Where do I meet trans girls who are actually capable of romance, love and committed relationships? It seems like they're all just crazy, bitchy, mean dead-inside types who've had more lengths go through them than a sausage factory.
>>42288571wow you sure seem like a nice person id enjoy being around for the rest of my life
>>42288571Most trans are like talking to NPCs or AI reddit bots, sometimes with 1 hyper specific thing they like due to autism, but otherwise very dull.
>>42288592If that's actually my experience of interacting, how is not being honest about it going to help?
>>42288571>Where do I meet trans girls who are actually capable of romance, love and committed relationships?They don't existtrannies are for SEX ONLY
you meet them in the same places you meet cis womengrocery stores, volunteering, coffee shops
>>42288571why trannies specifically
>>42288630kys
>>42288571lol if anything the men that are into trans women and are capable of that are missing. ive never met any man that didnt run away at the first sign of commitment
>>42288988You mad tranny?
I'm only capable of loving things that live in a cage, sorry
>>42288571probably relaxing public places like cafes and shops instead of online spaces or clubs/barsi like to think i am one but i've ever only been in love once (with my closest friend) and he chose a cis girl over me insteadi'm a khv who's waiting for the right person and wants her first time to be special but i'm also scared and avoidant and still haven't moved on from him anyway
>>42288571i mean, im a virgin tranny who desires love, but i'm emotionally a child and a dysfunctional drug addicted recluse. i might be crazy, but i have so much love to give ;-;
>>42290092>but i'm emotionally a child and a dysfunctional drug addicted recluse.You and every other troonpump and dump ONLY
>>42289161chasers should love and care for their trans girlfriends
Same place as you meet women? Bars, clubs, etc.You have to realize that transgender women are very rare irl. I live in a very progressive country and only met a trans woman once when at university, which made me question my sexuality (why I lurk here).
>>42290146i would only have sex with a man if we were in love :c
>>42288571i am capable of all of these but i do not pass. your decision?
>>42288630INTERCONTINENTALDAISY CUTTERTRVKEDEPLOYED
>>42288630>>42290146>>42290476you guys are mean some of us really are capable and willing to strive for something long-term and beautiful and comfortable
>>42290491silence, demongo cut your limbs open and have a personality disorder episode before making life around you intolerable
>>42290748i've never cut and don't have a personality disorder anon i'm just a little autistic at most and i like to make people smile is that so wrong
>>42290332>devalue men as "chasers">still expect to be treated with dignityWhen you're aged out, lonely and tying the noose, remember this is why. You have every reason to be the most empathetic people when it comes to being stereotyped and devalued, yet went the complete opposite direction and became what hurt you.
>>42290455Message me SC arcstones85
>>42290828what the fuck are you talking about you literally started this by calling trans women something far worse multiple times and saing that our only value is sex FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU I ACTUALLY HOPE YOU KILL YOURSELF your outrage is so fucking fake everyone on this board calls men that are attracted to trans women chasers its not derogatory not like calling someone a 'tranny' i hope you die alone wortheless incel
>>42290887hey sis just letting you know your rage is entirely justified and this exchange has made me wish i were not straight
>>42290887>everyone else does it so that makes it okayStay mad you npc automaton
>>42290491No you're not
>>42290818If you want to make us smile then post your ass
>>42291015anon it's literally all i want in life i just want something real>>42291039nice try anon you know that's not what i meant
>>42289005Same experience. We are still taboo.
>>42291232>nice try anon you know that's not what i meantI guess you don't really want to make us smile then
>>42288571idkt. lateshit virgin tranny
>>42288571>Where do I meet trans girls who are actually capable of romance, loveAnywhere. On here even.>and committed relationships?Okay maybe not that one, sorry. If you do find someone, she'll eventually break up when she becomes bored, or when the thrill of having a bf goes away and it's no longer exciting.>>42290491I hope that's true and that you find happiness
>>42291265you wanna see ass then go to /hornygen/ you silly goose>>42291339>I hope that's true and that you find happinessthanks anon that means a lot to me
>>42290491You say this, you may even believe it, but I can promise you it’s not true
>>42292053im sorry. i just want love and im a tranny. is that so bad. nta
>>42288571The good ones probably avoid you due to the way u come off. Ur stuck with crackheads
>>42292074transbianism
>>42292053you don't know me anon i'm sorry you're experience with trannies has been bad but that doesn't make me like the ones you've interacted withyou're acting like those political lesbian misandrists that think all men are one and the same
>ITT: tranners cope hard with honest feedback
>>42293666evil trips of LIES
Many trans women are heavily traumatized, anon. It's hard to find total dewy-eyes and emotional stability in people who have basically been abused their whole lives.
>>42291557What kind of person do you think you’d like as a partner? Can u describe that. And then tell me what kind of person you’d like to be for your partner
https://voca.ro/1eQA50YhVy2v
>>42294024If your personality and face are as beautiful as your voice, you must be one wonderful girl
>>42288571In places people typically hang out in outside. If you are looking for a gf online then you should expect to find a hundred emotional wrecks before a single mature person.
>>42294029ohhh youuuu
>>42294080What? What did I say?
>>42294307nothing lol? im being playful like "oh stawp it u" o_o
>>42294324Is what I’m saying true tho
>>42294378oh well uhm i don't wanna like single myself out or nothin- but ive been described as pretty before on this board yeahidk how im supposed to tell if my personality is nice but i have a healthy social life so
>>42294405Well the people on this board can be hella horny lmao. Wdym by social? U drink a lot or smth?
>>42294572I have an actual friend group i dont drink very often not super horny desu sex is only nice when im in love
>>42293974well for starters i don't really think about the bedroom or sex life stuff because it's hard to imagine someone wanting me carnally like that. but in a perfect world i'd prefer someone who takes a lot of control in the bedroom but i can still feel safe with them in the momentwhen i meet someone new i tend to daydream about a year down the line, watching comfy movies and tv shows on the couch with our pjs on.ideally i'd love a guy who's not afraid to be gentle and nurturing but still stern and assertive when he needs to be. someone i can be vulnerable with and they can be vulnerable with me.someone spontaneous sounds fun too. i always like riding shotgun on long drives around town and just stopping wherever and letting things just play out organically. surprise day trips are super fun too.i knew someone who made me realize what i wanted in a partner, and i learned a lot about what kind of partner i wanted to be too. someone who's my foil, we have differences but they can be celebrated. we can tease each other over how differently we think when those differences arise, but we don't let it get in the way of loving one another.i really want to be there for them, to listen to them and give as much of myself as i can to them. i want to be able to be someone's support, an extra leg they can lean on when times are tough. we had something like that before but it didn't work out and we never really dated. i was always there for him no matter what and it felt good to be. when he couldn't count on other people he could always count on me and it felt like an important responsibility but i wanted to make sure he was happy even during the hard times.sadly i'm still not over him, i hope i can have something like that again but it's hard to keep my chin up. we were always in touch 24/7 so i never ever felt alone. he's gone now but he taught me a lot.tl;dr: i'm a hopeless romantic with a lot of love to give and i like being cozy and comfy and supportive
>>42294602An actual friend group, yet you’re still on here. U got a lil degen in you like the rest of everyone here it seems. How old are u? U a cougar?
>>42294714i only pop in occasionally I'm 22
>>42294690If he taught you so many things and you liked him so much. Why did things end
>>42294754we were best friends and i was still closeted at the time. we met right when i started hrt years ago. i was his only real friend and we were about as close as you can get to a relationship without it actually being one. he would make a lot of jokes that implied things being romantic between us and he got more and more bold over the years, including stuff about my "sex change coming up" and how excited he was for that. i thought he could tell i was trans at that point and i thought we were moving closer towards something special. we had cute nicknames, gm/gn texts every single day, we were talking about moving in together and everything. but in the end it turned out he just had a weird sense of humor and only saw me as a friend.i was crushed when he started dating a cis girl out of nowhere and he fell in love with her pretty hard. i had a breakdown and confessed to him about everything when he noticed i was being distant from him. he said sadly he didn't feel the same way, but that he hoped we could stay friends. we decided to take a break. we started texting again during the holidays but he was very distant and hardly said a word to me. i stopped texting him first and he hasn't said anything since then. i've decided to try and move on from him completely.i'm still trying to heal from everything. it's like a piece of me is missing. i've been venting about it on the board a bit and it helps. thankfully i have a support group too but the wound is still fresh. things just take time.but even though it wasn't a real relationship, i learned so much from our time together. it taught me a lot and i think i'm a better person for it. in a lot of ways he fixed me before he broke my heart.hopefully one day i'll feel ready to take a chance on someone new but it will take a while.
>>42294754>>42294867shit sorry anon i probably didn't need to do a wall of text there but i kinda got carried away
>>42294742What’s a pretty lady like yourself doing staying up late into the night
>>42294867I’m glad you remember him fondly. And I’m sure he’s a good person. But guys chase beauty a lot more than anything else. A good chunk of straight guys (guys only into cis girls) would rationalize and try to date a trans girl if she was exceptionally beautiful. For him to be that close and to make “jokes” about moving in together and being much closer meant that he did view you in that capacity in some way. But once he met a cis girl, he saw someone more beautiful. And his lens changed.
>>42294934ur tight I should sleep
>>42294947that's exactly how i felt about it too, yeah. i remember him telling about how hot she was and i realized that's just how most straight guys are in the end.sadly i'm not that pretty, i'm just a twinkhon. but i do have ffs coming up this summer so hopefully that'll change. plus i have cisf friends and my stylist helping me practice makeup better too. people say after the surgery they think i'll completely pass and it feels nice to work on improving myself. but sometimes i find myself thinking about all the what ifs. >what if things don't work out between those two? >what if my ffs and transition goes really well? >what if he finally gets to know and see the real me? >will things change?moving on is still a struggle with that tiny shred of hope in the back of my mind. i try to ignore it.
>>42294947>For him to be that close and to make “jokes” about moving in together and-oh i should add that the moving in together part wasn't a joke. he had a room ready and everything he genuinely wanted me to live with him. i hesitated to give him an answer because i didn't want to risk making things worse if i was wrong about him (which i was)
>>42295113I guess he felt that the issues he’d face in his relationship with you would be non existent in a relationship with a cis girl. You got the bad ending
>>42295135yeah i sure did.but in all honesty he was always pretty dense. the kind of guy you could drop a bomb on and he still wouldn't get what you meant by iti think in the end he really just didn't know what i was and saw me as a very close friend and nothing more. plus he wouldn't have bragged to me about her if he knew i had feelings for him. in fact he apologized for doing that. he really was just that dense. but i kinda liked that about him.but if what you think is true then she better be there for him as much as i was. and i was always there for him every step of the way. maybe she'll prove to be a shallow person and he'll realize what he missed out on or something. my mom told me something like that when we talked about things. but idk i don't want to delude myself. at the end of the day she's cis and i'm trans. the choice is pretty simple for straight guys.
