making everyone more uncomfortable?
>>42210397I girl mode in my everyday life and still use mens spaces because I have a lot of trauma connecting to other women, I just want to be left alone.- t girl
>>42210458Yeah a lot of the time when I try to connect with women on a friendly level their body language gives away what they really feel
