With other people it was easy, a few weeks after rejection and I was back to normal, but with her it's different. I tried to remain close to her as a friend and for some time now I have been able to do exactly that, sharing my love for her in platonic ways while still respecting her boundaries. Recently she came out as straight and even though I knew before this point she didn't and couldn't love me it still hurts so much. Does anyone know how I can numb myself to these feelings? I don't want to live without her in my life. How can I be a friend to her and not feel this constant anguish?
>>42292725this sort of thing tends to end up as super emotionally abusive imhoif u are good friends then she will understand and u should take a long break and when things settle u can reconnect
