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4tranners, how difficult was it for you to find a job? Did you have to tell anyone you're trans? How did people treat you?
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>dad's asking why I don't have a job
it's over
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i girlmode (ftm) and don't have an issues since people expect black women to be manly anyway
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>>42254625
i got a job before i came out. i'm openly transitioning now since they're all a bunch of libs and i work remotely. ive told them multiple times i'm nonbinary, but every single one of them (even the woke trump hating millennials) still calls me "he" "him" constantly. i needed to get used to the public humiliation, but i'm planning on looking for a new job in a year after ffs and hopefully after changing my name.

unless youre stealth, coming out to coworkers or looking for a job as a nonpassing tranny is a joke. theyll never see you as your gender.
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>>42254768
Don't they say anything about your voice
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>>42254625
sent my resume sunday
they called monday for an interview
got the job today
they got no idea i'm trans, it's so peak
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>>42254625
>difficulty finding job
None
>tell anyone
Nope
>how did people treat you
Like any other woman, hoenstly p well
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>>42255906
hes black retard
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>>42254625
Not hard at all. I have in demand skills. Nobody at work knows and nobody treats me lesser. I’m treated like a normal woman: talked over, dismissed, given less credit for my work, sexually harassed by men. It’s pretty lame tbhdesu.
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>>42254625
I got my job when I was boymoding and came out a few years later. I had nothing before but learned skills there that are in demand so I think I'll be fine from now on
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>>42254625
Took me about 2 years and 100+ applications to get the job I have now, and I only got it because my mom is a regular there. People treat me fine but are clearly walking around eggshells around me all the time.
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Impossible, I'm autistic, my field is cannibalized by AI and there's youth unemployment
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>>42254625
>how difficult was it for you to find a job?
It was easy. A bitch I'm hooking up with put in a word for me.
>Did you have to tell anyone you're trans?
No. I pass.
>How did people treat you?
Like a woman in the workplace, which is to say, extremely poorly. Sexual harassment sucks.
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>>42254625
I held out trooning until I got a good job tbhon

Not sure it was worth it...
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>>42258343
rn it's just an open secret that I'm a tranny because I'm not officially out but everyone fucking knows because I have very visible tits and unfamiliar coworkers often they/them me or double take if they see me in the men's restroom.

Zero harassment so far
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>how difficult was it for you to find a job?
very difficult :( i have a job but it's shit. i'm trying to get a better one
>Did you have to tell anyone you're trans?
for two jobs i've had, yes, because my legal documents were not updated; for the rest, no. i did tell two mentor-figures(???) i have had, though: the first because i was not confident and didn't want things to be weird and the second because she's a lesbian and it was nice to be open about it.
>How did people treat you?
well, for the most part. customers can be weird sometimes but everyone i work with and have worked with has been pretty nice to me. i have one coworker now who i think finds me annoying though and some others who i think see me as sort of useless which makes me sad. i am hoping to get a new job soon which i will be better at.
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I manmode, last outage gave up on trying to appear manly and I didn't cut my hair, some people kept asking me if I was gay or something, specially a couple of girls that kept bothering me with that, one cute twink clocked me hard and straight up asked me why I listened to "gay pop" and I had no choice but to admit it to him, then one hot chad, someone I never imagined would show interest in me constantly seeked my attention, sitting very close to me and asking me to play games, it was so obvious that the girls just assumed we were onto something.
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>>42254625
pretty difficult as a former neet of a few years with no work experience. eventually i got a remote customer service job and boymoded through my training period, now i don't have to see anyone to face. hopefully i can hold this job until i legally and socially transition and skip town
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I had a career before I transed out.

When I was ~4 month on hrt COVID struck, and I decided to just change a company 7 months later when everybody started returning from remote-work.
Coz seeing me suddenly looking very fem would've been very shocking for my colleagues.

I had to get into a new company in a boymode. It was a very disturbing experience coz it all happened in a fucking Russia, where being trans is exotic. Thank god I already looked cute back then, so everybody was friendly. But got dozens of jokes about my appearance (like I was hired due to DEI and etc) and sexual jokes.
The cringest moment was when I started malefaling everywhere (outside work) and it was very weird to be fem outside work and be male at work (in Russian language when you talk - you have to either use male or female endings in verbs when you speak about yourself).
So I just decided to ask HRs to change my name/surname to fem version(already had ID changed back then) and announced in corporate messenger about it. It was very cringe, but everybody was OK, because everybody already know that I'm a tranny. It took around three months for everybody to get used to refer to me in a fem way (again in Russian all verbs are gendered).

One year later I changed the company, got hired as a fem. Switched two other jobs after that, everywhere got hired as fem. All these jobs were with a partially in office, so I've met dozen of colleagues and no one knows I'm trans (these are still Russian companies, and believe me - if they knew, I would've known already)



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