pic is not rel also this is my first post, I hope it doesn't reek of newfag but I literally have nowhere else to go>be me>terminally online weirdo>huge on vidya and compsci stuff>boymoder>online dating another boymoder and we get along really well>highschool>meet transmasc qt 3.14>love at first sight>we start hanging out>we get real close>basically dating>he finds out about my online date and some other stuff (I was never really hiding it from him)>dates me anyway after I cut off my ex>couple months in our relationship>forced to cut off my online frens and disappear from social media because my bf thinks they're weird>bf is all I have now>starts controlling my life>can't play vidya online, single player games only>even then can't play shit like muse dash or GTA because bf is super ultra woke (I didn't believe in the term woke until I met bf)>bf fucking moves in with me over the summer>forces me to detransition (I told them I did but I didn't actually)>they lay in bed 90% of the time scrolling tiktok>fuck that im going to do something constructive on my computer>bf throws a fit whenever im not in the same room as them>I'm literally forced to do fucking nothing 90% of my days>I literally switched to homeschool so I can have time away from them>super fucking controlling and manipulative and every day is a drag and I know I would be way more happy without bf>bf super gossipy>and a huge jerk (even towards me)>I forgot why I liked bf>knows a lot of weird things about me>will share if we break up>my mom teaches at bf school>everyone apart from bf thinks I'm normal>I just want to go back to online ex. sure no sex but at least she really loved mewhat do?
>>42217748And what did you learn?
god why is it ive heard so many similar stories of boymoders and ftms like these. im sorry you’re going through this desu, i think you already know what you have to do. break up with your current partner and remove them from living with you. you will never flourish and prosper or even survive happily so long and he’s there impeding you.
>>42217809is it really that common >.<thank you and I know :(( I'm just really scared about what will happen if I do. He has an entire room in my house, posters, filled out shelves and everything, and his room in his actual house is now occupied by his brother. and again with the dirt he has on me, I know for a fact he'll spill all of it to his friends and he doesnt care who else hears, and that can get me in real deep shit. otherwise I probably would have by now. either way I feel like the outcome would be the same, or maybe worse if I do something about it. thank you for your words though, i feel kind of better knowing im not alone in this, and that there's a clear path to take. I just don't know if/when/how I should go about taking it
>>42217808picrel..? I learned that the captcha is easy and the people complaining about it are kinda stupidI learned that love at first sight isn't real
>>42217862But what does the captcha say? also only a moron jannie would defend captchas in any way
>>42217748>>be medidn't readformat your stuff better next time!
>>42217927oh fuck I completely missed that lmao,, I wish I didn'tI would kill myself if i moderated for free so actually the caotcha is retarded and the old one worked fine and changing it didn't help shit
>>42217748>>even then can't play shit like muse dash or GTABoth of those are dogshit. Your bf probably just has good taste. Online games suck cock too.
>>42218018LOL good taste. he plays fucking roblox. and not any of the good games either. he plays shit like "steal a pony", "flee the facility", that kind of shit. I don't understand how he gets so invested in these games
>>42218049Holy fuck he sounds like a retarded sociopath. You gotta get away ASAP. He actually sounds like 75IQ Trog who will stab you and start rubbing his tdick through his pants while biting on his tongue. That's the scariest goddamn thing i've ever heard.
>>42217748>>super fucking controlling and manipulative and every day is a drag and I know I would be way more happy without bfYou pass OP. Sounds very much like cis white women complaining about their slow husbands in Tiktok.
>>42218095I know you're probably not but I think it would be hilarious if 8018 went through a character arcalso I don't know how I will get away. im scared about what will happen if I try. I probably should have said this in the op but what could I do to let him down easy or soften the blow or something?
>>42218142YAYI would know a lot about that I hear things like that coming from their tiktok
>>42217936I might rewrite this as just a paragraph if I can use my computer today. if I can't I'll do it tomorrow or the day after. I'll just make it a new post too if this one is gone
>>42217809transmasc is not ftm
>>42218297Nigga, what?
OP. I know I want to break up with him but I don't know how to go about it
>>42218847I would just pack everything up and leave and then do the breakup over text ans then block him on everything everywhere. He sounds like a skitzo so dont do any sugar-coating or long-winded explanation. Just pull the plug and move on like you're fleeing from a wild animal.
>>42218878I wish I could. I live with my parents and he moved in with me. I dont even have money or a job so I wouldn't be able to sustain myself even if I did. though I do like the idea of leaving and living on my own as long as I get to keep my computer stuff though :p
>>42218925Kick him out then and tell your parents he's abusive and has got to go.Bc of you being amab and him being afab getting the police involved wont work out well prolly but keep that in mind as an option if things turn too ugly.
>>42218943I don't think he's insane to the point I would need to call the police. Could I use this thread to show them my side? It would be very embarrassing to show this to anyone at all though lmaoIt will certainly end with him going back to his old house, probably willingly too. He has a tenancy to distance himself from me when he's pissed off. Maybe I can text him the next time he goes over to his actual house? That will probably be a while though. And what would I text? I certainly need a reason but I don't know what.It just came to me too that sometimes when he's gets mad at me he asks if he wants to break up, but he's just attention seeking and expects me to stay with him. I could just break it to him then maybe
>>42217848how bad could it possibly be
>>42219120Wait for him to leave the house, send him a text you're breaking up, leave his stuff outside the door (if the weather is dry). He can pick it up himself. You don't need to give him a reason for the breakup, you can just tell him you no longer want to be together.
>>42219161I don't know.. I waited too long and now I think bad things could happen if I try to change things. If he doesn't have to worry about what I think about him, he'll tell people things I trusted him to keep to himself.
>>42219181I like this, I think this is what I'll do once the time comes. I'm still nervous about what they'll say about me but I could probably tell anyone who asks me that it's just weird rumors because he didn't take the breakup well or something. But the minimal interaction and everything, I might be able to make this happen. I would just need to get containers to put all their stuff in. Plastic bags could suffice I think
>>42217848I know its scary but you need to just rip the bandaid off. Break up as soon as you can by any means. Any shit he says about you to the rest of the school just deny. To the school your a normal boy just deny his outing of you as genuinely as you can. If nothing else your mom will believe you and you can pin him as a weirdo trans guy being delusional (afab + trans means his words will be valued significantly less by general population, assuming since your in high school he doesnt pass)
>>42219181Anon please do this as soon as you can
>>42217748your bf is evil and you deserve better. break up with him, obviously.
the timing is crazy? he just talked to me about how he wants to get his hair cut and borrowed my phone to make an appointment. there was no answer but they wanna get it done before school starts up again in two days. I'll do it then if he goes to get it cut. though I don't know if he will, his mom is notoriously bad at making appointments (common poor mother L) and the place he wants to get it done at hasn't been taking appointments for a couple days. but if it happens I think that will be my way out. thank you anons and nonas, you've eased my heart
>>42219467I'm rooting for you.
>>42219467If you want someone to talk to i can drop my disc, something like this can be hard wothout supportTbdesu if i were you id just ask him to pick u up something from the store then drop his shit on the curb
>>42217748This is what you deserve for cheating on your ex lol. Anyway, you'll want to get out of this situation for obvious reasons. Start off by slowly moving your stuff to your parent's place. If your bf asks, tell him that you wanted a more minimalist approach to your room. You mention that your bf is a big gossiper. Get ahead of the curve by secretly letting your friends know what he's doing to you so it would be harder for him to change the narrative in the future. I'd also change your passwords if he knows them. You want to start maintaining your relationship with your friends cause you'll definitely need them during this time period.Good luck OP.
>>42219815me and him both go to highschool and live with our parents, and i dont have any irls at all. however the minimal thing is a good idea because i am minimal and he always complains about it. also i actually should change a lot of my passwords because he has access to a lot of things. thanks for that, i almost forgot to do that lol. im basically all on my own but i have to get through this
>>42219790 awe sure :3 i need to make a new account cuz i cant be caught using my old one, do you want to send your or would you rather i send a throwaway?
>local bottom bitch boy turns into insane woman's plaything who is afraid of AMaBs but is still attracted to themCommon enough trope.
>>42219874OP. made discord > wwkitaanyone can add :3
>>42217748I went through that as well, as soon as i wanted to leave he was doing everything to keep me, sometime i miss him, he once asked if i wanted to cut with his blade and often hit me or made me sleep on the ground, but he was also the only partner that bought me gifts, I tried to make him leave me instead before that by overstepping on those stupid boundaries like not talking to friends online but it just made him more insufferable
