genuinely... life would be so much better for each of you if you got off of 4chan. I used 4chan for years and lurked here for a while when I was first coming out of the closet but a few years ago when i got a boyfriend it felt like i had to hide this from him and I like made a confession a year into us dating. he convinced me to leave my life is so much better without it. I have a boyfriend and a career and I get to go to punk shows and I even got rid of my smartphone and got a flip phone instead. i swear it'd be so good for your mental health and self image to not read people arguing all the time and using nasty slurs normal people have never even heard of. I love all of the queer anons on here... get on tumblr or something at least i'm beggin gyou. the world is not as cruel as you think. also the captchas are insane now lol
>>42270371I want to leave but I am depressed and nobody likes me irl and I haven't had a partner in 4 years. I leave for like 6 months and things don't get any better.
>>42270371>when i got a boyfriendyeah obviously id leave then duh but its never happening
>>42271279I think the negativity on here rubs off on a person and other people can sniff it out and be repelled by it even if they don't know its from this site specifically. >>42271263I have hope that things will get better for you anon. keep trying. it means the world to me. having a partner isn't everything, maybe you could just try to put yourself out there, go to more events where people are hanging out. this is cliche and dumb and I personally don't play, but my boyfriend is really into magic the gathering and it seems like an easy space to meet other queer people. I personally go to diy shows a lot and while having the nerve to actually start a conversation with people can be pretty difficult I think you're probably easier to talk to than you give yourself credit for and have a lot of fun stories to share.
fug off u fag
>>42270371my bf thinks it's funny that i go to 4chani was lurking one morning before he woke up after we were together for like a month or so and then he saw it because actually he had woken uphe thinks i read yaoi greentexts -_.
>>42271509i did not mean to post that picrel
this board is too depressing to keep updating this thread (and also I hate 4chan and i have to work in the morning) but before I abandon this thread i just want to point out that i'm a cis guy dating a trans man. I and all my friends are from a small town in a red state and have become friends with several trans people and didn't even realize they were trans for several years. you can find people who will affirm you and love you for who you are, but you won't find those people on here
>>42271509thats cute lol. my boyfriend also thought it was funny af that I had to come out of the closet about getting on 4chan. its been about three years since that happened and when I think about all the people who are still here I get sad and thats why I decided to make this thread. i'm glad you found someone op>>42271464you will find love in your lifetime. i hope you are ready to recieve it when it comes
>>42271519>men>love
i'm bumping this so people can make fun of it
>>42270371I agree but as a stealth permamanmoder this is really the only space where I can reasonably interact with trannyism
i love tumblr but it's hard to replace this dumpster fire with it bc it does not facilitate the same kinds of discussions. eg /sig/ and /vtg/ are really great high-effort generals with extremely genuine and thoughtful posters...but how would you even do something like that on tumblr? i think there is value to this board as long as you are conscientious.defo recommend tumblr though i follow exclusively marine life, bug, and stuffed animal blogs and my feed is awesome lol. also no algorithm so after i have seen everything new in five minutes i can close the app contentedly
>>42270371i actually really like the idea of getting a flip phone, thanks anon i hope you keep living your best life
>>42270371I can't. By anyone else's standards I have a complete normalfag life, I'm a stealth tranner with a great career and great friends, just no bf/gf. But I'm addicted to this place. I've been here since I was 15. Longer than any friend I have. Last year I stayed away for months and then relapsed. I've accepted that you're here forever.
