>idk where my gender stuff falls on the spectrum, I just like being fem so I take estrogen>Made friends with a guy a little after I started HRT but before any changes showed>Hair grows, breasts grow, etc. keep boymoding>Friend eventually asks "hey, what's going on with you and all the changes...?">Tell him I'm trans>He door dashes me some ice cream & asks me to come watch anime with him later>Go to his place & check out Love is War, it's alright>Go home, he asks me to hang out again and invites me to come have dinner and watch Stranger Things>He cooked pasta while I made garlic bread and salad to go with it>End up making a routine of cooking with him a few nights a week>We're roommates now>He never dates anyone>Start to wonder if it's because he sees us as a thing>Been afraid to ask bc he might think I want us to be a thing, but I don't want us to be a thing bc I'm straight>If I ask him if we're a thing when we're not a thing it might send the wrong messageHow can I find out if we're a thing or not without asking if we're a thing?
>>42244524You're his girlfriend bro, just run with it. He'll make sure you're taken care of.
>>42244524Okay but do you kiss and cuddle?
>>42244750I'm not, though. I'm some as of yet undetermined flavor of enby, and I'm aroace. I don't want that kind of relationship. I just want to be good friends.>>42244764No kissing, and no sexual cuddling. We'll sit together on the couch though while we watch stuff.
>>42244795You realize you don't need to be in denial when you're posting on the LGBT board right
>>42244795how tf are you aroace, "enby" AND straight. i cant fucking stand yall.
>>42244795youre already dating
>>42244990Gender = enbySexuality = aroace, heterosexual*(If I did have a relationship I would probably have one with a woman and we would have a traditional family together)>>42244954I'm not in denial because everything I've said is real and true.>>42245076Is that how he probably sees it?
>>42245230>i only want to date women even though i have no sexual or romantic desireoh so you're not aroace, gotcha
>>42245230It sounds like you're in denial about being attracted to men so you're claiming to be aroace to explain why you haven't had a relationship with a woman before.How many women have you dated, anon?
>>42244795>I don't want that kind of relationship. I just want to be good friends.Be his girlfriend, nona! Don't be stupid.>If I did have a relationship I would probably have one with a woman and we would have a traditional family togetherYou can have a traditional family with him :3Embrace wifemoding.
>>42245411None, but that doesn't mean I'm into guys either. I'd only get into a relationship for practical reasons, like cooperating toward shared goals and stuff.>>42246729I don't want to be some guy's wife.
>>42247131You ARE his wife Nona. Quit hurting him by refusing it.
>>42248030My mom says the same crap whenever she comes to visit us. She thinks we're "cute" but we're not like that.
>>42248609What if he agreed to trans out and be your t4t wife
>>42248796I guess...I don't really want to marry anyone right now though.
