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Is Biphobia keeping men in the closet?
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Yes. I've met more bi men then gay men
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>>42288312
You are whore, we get it.
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>>42286686
once you go bi you're gay forever
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trannies are capitalizing on bi men mostly being in the closet
trannies are a "safe" way for men to explore same sex urges
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>>42289232
>"safe" way for men to explore same sex urges
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>>42286686
There is no reason to be openly bi as a guy. For gays and on grindr you're just gay, towards women and on straight dating apps you're just straight.

Fags hate bisexuals because they believe we're all just cheaters who want a gf and only use guys to cheat on her whenever we want cock. Women just become the ick thinking about you having something with another man.

So the closet it is
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>>42289403
Sort of?
It just rarely comes up and there's no beneficial reason to bring it up. All that matters to most people with romantic intent is whether you're down for it, not the extent of your sexual interests, and they don't ask until way later if at all.
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>>42286686
I hope so
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>>42289403
I thought women were gay friendly?
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>>42291013
Gay friendly means being friends with gays.
If she learns her boyfriend is into guys, she gets an ick.
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>>42291013
Lol
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>>42289403
Why don't you just date each other? Why continue to insist on dating straight if you know you'll have to stay closeted?
You only lost the trust of the gays as a consequence of your choice to associate with homophobic straight people. If you just stopped dating straight, you could still date other bisexuals, and eventually you'd regain the trust of the gays too. Is the convenience of passing as part of the majority just too good to give up?
I'd understand making that choice, but then I don't think you have much room to complain when you don't get to retain unlimited access to the gay dating pool because you treat them as a fallback option.
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>>42286686
Yes
But we will get our trannies
And the trannies can hide how bi they are via transition...
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>>42291904
You're making the false assumption that straight people are homophobic by default. And if you aren't then your solution excludes tons of potential partners for no reason but to uphold a fictional ideological war in your mind. People wouldn't give 10 seconds for your beliefs, never mind their love life, nor should they.
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There is no point in being openly bi if you are the standard bi man that has LTRs with women and fucks around with men for fun in between. Visibility is pointless in this situation because it doesn't effect the way you go about life one way or the other, its as pointless as a straight person announcing that they are into any sort of fetish to people they aren't going to fuck. The only reason to be openly bi is if you are going to get into LTRs with men and not smash random dudes you meet on apps or fag bars in a one night stand. I dont really care if someone finds out I fuck dudes now and again but im not bringing it up apropos nothing.
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>>42291013
women want a pet flamer like their gay 90s sitcom. fags = not real men = gross for the purpose of fucking. the only girls into bi dudes are the emo / alternative / hipster / yadda yadda types who are usually bi themselves
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>>42291904
Most people are bisexual and repressing, so we are "dating each other", just some of us are more in the closet about it than others. I know you need to pretend to be SUPER FABULOUSLY GAY because it was a huge step for you to admit you weren't just attracted to the opposite gender but actually you're coping just as hard as the so-called "straights"
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>>42292754
Goldstars are just in a permanent state of seethe because they've fully internalized the homophobic apartheid system imposed by monohets and they've chosen that hill to die on hoping that it will earn them more rights from the straights
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>>42286686
the only reason I'm not in the closet is because i'm a femboy. So almost everyone assumes I'm bi (they're right).
But there is no benefit from being open about it. I used to tone it down when brought up in conversations. Now that I have a bf I get biphobia from fags.
But it's okay. I'm just me. A really effeminate bigod.
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>Gay men
No point telling them, gain nothing. Sometimes you can say something like "I'm bi and only attracted to women or rarely very feminine men" and depending on the gay they may find this extremely flattering
>Trannies
Net loss telling them, best to let them believe you're straight. Delulu/narc ones will assume you're straight by default
>Women
No point telling them past, say, your early 20s when they view it as being something cute and quirky to threatening and a massive turn off. Be weary of even telling open bi women
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Bump
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>>42292815
That’s not true



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