>be me>22 year old cis guy>havent felt love or affection to anyone for years now>meet said girl (shes 21)>we click instantly>same shared hobbies, autism and humor>havent felt like this in months>we spend time together and I'm finally capeable of showing someone genuine unconditional love (of course in the way you would do with a friend without overstepping boundaries)>ff two months>random convo about gender and stuff>ask if hes lesbian or straight>she texts me that shes lesbian and slightly aro/ace>thisisfine.jpg>play it off cool and jokingly with my messages and end up crying the whole night (she knows nothing about this)I came to terms with her decision the second she said that but it still hurts. I actually liked her a lot(and still do) but I have to come terms with us only ever being friends. I want her to be happy and thats all what matters even if my heart yearns for something else
do you feel love or affection for my body
>>42244819unrequited crush sucks. maybe you should tell her how you feel unless you think you can get over it on your own?
>>42244884I fear ruining the friendship we are having. She told me she has only dated once so I always just assmued she got screwed over bad (which it apparently was in the end with an ugly breakup) but still... I don't think hoping for something to develop is right nor fair for any of us >>42244887I like being a guy and just having a girlfriend that relates with me
>>42244819Transbians just ain't tried the right dick
>>42244975I mean, if she's lesbian and unless you transition AND pass, then there's no hope in the future. But talking to her about it at least could maybe give you closure so you can move on.Was the friendship not already kinda ruined when you developed feelings?
>>42245055>transition to get a partnerAre you fucked in the head?
>>42245359I'm not saying that's the answer, dumbass. I'm saying those are the necessary conditions just for OP to maybe have a chance with somebody who's not attracted to him.This website is full of repping chasers. Don't act like it's so insane and random to mention it.
>>42245744so your answer is yes but it was too embarrassing to answer yes so you'd rather stay in denial about your mentali llness
>>42244819>end up crying the whole nightdamn maybe you can still date her after all
>>42247555I wasn't going to be this harsh with anon.>>42245744There was another post telling him to troon I should have replied both, you're alright.
>>42245359Different nona, but I guess I am.Still, this retarded nona got a bf.High risk, high reward, ig.
>>42247555ha ok
>>42244819i know this feel from the other side falling in love with a straight girlit really sucks and it really hurts
>>42250217this really sucks to hear and since the pain is mutualhow did you accept that its not going to be and did you confess your feelings to her?
>>42244819I had something like this but she kept flirting with me which made it worse
