I made a post here recently about my friend who is straight but kind of chuddy and maybe closetedly bicurious "joking" about dating me if I became a trans girl. We both act straight most of the time, but he's a close friend and I haven't actually found the right time to come out to him about me being a massive homo femboy yet. We jokingly flirt and stuff, like what I described in my last post, but I try not to ever overstep any boundaries. It may, however, have now passed a certain point where everything can just be brushed off as a joke between friends.He's now bought me a dress for me to try on for him in person. It kind of started as a joke also, but he actually ordered it, roughly in my size. He was saying that he could maybe also wear it if he shaved and stuff, and was kinda asking me for shaving tips, as if he knew that I shave my legs and stuff. The dress is gonna take a while to come, and it's unclear when we'll both have the time to meet up and do it. I don't know what's gonna happen... if he's really straight, or just really steeped in denial, then surely it won't go any further than just me trying it on and joking about it with him, but then he was also joking about getting me girls underwear and stuff. I don't wanna be the one to initiate anything weird, and this expectation of me to basically model it in front of him in the near future makes me feel nervous and vulnerable.To be clear, this is not a fake n gay or fagslop post. I genuinely feel like I need to get this off my chest and maybe get some opinions and advice on this situation.
>>42220540well it seems he might be into you. if you are into him then go for it. if you dont want him then you should be very clear now. tell him that the idea makes you uncomfortable and youd prefer not to do it. but thats only if you actually arent into him. no "well i dont think hes into me, im not worth him bla bla bla".
>>42220890I am kinda into him. It's hard to explain. He's a virgin but he's talking to a lot of girls right now. I do like him but I don't wanna hold him back if he wants something else, or misread the situation.
>>42220540Try to kiss him as a it's-not-gay-if-it's-with-the-homies joke
>>42221418it's gay to kiss him unless you are wearing a dress and panties, so wait til they arrive
>>42221418How does that work... I've only ever kissed boys when it was in a very obviously gay way...
>>42221452>.< He didn't order any panties for me :( I do have some though but he doesn't know...
>>42221462he knows
so basically anon, if it isn't really obvioushe wants to date you and fuck you in that dress. the in between now and him bending you over nobody knows, but that is his goal.
>>42221735HngfskjdhfkjWhat if I wanna be the top though...
>>42221618I hope not >.<
>>42220946You're allowed to be a little gay with your friends anon. Hell there are people who hookup platonically.And if you have concerns, you should talk openly with him about them and have an honest discussion about what you both want, are afraid of etc (if he comes onto you)
>>42220540so you are both transbians or???
>>42220946as i said, no bullshit "oh im holding him back" stfu. put on the dress, put on some panties, douche, and initate something. if hes not into it, he'll never know that you have panties on or douched.
>>42226220>if hes not into it, he'll never know that you have panties on or douched.Good point to be honest. I’ll just be uhh very embarrassed and nervous if it unfolds to the point where he does find those things out >.<
>>42225207He would never troon out in his life as far as I know. He’s just a little fruity sometimes. I’m a femboy but girly enough where he “jokes” about me transitioning to a girl so that can date me. But I don’t think I wanna transition, and I’m sure he’s into femboys anyways.
>>42227643all the better desu. just let things happen as they will
>>42220540Post a pic of your legs. You got me curious
>>42227681Buy me a dress first… hmph…
>>42221872>What if I wanna be the top though...>>42220540>He was saying that he could maybe also wear it if he shaved and stuff, and was kinda asking me for shaving tipsHe'll let you top too lol
>>42227898Honestly, I know him well and there’s no way he’d let a dick anywhere near his mouth, let alone his butt lol. Also he doesn’t shave like I do so I probably wouldn’t actually want to unless he did get rid of his body hair.
>>42227651before long i think he's going to bring up the idea of you getting an operation and you're going to think it's interesting
>>42227929I think you'd be surprised if he's asking you for shaving tips. Just roll with it, you'll be dressing each other and fucking each other before you know it.
>>42229364I would never cut my dick off ever and I don’t really want boobs either. He’s also a bit of a chud so there’s no way he’d want to fuck a dilated synthetic orifice. He would prefer me with a dick even as a “straight” guy as far as I know. Hormones is probably as far as I’d go, but even then, I don’t really wanna grow boobs and lose my sex drive, so I’d just prefer to remain a faggy femboy for now.
>>42229873you're not going to lose your sex drive..you're going to want to get penetrated which it sounds like you already dowhy do you not want boobs? imagine how much cuter you'd be in a dress with the right parts
>>42227837I'll buy you breakfast after, but you're gonna have to really impress me to get a dress ;)
>>42229904I don’t want boobs because I’d know that they’d make me dysphoric as a boy in the same way that not having them would make a trans girl dysphoric. I have no desire to have a girls body, I’d just want a girlier body if anything in terms of it being soft and petite, which mine largely already is.Also, as you said, I already have a sex drive of wanting to get uhh… topped, so all hrt would change for me is not being able to cum as easily in general.
>>42229930Just a skirt then at least!
>>42229960when you have a female sex drive it's easier to cum from getting penetrated in the pussy so..it would actually helpwhat would you think if in 10 years your body was a lot more masculine than it is right now
>>42229990My body will be more masculine in 10 years probably but that’s okay because I’m a biological male. Growing boobs and cutting my dick off isn’t a worthy trade to look slightly less twinky than I do now as a young twinky adult male imo.
>>42230152you could be a female in 10 years though..
>>42230255But I just spent my last 3 replies explaining how I don’t want to be a female :/
>>42220540This is a fagslop post but w/eYes, he is into you. He wants to put his penis in and/or on your body. You will have le sexy sex. Epic!
>>42230292the thing is you started your post with a description of how you want to wear a dress and panties (female clothes) and get fucked (female activity)
>>42220540cute cute cute cute cute
>>42230513Being a bottom doesn’t make me a girl tho :(
>>42220540Have sex with your friend, retard.
>>42231344I’d literally ask him straight up if he’d like to, if he didn’t outwardly identify as straight. I can’t really ask him so easily unless he says that he’s at least bi :(
>>42231550Just wear the dress in person for him, and maybe have a drink together. It will happen on its own :)
>>42231920He doesn’t really drink :/ Hopefully one of us will be brave enough to say something I guess.
>>42220540>piclmao that reminds me of that drawing of asuka smugly cooming over shinji in the hospital bed, with his dad having his elbows on the bed doing the concerned shinji dad chin in hands pose, istg i loved that troll pic
>>42221872>What if I wanna be the top though...>Hngfskjdhfkjlol, bottoms are so adorable
>>42232149Well, skip the booze, but still dress up and just make some other excuse to have physical contact.
>>42235649I might have to use the excuse that we need to cuddle to stay warm then… It is January after all and it’s pretty cold here, so I’ve already started wearing thigh highs to stay warm.
