I love being spanked by my boyfriend. He's such a sweet guy who would never hurt me, but when he spanks me, he really hits me hard and it makes me so excited and needy. I think I am a little masochistic. What else could I explore with him? Light BDSM or light pain I mean
Ball slapping is elite
>>42268320You might enjoy being slapped in your face by him
>>42268332I don't think I'm into that. That pain just feels gross to me
>>42268347i might, but I think he wouldn’t want to do that. Like I said he is super sweet and would never hurt me. Spanking is more obviously sexual in nature and less personal than face. He is also an ass and anal guy
>>42268351If you've never tried it sexually you'd be surprised how erotic and stimulating light-to-medium slaps. The heavy ones are where it turns into that sinking gut pain which is no fun unless you're extra maso
I want to bench press a tgirl body against the bed with mine, choking her with my arm as I mercilessly fuck her from behind. Maybe whisper awful things to her ear and make her feel like she has lost all agency over her body. Perhaps some hair pulling, face and ass slaping. Tossing her around the bed like a ragdoll. ocasional face-fuck and choking with my hands from the front during missionary. The fact that i can see her dead in the eye while I'm doing this shit to her is an important aspect of it btw so eye contact is a must.
>>42268432For me it’s that sinking gut pain even on light slaps so it’s not something I am able to enjoy :c
Wish I had a bf into this. Always get masochistic guys hoping I am the dominant.
>>42268372It being so personal is the best part here. But it's understandable if he wasn't comfortable with it. You can always just ask to try a light one to see if he could do that and if you would enjoy it
>>42268489Should I ask him before sex? Or during the act when he is hard and excited? But that feels a bit manipulative
>>42268516Before. Once he is turned on and in the sex mode, he will most likely do it but as you say it comes up as manipulative and may not feel comfortable with it really but will do it because you asked in the moment.Better to do it cold headed to avoid any bad feelings about it
>>42268320you could try caning? I think that whole routine is not as hot as feeling his hands. Have you tried lubing up before the spanking so he can just go in quick and rough when horny enough? I like the pain from getting so suddenly filled like that and forced to submit and relax
bondage + tickling
>>42268622ooo good idea! That sounds soooo hot. Him thrusting into me hard after spanking me and maybe making me beg sounds so damn perfect>>42268626good idea, he might like that just to tease me and make me mad haha
>>42268599Yeah agree. I asked him just now and he said maybe he'll try it
>>42268432I've cum from this before...I kinda really want to know what it's like to have a guy do it though
