>finish fucking>start getting dressed>bottom always gets emotional and starts saying things like "wait don't go yet" "let's snuggle for a while" "I'll get us something to eat together"Every time. What is their deal? Do they have nothing better to do with their lives?
>>42224893SNUGGLE WITH HER YOU DICK
>>42224893you should snuggle. get your shit together
>>42224893(i know it’s a bait post, fuck you 4/10)most people who have sex with all that chemical goodness are going to form a bond towards whoever they’re fucking. Snuggling post fuck is actually extremely common for most people because it’s comforting and helps build stronger connections between each other.
>>42224893i only have sex so that we can cuddle afterwards tbdesu
emotional connection simply lacks all logic. why do you need to be comforted? grow up
>>42224893Snuggling is awesome. Why are you in such a rush? ?
>>42224971>lacks logic>baitposter leaves out the biological necessity for women and men to form bonds and grow towards family like units.
>>42225014Nah see im like that bird that fucks the other birds wives and you can just raise my eggs actually if you like cuddling so much you gay bitch . The cuckoo we can call you
>>42224893I love that feeling. I need a boyfriend.
>>42224893what do boys like to do after having sex?
After sex affection with my bottom is the best part of sex. I love affection
>>42225031>im actually sociopathic narcissistoh okay
>>42225709i didnt ask to be this way ive simply broken my monarch programming. it is what it is
>>42224893>why do the people i fuck want actual emotional connection?anon...ur a sociopath and dont realize it
>>42224893I run into the opposite problem as a bi bottom. Just want guys to give me dick and leave, but a lot of them get weirdly clingy.
my partner has literally never cuddled with me once after sex. it makes me feel like actual ugly garbage begging to cuddle just to get a half-assed one when they're on their phone the whole time for 3 minutes before going into another room.
>>42224893>soulless top can't fathom why a bottom might want emotional intimacy to go with physical intimacyMany such cases!
>>42224893That’s my preferred way of sex, we had our fun now get off of me lol
>>42224893They don't want to feel like they were used for sex. They want more of a connection (other than the one in their ass.)
I'll up the ante, I want a massage after you finish nutting in me
>>42225102go back to the grind that's bags not gonna get itself
>>42228448>it makes me feel like actual ugly garbage begging to cuddle just to get a half-assed oneWhy are with someone that clearly isn't satisfying your emotional needs?
>>42225102Cuddle. OP is just a troll.
>>42228746OP is probably a troll but my ex cis gf used to act like this to me and it made me feel used and sad every time we had sex.
>>42228761Because people that do that ARE using you for sex. They're scumbags, just like OP
Yes I know that OP is most likely a bait, but people like that really exist. Sociopaths with no regard for other people at all.That's why I never get intimate with people that I don't have a good emotional connection with, I make sure that men I date are good people that care about me. That want to keep me safe, protected and to who my consent and feelings are important. Meaning that I don't do hookups at all
>>42228807>Meaning that I don't do hookups at allThis is the way.
>>42228736we're together because we love each other and show it in other ways, but we don't even have sex anymore, so i guess cuddling afterwards isn't technically a problem anymore either. they're just not physically affectionate in general and not really attracted to me specifically. it's my punishment for not having self-confidence
>>42228870Anon, I don't mean this to insult you, but your post shows cognitive dissonance. You're in love, but you don't have sex, he refuses to cuddle or even be affectionate with you at all, and he's not even attracted to you? Guess it doesn't matter so long as you're happy with that.
>>42229116it's just complicated. basically married to an asexual
>>42229134Has he seen a doctor? Lack of sex drive is likely medical and could be treated. Humans can't naturally be asexual. It's either due to a physical ailment or from psychological trauma.
>>42224893men truly are animals
>>42229166>>42229134Shit, sorry. I'm prying too much. Carry on, dude.
fuck sex i just wanna cuddle all the timet.cism top bifag
>>42225102Kick the gross tranny out and hope no one saw you bring it inside
>>42229166i think it's a mix of old unresolved trauma (completely unrelated to me) and probably fucked up hormones. still refuses to get either addressed. i might post a thread about it all soon since i could use some advice on some stuff bugging me.>>42229177it's all good. i appreciate the concern
>>42229195This guy this is the one, he's right about everything
>>42228870I... have kinda been in similar position as you for a long time.Being with a man that became pretty much asexual with time. Meaning that any kind of sex just went away, and with time even signs of intimacy and physical affection like cuddling went away too.And I guess it's something that's ok if both people are this way. But if it's him that is this way and you are not then it will become very damaging with time.I know that I really didn't want to leave because things have been good before, and we had a good emotional connection. And he was a good person.But eventually when I saw that he didn't want me at all physically, that intimacy went away. I was feeling very much unwanted, ugly, unloved, not deserving anything good, depressed and much more. All of that was gradual but it led up to this point eventually.Later when I saw that things can be different, that none of those things were true and that I can feel wanted, loved and cared for by someone else, I started feeling very much alive again
>>42224943Does feeling absolutely nothing for someone after having sex with them mean that there's something wrong with me
>>42229227ty ^-^
>>42229287The better question is: why are you having sex with people that you feel absolutely nothing for?
>>42228870>>42229285>local man gives up and settles for tranny then realizes he was never attracted to amabs
>>42229330Trying to get over my ex, also loneliness. Feel nothing is probably an exaggeration, I liked her well enough and we'd probably be friends if she wasn't imminently leaving town, but while I had fun (and I'm fairly sure she did too) I didn't feel any spark and kept comparing her unfavorably to my ex in my head
>>42229346It might have been the other way I think.Like, he was very much attracted to me at the start of my transition, but as the time went by and I started passing then it all went away.But also not really because as far as I know he stayed asexual to this day. He was explaining that with ssri's back then.
>>42229320It was a trap obviously I knew you'd like praise, now get in my bed and be good for me
>>42229668wild. bend over now :D
>>42229700Right answer! Gonna cling to you like a koala and cuddle all day once you give me a creampie
>>42229779YES PLEASE! need. soft kisses + clingy cuddles is the best fr fr :3
>>42229807Oho, man of culture I see. You're going to get pet and nuzzled and humped. Slow sleepy loving kisses all over
>>42229911pls yes ty! grind into me please! i need all the physical contact so bad. let me fill you up followed by rotting in bed together clinging on to each other :D
>>42229287>>42229359It doesn’t immediately translate to sociopathic or anything, because there can be any number underlying causes, such as trauma, emotional dysregulation, or by the sounds of it; you trying to get over an ex. Am not a therapist and they’d be able to help you better on this, but my low iq take is that maybe you’re touch starved and looking for anyone that can supply that for you while disregarding if you and the person feel a connection to begin with, coupled with maybe still not over your ex yet which you’re maybe convincing yourself as if she’s the only partner perfect for you, thus deserving for you to be emotional open with.You mainly need to get over your ex first.
