The only things i feel comfortable in are androgynous clothesi might wear a tanktop sometimes if it's hot but always with a shirt jacket or hoodie or smth layerd on top of italso does anyone else relate to the experience of wanting to wear cute/girly stuff but feeling like none of it looked good on u so u just retreat into baggy oversized fit androgynyi don't even hate where i ended up fashion wise but it does still hurt sometimes seeing girls wear cute/feminine outfits and feeling like i could never make that work myselfthe fact that my feet are size 11-11.5 women's (eu 43) rly doesn't help either god i feel like such a big ugly monster but anyways that's besides the point i wanna know about ur fashion experiences
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>>42288393Post a skirt pic for reference
>>42288442i haven't dared to even try a skirt since i was a cringe baby tranny and i deleted all those pics long ago now all that's left of them is the mental scars
>>42288441i mean i literally have my name and legal gender changed, im out as a woman/tranny and am more or less just treated like a woman in day to day life but i still don't feel good in women's clothes they make me spiral about how unfeminine some of my features are like my ribcage and hands and feet and skin and facial planes and stuff
>>42288393Skin tight skirts and tube tops? Tube dresses and over knee socks? You say "How" like all you need is some makeup.Then everyone wants to take photos together and get your number though which is overwhelming.If I could wear sexxy outfits every day I totally would but then it's winter.
>>42288393>wanting to wear cute/girly stuff but feeling like none of it looked good on u so u just retreat into baggy oversized fit androgynydo you genuinely want to wear more feminine chlothes or are you trying to force yourself to wear them?
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>>42288393Hello I would like to see you naked
>>42288616i agree!
>>42288393try wearing long skirtsi have one and it's way better than a short skirt. it feels much less clocky. although get one with more weight than mine because mine can't handle a slight breeze.
>>42288480NTA but post something that shows off your body. doubt you have a shit figure anon maybe at worst look a bit trans but you seem like you would look fine. Also if you genuinely like dressing in malecoded fits that’s entirely okay as long as you’re not doing it as a form of repping. I’m starting E soon but I’m not changing how I dress that much (besides my fashion tastes independently changing). It just sounds like you need a confidence boost
>>42288616> Yes SAAAR!! Please shoe bobs and mangina!!
>>42288633maybe i should give it another try... i do still have a couple skirts but i left them at my grandma's place so can't show them rn>>42288666idk this is me wearing less stuff as u can see my ribcage is a bit wide
>>42288393In this picture you look nearly exactly like the women I loved more than anyone else in my life. She's dead now for over a year and seeing your picture just ruined my day... Thanks for thatAnyways, that style is incredibly beautiful, there is no need for you to go for skirts or something more cliche. Many women don't wear dresses, skirts, etc. If you found something that suits you, stick with it and experiment within this style
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>>42288706ehhhi know cisfoids with similar-ish buildsnot the end of the world
>>42288393>>42288458Glad I'm not the only troon who's gone backwards in confidence
>>42288710im sorry to hear that that sounds extremely difficult>>42288721idk.. how many of them are also an a cup and what kinds of things do they wear
>>42288730breast size varies. i haven't looked because i don't wanna get slapped. i think it's a little bigger though.they wear normal clothes mostly? like they have incredibly normie fashion sense with a few accessories sometimes. regular tops and jeans and such like. not really many skirts tbdesu but that's just a personal choice.one of them likes to wear zip-up jackets though. that's a big part of her style. maybe try that?i don't know if there's much broad advice to be given. sorry about that. my fashion sense sucks.
>>42288604sry i forgot to answer thisdesu i just wanna feel like im one of the girls yknowlike not a girl with an asterisk after it just normie girl who wears normie girl things and looks normal in them>>42288758>zip-up jacketswhat like leather? suede? windbreakers? work jackets? hoodie with zipper?
>>42288706Oh silly anon, yeah you just need a confidence boost from what I see (unless you’re over like 6’1”) you just need to build confidence on it. You look perfectly fine desu it’s just the dysmorphic part of your dysphoria telling you otherwise. My advice and what I did to become more comfy wearing clothes is start by asking your friends if they’re comfy with you dressing more fem around them. That’s and what I did and I started this before I started E (not in public obviously unless I knew I could pull it off somehow) but it gave me the confidence to dress like that more and even if I still dress mostly malecoded it made me more comfortable buying properly fitting women’s clothing and now I wear women’s fit shit on all of my outfits.
>>42288801it's this one. quite a thick jacket and she keeps it unzipped. idk how to make it work but she does, and i think it hides her frame. but she's quite short.
>>42288393Oh I know how that feels very well. Like, if it's only for myself and I'm just going out alone etc then I always wear very neutral clothes. To just blend in as much as I can so noone would look at me and because I don't deserve to wear anything better than that and I definitely don't think more fem clothes are good looking on me.But I guess the men I flirted with and now my Daddy always want me to present more and more fem and I oblige to that and with time it started to feel more comfortable, because I don't know, maybe I just got used to just wearing it and not thinking anything about it. Also hearing hundreds of compliments had to leave at least a bit of good influence on my self image. Like I know all those people are just saying that because they want to fuck me and because of that it doesn't make it very believeable. But still helped a bit. So... attention whoring for men can be good for self image and confidence
>>42288899oh yea those are cool i saw a kawasaki one at the second hand store today but i didn't get it>>42288810thank u for the kind wordsthat seems like good advice altho i don't have any friends sorry...but maybe i should think of something like that, a safe way for me to build up confidence...>>42288913do u like go to the bar and talk to guys or smthi did that once and it was kind of fun to get some male attention but also scary, im not good at turning someone down
>>42288948honestly the first thing you gotta do is try and get some friends.male attention is probably nice but if you don't have any friends then it'll just feel empty. or you'll be at risk of exploitation.look for hobby groups near you and see if you can get to know people with common interests.
>>42288948It's easier and much more safe to do that online I guess. Like sure, getting all that attention in irl situations is better for confidence boost I guess. But it definitely can get dangerous because there are a lot of creeps out there and all the alcohol at pubs etc makes it worse.And online you are in safe enviroment where no one can truly harass you
>>42288393I'm a repper and you somehow dress more baggy and boy like than I do. You lack style, look into grunge rock girl fashion. Cut the shirt close to belly line, some strategic tears near the shoulder to show just enough, ect. Since you seem to vibe with that style, dress more like a rock star's GF than the rock star love. >>42288706Better, better, i like. You seem to have some shape under there, some hips, perhaps some tits? See above and layer on top of this but not so baggy, way too baggy. Like are you trying to hide a pregnancy? Come on now. Picrel is best i could do on short notice as an example. Notice shirt tucked into shorts, double necklace, female coded. Take a large pair of scissors to that Nirvana brand burlap sack please. t. sz 13 in women's shoes
>>42288706please give me one chance
>>42289099but all my pants are stupid mid-low rise so if i tuck something into them it makes my torso look extremely long and then i cryalso jewelry is expensive...
>>42288393Is that you Kurisu? Its okay, just wear it. You pass and are cool, no one is going to say anything. If you are self conscious wear leggings with it instead of some kind of shorts underneath. That way your ankles aren't showing.
>>42288393>>42289414adding on you can start with long skirts because 1 they are cute and you can wear them high up on the waist which makes ur ass and hips pop and 2 you will be less self conscious wearing them and after doing it a few times you will realize its just clothes lol
>>42288393how tall are you
>>42288948> that seems like good advice altho i don't have any friends sorry...but maybe i should think of something like that, a safe way for me to build up confidenceYeah desu start in like your discord friend group! Just find something. Maybe go to like a convenience store at night dressed nice or something, that’s another thing that works for me. You just need to build confidence and know how to dress right, once you find the new clothes mundane you’ll be able to dress how you truly want (it’s how I know I how I will dress when shit gets even more obvious)
>>42289560fuck i love long skirtsmankind's greatest invention was long skirtsi need to become a cute nerdy girl who wears long skirts and hangs out at old book shops in the rain
>>42289609they are great if you are a perma hoodie type because they maintain the frumpy I want to hide my body feeling of safety while still being cute and feminine.
>>422895675'8>>42289414yea who's u :0>>42289560hmi do like long skirts even if i don't wear themmaybe i need to just stop being a baby about it>after doing it a few times you will realize its just clothes lolaa i hope so that would b the ideal outcome... >>42289638>maintain the frumpy i want to hide my body feeling of safety while still being cute and femininethat sounds ideal... i just worry a lot about looking like a guy's idea of how a girl dresses...
>>42289638i mean that too.but i want to pair it with a cute girly top as well. maybe a cardigan too.
>>42289810>yea who's u :0just someone who talked to you on some random chan board like a year ago I always thought you were cool though I think I used the handle sadchan on that site.>maybe i need to just stop being a baby about ityea fr. good luck. :)
>>42288393>>42288706Troon in the files
>>42288393long skirts, nona.Have them tailored specifically for you if you can't find them.That's how I got rid of this brainworm.Now I feel weird when I dress androgynous (though I have to do by necessity during winter time because it's really cold).
>>42289638oh damn maybe i should try thatbut it still won't look as cute as my hypothetical pretty library girl
>>42290135ppl don't look at u funny... another skirt related fear i have is that the women around me don't wear skirts that muchi guess the more mature ones do so maybe its not such a big deal but would be interested to hear ur thoughts
>>42290359>ppl don't look at u funnyNope. In fact sometimes I get compliments too.Last fall I was in a small town and an old lady stopped me to compliment it and ask me where i got the skirt because she wanted to buy something sweet for her daughter.>women around me don't wear skirts that muchi guess the more mature ones do soI'm 34. Does that count as mature? Idk. And I'm not sure I care.During summertime women here do wear skirts quite often for comfort.Ig I'm way past the point of being excessively self-conscious. I dress my age (for the most part) but I want to enjoy it too. Got a few outfits tailored for me and every year I get 2 or 3 more and rotate them.Probably bf helped a lot as he's very happy and smiley when I dress like that in public.
>>42290411that does sound like fun, i bet a tailored skirt rly creates a nice silhouette esp a long oneive always admired those sort of classic feminine silhouettesi have a whole collection of cute doll clothes on pinterestjust some bad experiences trying to girl mode as a baby tranny (getting laughed at, whispered about, having some boomer lady say ew and another one hide her kid from me while waiting in line at sephora) made me think i could never pull it off, im too big and wide and clocky etc etcidkmaybe its time to give it another go
>>42290711>im too big and wide and clockysounds like a natural client for tailorsI do find skirts relatively easily, but the more relaxed blouses rarely sit well on my ribcage so... tailor it is.Still, it does help to no longer be a baby tranny. I successfully resisted the temptation to honmode as baby trans. As frustrating as it was, I now realize it was the best decision because I avoided acquiring new brainworms and insecurities.
>>42290711may as well give it another go.
