Hi!I don’t know if anyone even remembers my original post but I thought I’d update you guys since that post received a lot of attention both here and on other social media platforms it seems.Looking back on it, it was definitely a mistake to come here to vent about my frustrations. When I wrote that post I was incredibly pent up and that was not a reflection of how I view my relationship. I said this in the replies but I realized that it was something I just had to not think about as it is such a minuscule aspect of our relationship. I love my boyfriend and I don’t think that sex could ever be something I’d choose over him.That being said, I did show my boyfriend the post. His reaction made me understand just how deeply this has also affected him. We spent a lot of time talking about it and we came to an agreement to open our relationship (which was his idea and not something I would’ve ever brought up).Ever since then I’ve been able to spend more time with my cis male ex and it feels like doing so has made my relationship with my boyfriend a lot stronger. We communicate a lot more and we just seem to have a lot more fun together. He told me he didn’t want to see anyone else and actually agreed to meet my ex. My ex and I only ever meet a couple of times a month and with the exception of sex, our relationship is purely platonic. We don’t text much or go on any dates. It’s mostly just a friends with benefits situation where we meet up, talk for a bit, have sex, and go our own separate ways.My boyfriend is the one who suggested this and I’d be lying if I said that at first I didn’t have my doubts. My first thought was that he was doing this as some sort of fetish but I heard him crying in the shower right after we had the conversation (which would imply that he isn’t getting off to this agreement). I made sure to ask again a couple of days later and he seemed even more certain of his decision.
I’d like to thank the people who suggested I talk to him, as I don’t think I would’ve ever come up with this agreement on my own. Our relationship is stronger than ever and this was undoubtedly our best Christmas ever.Thank you for reading this far guys!
>>42223747If your boyfriend is crying in the shower over something you want that he’s supporting you to do, it clearly hurts him. That doesn’t seem very important to you, though
>>42223770if hes crying in the shower its not closer than ever. nona what the fuck is wrong with you
We’ve spoken about it a lot and I’ve only met up with my ex a couple of times (one of which my boyfriend came to briefly meet him). I thought the same which is why I asked him if that was what he really wanted.
>>42223747Ropefuel for pooners.
>>42223747FUCK YOU NIGGA, break up with your poon boyfren if you want dick
>>42223797We had just spoken about it and it was all really new. He hasn’t cried since that conversation.
>>42223810This situation is beyond fucked for him and he’s putting on a brave face trying to make you happy because he doesn’t feel like he’s enough for you and doesn’t want to be without you. You want what you want, so you’re eagerly believing a lie just because he doubled down. You are either delusional and self absorbed, or you are an incredible ragebaiter. I hope this guy finds someone better than you, and I hope your ex leaves you for a cis woman who can have kids. Maybe then you’d know what your bf is feeling like, only even then I don’t know if you’d have the basic empathy to connect the dots given how incredibly obtuse and dim you’ve been in your relationship with him
>>42223841He’s completely stealth and this wasn’t something that I brought up.
>>42223834There are better girls out there anon I’m sorry :/
>>42223842>>42223876God I hope your bf rages out and beats the fuck out of you or something
that one mtf about to be a pickme in 3… 2… 1…
>>42223747holy shit this is brutalI will give my FtM bf lots of love once we start officially dating instead of pulling this on him.
>he>crying in the showerHoly shit hahaI'd just walk away but I have a fat cock
>>42223911I’m not really into guys that way I just know that op is a piece of shit and that this guy deserves way better. Hoping to believe that people like her are an aberration. I did that to a girl I was with once, shamed her and went after someone cause I wanted to get dick. Worst mistake ever. The way that fucks someone up is just insane. I would beat the fuck out of myself for doing that if I could too.
Feels good being a man with a penis If my gf acted up i would just threaten to cheat on her
doods if you're reading this not all of us are like op. some of us are actually really into st4t and dont care abut ur lack of the right genitals if you dont mind our lack of a vagina. hit me up yo im lonely
Nah. But for real if you are a man(or woman trying to be a man) you need to start abusemaxxing. Unironically this is the only way to get women to respect you. I would NEVER cry in front of my gf as a man, because crying implies weakness, and women are absolutely repulsed by it(as they should be).Dont cry. You need to embrace the dark triad. Abusechadmaxx. WHORES like op need to be put in their place.Thank you
>>42224033My boyfriend cries in front of me all the time and it never makes me see him as less of a man. As I said, this was something he brought up.
>>42223747This is all sorts of fuck up and you gon realize this soon enough
>>42223747Your boyfriend is a cuckold, a beta male who let himself be fooled by this whole polygonal relationship thing thanks to George Soros and Butch, who had a thing in the 90s and have been making everyone's life miserable ever since. He's dying inside because you need more dick than he has (or in this case, doesn't have YET), he's insecure and proposed this because he doesn't want to lose you. This behavior is typical of someone who loves you and doesn't want to let go; he adores you, and this will be his biggest mistake.Why the hell does dick matter so much? If he told you he missed vaginas, you wouldn't be okay, so how is that somehow reverted to the figure of the man okay? He didn't ask to have mangina, it's not a characteristic that can be easily modified, and he probably hasn't slept with anyone and is just letting things happen... it's hardly good for him.This passive approach of opening a relationship to save it doesn't work.
Imagine falling in love with OP. Actual succubus. LOL. I think the only way for him to reclaim his masculinity is giving OP a knuckle sandwhich. Or fucking multiple girls and send her the video. Would be kino.
>>42224280Saying he’s a cuckold implies that he gets off to this, which he doesn’t. A lot of people have open relationships and as I said, it was him that brought it up. I told him that I just had to suppress it but it was him that said he wanted us to be open.
>>42224308He’s really hesitant about wanting to stay with me and I’m glad. We’re both in love with each other and me having sec with my ex doesn’t change that.
>>42224347Persistent, not hesitant. Sex, not sec. Didn’t realize what I wrote.
Oh my god you’re serious about fucking your ex? lmao. What the actual fuck. This is so fucked. How did you rationalize this into thinking this is OK? LOL
>>42224389It was just something we did a couple of times. My boyfriend even met my ex briefly and drove me there. It was him that brought it up and my ex seemed like someone I could trust as I know he doesn’t sleep around.
>>42224408Oh my god. Wow. Well I dont know what to say. Good luck to you. Hopefully he doesnt commit suicide.
>>42223747oh my fucking god i hope for everyone this is baitbreak up with your boyfriend immediately. what you're doing to him is emotional torture and still using him for financial/emotional support after this is so fucked upif he suggested this then it's pretty clear he has some self-esteem issues, but that doesn't make it any better, i'd be surprised if you haven't scarred him emotionally for lifeyou're a horrible person
>>42224613I don’t know where you got that from. Especially the financial part. You obviously don’t know anything about us. It was him that brought this up and it has made our relationship stronger than ever.
i'll start praying that your cuck boyfriend breaks up with you. you don't deserve him. he's clearly hurting and you're a piece of shit for putting him through this. you deserve the worst.
worst bait larp on this site today
>>42224670i only know what's in the post but if you're still going on dates, buying gifts e.g. regular relationship things then you're leeching off of him and he deserves someone who respects himhim bringing it up makes 0 difference, he brought it up because he's insecure and scared to lose you, if you didn't want this arrangement from the beginning then you would've said no. if you want to lie to yourself enough and convince yourself that what you're doing is just and normal then you could and i can't stop you the reason your relationship seems stronger is the same, he doesn't think he could find someone else so he's trying harder in a doomed situation
>>42224753Going on dates and gifts is leeching? You’re delusional and have probably never been in a relationship.
>>42224768while treating him like a cuck is, yes? are you retarded?
>>42224805Leeching is like someone paying your rent or something. Going on a date and Christmas gifts is a very normal part of any relationship. Also he’s not a cuckold, and we’re both in love with each other.
>>42224819whatever it is doesn't matter. the reason he's doing those things is because he's presumes you respect and love himif you take his emotional investment while emotionally abusing him back, then you're leechingyou can say you love him but if you did you would let him find someone who actually respects him as a person enough you're either aware of this and a shitty person, or unaware and that's just as bad because it would mean you don't care about him enough
>>42223747how tall are you and your bf and your ex
>>42224924I’m 5’6, my boyfriend is 5’7, my ex is 6’1.
>>42223747he cares about you so much that he's crying by himself. get your shit together ffs. dump him or work on getting the strap going. you're cruel and selfish.
>>42224956Brutal. Everyone saying height doesnt matter should be fucking beaten
>>42224956FUCK YOU fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck. fuck you for being 5'6. fuck you for cheating on him with a 6'1. and fuck ur b f for being a height luckshit. fuck EVERYONE
>>42225101What does my height have to do with it?
>crying in the showerDark…
>>42224956Bait confirmed.
>>42225196How?
>>42223747>My first thought was that he was doing this as some sort of fetish but I heard him crying in the shower right after we had the conversationwow. are you really THAT fucking retarded?actually go to hell. you're repulsive.>>42225113worrying about height is a low iq activity.
>>42225283This whole thing is a lie. I’m sorry.
>>42223777>>42223747>ftm pooner is a literal walking cuckHaving no balls has a whole new meaning LMAOOOOThis shit won't last and you know it.
>>42224956HAHAHAHAHA >OHNONONONONOAAAAAAAAHAHAHAI CAN'T BREATHE
