>How many children do you want?>If your mtf and choose surrogacy/IVF would you want the child to have your DNA or your S/O, possibly even both?>If your ftm how likely are you to carry a child as opposed to surrogacy/adoption?>I know most of you would just want a happy and healthy child, but girl or boy for your first?
>>42269979I'd only like one, or, on the off chance I could see myself being able to handle it, two.If I had to choose then I'd probably like a girl.I've already decided if I do I'm going to adopt, maybe as a single parent. No way in hell I'm carrying it myself, and I don't care about being blood related or whatever.
>>42269979Mtf, 25, here, id prefer to adopt first since that fills a need that society has, I was a foster child and so i very much understand how difficult being without parents could beThough, if my future husband wanted to do surrogacy, I'd be more than happy so long as his sperm was usedMy last major partner and the love of my life was a wonderful man who would have made an amazing father, and the thought of raising kids with him always made me so happy, I'm aware he wanted kids some day and id be happy if he atleast could provide the spermIf it's possible and not like millions of dollars a few years in the future id like to also provide mine so we could actually have a child that had both our traits, idk if science is that far yet with letting same sex couples make kidsSupposedly you can like, take DNA samples from someone and then make an egg/sperm from that? But also maybe that would be playing god too much who knows Hope everyone here finds what they want<3
>>42269979ideally i'd have atleast two children but i'm not willing to go off testosterone for ivf so i've accepted i'm not having them. not open to carrying them, surrogacy only. sex selective for only boys. i'd only be willing to adopt if i already had biological kids
I'm a (relatively) new parent. 35, FTM, carried myself. I'd love to have another, but I have to wait a couple years to even consider it. Pregnancy was extremely rough on my mental health, and just making it to one year was physically depleting. My kid is amazing though. This last year has been the best year of my life.
>>42269979at least three but i'd be fine with more, their sex is not very important to me
>>42269979>How many4 or 5 :)>DnaYeah ofc id want that too bad sperm banks are groty>Boy or girlDef girl becouse if its a boy that means i passed on my dads y chromosome ew