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Literally everytime i see a tranny(mostly at my University) they are out with a friend or multiple friends. Lonely trans girls dont exist IRL. How do I approach them when theyre in a group?
>Oh hey my name is Matt and Im trying to isolate you from your friends because Im a chaser and want to fuck you
Like wtf else do I even say?
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>>42233005
1. don’t be the negative stereotype of a chaser
2. treat it like any other heterosexual fag approaches a woman whose in a group.

If your goal is to just hook up (by the sound of your post) then be straight with them, approach her and say:
>Hey you look really cute and I like your eyes/smile. Want to grab a lunch sometime?

literally how else are men doing it with women these days?
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>>42233125
also be attractive. If you ain’t attractive and trying to fish for some trannies you’re not having any luck hooking up. But if you trying to court and connect with them then ask their interests, share a little about yourself but show a genuine desire to want to know about their hobbies and shit. Then your looks can be on the lower end.
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>>42233005
>Hi, I'm anon and I like banging whores
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>>42233005
>hi Im looking for a free dominatrix
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>>42233165
Thanks for the advice
>also be attractive.
Ivee been working out and looksmaxxing for 2ish years so I think im good on that. Also im decently tall so that should help

I just needed some help on figuring out what to say. I think I will approach them and try some line like
>Hey Have I seen you before?
And see how that works. I never approached a girl before so I just need to confidencemaxx and get over that fear of being awkward
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pretend they pass and treat them like a ciswoman.
>compliment
>icebreaker
>ask to hangout and/or for their contact
>profit
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>>42233247
>Hey Have I seen you before?
please look up actual icebreakers, this will just be awkward. the only thing they can reply with is no, which is difficult to push forward from the get-go. asking them their opinion on something, or their experience with something will work better.
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>>42233005
lonely trans girls are obviously alone in their room and not outside. you need to break into their homes
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>>42233005
Trans girls alone are autistic and don’t leave their house
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>>42233005
if I as a lonely trans girl went outside and did an activity or just spent time in a space how much time do you think it would take for me to be approached by someone.

and before you ask I'm in collage so I have lots of excuses to do school work in coffee shops and general sitting spaces, I'm also athletic so I regularly spend time in the gym or on walking paths.
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>>42233302
Okay if you say so. Its just very hard to know what to say. I was never taught how to approach people and I am scared to say the wrong thing. But thanks
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>>42233308
>>42233363

I cant break into their house unfortunately. I tried discord but everyone on there lives in a blue state and im very far from them

>>42233267
I think I will try complimenting them but im worried it will give the impression I just want sex from them. It seems a little desperate. Idk. But I will try it. Thanks.
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>>42233005
>>42233125
dunno how this applies with ppl at ur university but if a literal who guy just came up to me and asked if i wanted to hang out id agree bc i have zero friends and nothing better to do
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>>42233247
>>42233380
>>42233420
I can’t speak for all trans girls but as one I’d probably blush if you complimented me and prefer if you were upfront about your interest. Just a general “hey you look incredibly cute and I’d like to learn more about what you’re into” would be sufficient for me. In my experience, we can be really autistic about a subject that fascinates us, so having someone that’s showing an interest in just listening to us talk about it (bonus points if you can connect and expand on the topic) would be such an easy door for prospective dates. You can be a nervous goofball, we’re all nervous goofballs. Just be genuine and more than just someone trying to pump & dump.

Also don’t be MAGAt
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>>42233638
>>42233125
>>42233165
>I’d like to learn more about what you’re into
perfect, what I'm actually into - learning about common interests or things that interest the other side that end up interesting me too
>ok to be direct and say she's cute
finally, a way to use my assertiveness in a non-creepy way, as long as
>be attractive
got some work to do on that front, so ig the ladies will have to wait
thanks anons for helping a sperg learn a bit more
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what are your tranny requirements just out of curiosity. would u fuck a twinkhon for example?
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>>42233695
bonus point advice: your attractiveness meter can be lower the better you are at being a comedic. I’ve been approached by men that I didn’t find attractive immediately but due to their back to back jokes and friendly/caring nature, I completely disregarded how’d they look because of how often they were able to make me smile and laugh.
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>>42233731
>would u fuck a twinkhon for example?
Oh Yeah absolutely. Honestly I would be more excited about hugging her. I havent hugged a girl in about 10 years so yk that would be nice
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>>42233795
waow.... le sigh too bad i live in polyculetopia and not wherever u are
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>>42233816
I appreciate your kind words
I am saving up and moving westward since thats apparently where every trans person lives. Hopefully i will find someone then
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>>42233769
oh yeah definitely, I also like being friendly, positive and jokey in the first place, so that's one thing I'm grateful for. I meant overall attractiveness - my life's a disaster at the moment, so I've still got some work to do (for myself too, as I don't want to live a half-life and ruin another relationship on top of that too again).
I'm glad there's many women out there like you anon, and seeing my ex's genuine smile and laughter was one of the warmest memories I'll keep.
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what the fuck do u even do about a long philtrum + long reccessed chin. LITERALLY MY FACE WOULD BE PERFECT EXCEPT FOR THESE TWO THINGS. and ofc they're like the most unfixable. i dont even know what ffs i need. why couldnt i have had just a huge brow, or a super strong jaw or something. thats super easily fixable AND HIDEABLE. fmstl
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>>42233862
you gonna make it anon. I been in your place before, learned what to do and am improving everyday and see the results it’s given me. You’ll catch a nice girl that made it all worth it
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>>42233882
oh so lowkey i accidently posted this in here instead of a making a new thread. i msuper retarded mb gang. this is extremely embarassing.
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>>42233893
from your lips into god's ears, anon
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>>42233005
just talk to them like you would a woman you dumb fucker, I've done it it's not hard at all. I've approached more trans women than cis women in my life
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>>42237033
Thanks for the advice but I dont talk to women at all. Never approached a woman in my 21 years on Earth. I certainly dont have woman friends either
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>>42237076
In addition to this I am very baffled with the idea of having woman friends as a cis dude. To me it doesnt make any sense. I think we are too different, we dont have much in common most of the time really. And we would have to make sure we are 100% platonic all the time and her boyfriend knows for sure I wouldnt make any moves on her. I dont know seems like a lot of mental stress
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>>42237033
Is going up to them and saying they have good hair a thing i can say. "Hi I just wanted to say you have nice hair :) " is that what I do to date a girl
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>>42237076
>>42237119

We couldn't be more different most of my close friends are cis women, I get way more nervous talking to trans women than cis women but i do it anyway.
I friendzone every woman I meet other than the few trans women I have been friends with.

>>42237155
any basic compliment works or if they have something nerdy on you can talk about it, if you actually want more than a moment you need to expand on a compliment to some small talk or be direct and ask for IG/Discord/Number etc.
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>>42237236
Im shit at small talk im incel I have no social experience bc im a white dude in America
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>>42237285
Just ask for their contact info
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>>42237285
If youre out in public or something its pretty easy. Give them a compliment like
>"Oh I like the nail color, did you do them yourself or did you have them done?"
>"Your [piece of jewelry] is cool, what's it all about?
>"I like the design of your hoodie, is that a reference to [IP you could have a shared interest in]?"
Something that's true that you notice about them that can lead to further questions she would probably be happy to talk about. If she seems friendly and receptive after a couple of back and forth's, ask her for her number or discord or whatever. Flirting is a series of escalating innuendos, just keep it at like a 2 out of 10 and you'll be fine. If she's clearly not interested though after a question or two though just cut it off and move on because nobody likes getting pestered for anything



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