um so im 19 and my parents want me to wait until im done with college to transition
>>42236251just start DIY without telling themtrust me on this, or you'll regret it forever
>>42236251Rape them to assert dominance.
you're an adult. start hrt without telling them. you don't need their approval, and you should get used to making personal decisions without them at this age.
>>42236300but theyd know and i could go through like the cliinic with them >>42236269>foreverhow bad would it be reeally
>>42236313>how bad would it be reeallyyou should try it and find out :^)ask me how i know :)))
>>42236300yes and no. Their parents want them to wait because they don't want to foot the bill. Most kids are out of college around 25~. Guess when you fall off your parent's health insurance coincidentally? So there's that. But also: using their insurance to go behind their back to transition could get them cut off from their family's financial support and leave them homeless. So ya.Fuck you, ree-ree.
>>42236313>but theyd knowhow?>how bad would it be reeallylol
thats worse than saying you cant be gay at college. Nona, your college probably has a pharmacy which will prescribe you HRT and therapy. talk to them. you're free from your parents, you're not a kid>>42236300>>42236269yea. they're gonna make you wait after college too. college is the best place for you to transition if you have the chance.
>>42236313you will regret it forever nona. if you arent going to go on hrt, then you need to start your social transition
>>42236334the explanation of benefits they receive in the mail for care.let me guess: OP is on their phone plan too?
>>42236251DiY is... what $400/yr?You can do it behind their back. They won't know.Try it now. More time left in case you find out it's not for you.
>They won't knowLOLyou kids are fucking retarded. they'll know the moment they come home for spring break just by lookin' at them.
I waited until I finished college and my mind was so fucked up I couldn't bear it, by the time I started the damage was already too advanced, took me years to get back to normal and realize I was always wrong. Repping is poison.
Trooning in college is your best chance to be well integrated, it just gets harder after and you risk getting completely brain raped by repression.
>>42236461>they'll know the moment they come home for spring break just by lookin' at themMy parents didn't know for 3 years. Granted, I wasn't living with them anymore but they did see me every 7 months or so.They only noticed something was off when I was suddenly happier, more pleasant to be around and the voice training kinda was seeping into my "normal" speech. And even then still had no idea what exactly happened until I told them.
>>42236346its a big changeeee tho to like everything
HELP
>>42237192diy bitch you already got your answer
>>42237630transitioning is scary
>>42237741it really isbut it gets a lot less scary as soon as you startalso get therapy from your campus
Start NOW you fucking retard and just put your parents in front of the fact. They're letting your birth hormones fuck up your body
>>42236251This exact post has been made here by a thousand anons before you. "My parents want me to wait until XYZ life event until I start HRT." But, the reality is, you will hate yourself in the future for allowing further unwanted changes to your body, and your parents will most likely move the goal posts. This is simply a way for them to push this issue down the road to be dealt with another time, because it makes them uncomfortable in some capacity, at your expense. YOU need to take control of your life, your body, and make the decision YOU want. Is that HRT? That's a question only you can answer. But it should be your choice. You will regret it for the rest of your days if you don't make whichever choice is true to your heart, I promise you that. Good luck anon <3
>>42237792>make the decision YOU want. Is that HRT?i mean i really want the effects of estrogen like really badly
>>42237804start retard, inaction is a choice and being a HON is worse than death
>>42237792starting at 22 is not much different to starting at 19 in terms of physical changes
>>42237775>Start NOW you fucking retardIS IT REALLY THAT IMPORTANT THAT I STSRT NOW??? STOP YELLING AT ME IM SCARED
Your mind isn't done developing at age 19. Children under the age of 55 should not be allowed to make these kinds of irreversible decisions.
>>42237828at best you're losing 3 years of life
either you take hrt now and become happier or you wait and are never seen as a woman. don't let your parents dictate that shit. you don't need their permission and they can't do shit to you.
>>42236251diy nowt. waited until end of college to transition
>>42237804All I can say from self experience is, there is no better feeling than the sense of having control over your body. I started HRT at 22 and masculinized quite a bit in those couple years from 19; went from some sparse facial hair to a medium thickness neckbeard, my voice got deeper, and my hairline even started to recede. You might get told "ohh the changes arent that different at 19 or 22 or 25 because xyz medical stat!" but, trust me, the difference is massive. And; lost time can never be replaced. 3 years on HRT at 22 is a totally different LIFE compared to starting at 22, I could type 100 paragraphs and you couldnt conceive of it. If this is what you truly want, the effects of HRT, then embrace it now. There is only the present, there is no guarantee of tomorrow
>>42237908>trust me, the difference is massivefor jeeps maybe
>>42237939this person is asking for some genuine life advice, try to act like a human being for five seconds and unfuck your brainstem
>>42237948i cannotwould you like some animation memes?
>>42237973of course you're this faggot too
>>42237833yes retard, it's genuinely that important. Trannies literally kys over not starting earlier
>>42238014stop making me scared
>>42239828god you're so annoying now i hope you're paralyzed by indecision and put it off so you can suffer like me
>>42236251You are fucking 19 years old just transition already. Not your parents life nor body not their choice
>>42240864i live under their roof anon
>>42241126and? are you gonna do that forever? seems like you WANT to die a man. grow up
>>42241126That's no excuse and you know it. NINETEEN YEARS OLD. A WHOLE ASS ADULT.
>hey i need to live my life my way. if you dont let me transition, i will need to find my own way. i hope you have a good time without methat simple
>>42241126>no you don't get it, they own the property I resign in which gives them veto power over whether I receive necessary medical interventions
Tell them you are already "DONE WITH COLLEGE" and use the radeschool loophole. You can get some licenses in a few months ez
>>42239828You should be a bit scared. Fear is what helps us navigate through dangerous situations, which you are presently in. Let your fear push you to order estradiol undecylate from the internet (or just go to the doctor and lie to them about why if you live somewhere with informed consent prescribing). Undecylate can be injected once per month, so you can keep it at a friend's house or something where they can't find it hopefully without too much inconvenience.
>>42236251a vial is 30 dollars dumb bitch
>>42236313>how bad would it bepic rel
>>42237792its more likely than not they're lying and are hoping you'll get over it
God I cannot fucking wait until DIY is outlawed. It will cause this board to implode
>>42236251After 18 your parents can go fuck themselves unless they support who you are and aren't awful people
>>42242437>I enjoy the needless suffering of the vulnerableFace the wall himmler
>>42242613Trans medical ideology is entirely a Jewish ploy to fuck with autistic people and make them spend thousands on transitioning
>>42242157the rib cage thing is so real. your ribs keep growing until your early 30s sometimes look it up. its heavily affected by testosterone.
>>42242660>nazi chud conspiracy theorist goes full mask off
>>42236251your parents are retarded, and so are you for listening to them. You are 18+ you can make your own decisions, do what you wnt.
