Being fucked up is fine.Being fucked up and treating anyone trying to help you coldly and indifferently until they give up and leave is just...I don't even have the words...what the fuck is your problem? Do you LIKE having a shit life? I offer advice, money, help, everything. And I get "mmmneeeeggghhh..." in response.
>>42298255This describes most people on this board
>>42298255why are you, as a chaser, posting lain
>>42298255>someone is fucked up>"WHY IS YOUR BEHAVIOUR FUCKED UP?! YOURE AN IDIOT!"
>>42298255this sounds really personal. what happened.
I have perfected my "I'm doing good!" attitude to avoid this. I've been more and more clumsy lately, sunce while the brainfog and disassociation are there I don't let it slow down my movements or gaze as to not appear pathetic.
>>42298255> , money,Come again? Tell me more please.
That's me fsr, I developed a cold aptitude after years of lacking social stimulus and relationships desu. I get by fine ftmp and am functional and a part of society as a worker, just very lonely and almost unwilling to make friends. I can't seem to pinpoint why I'm exactly like this. Maybe cause I never had real friends growing up. Maybe I'm just a shitty person. Maybe I'm just tired and lost all motivation to be better. Maybe that's specifically what makes me a shitty person. Idk anymore. I've let so many people down and continue to do so. So many people have tried to keep in touch with me and I've even visited people in other states to try and find friends but I still ghost them and still wonder why I'm friendless and alone. Well if not wonder but loathe it. But also indifferent. I miss them. I miss being a kid and not worrying if I'll die alone. I just wish someone could hug me for a long time and never leave my side. But I'm too scared to find that
>approaches mentally ill people>they're mentally illHuh
>>42298255i understand your frustration, however a lot of the time people in a shit situation think they are underserving of receiving help, and so they push away those trying to help them because they feel bad taking the help you offer (see self-sabotaging in a relationship). this doesn’t mean you should just suck it up and take the abuse they give you, nor does it completely absolve them of their responsibility in avoiding putting effort into getting better, it’s just good to keep in mind that this isn’t always malicious
>>42298255Why would you want to fix any of the broken retards on this site?Just use them to get what you want
>>42298255>I offer advice, money, help, everythingputting the pussy on a pedestal isn't the wisest of strategies
>>42299018>>42299148Ok but TRY. You're mentally ill, you know this, so make an EFFORT to overcome it and do what you know you're supposed to be doing. I'm not expecting you to stop being fucked up, just fucking move ONE INCH, just TRY instead of laying there on the floor going "I'm mentally ill..." expecting anyone to care.
>just try not being mentally ill
>>42299841Yes.You can recognise what you're doing, see the patterns, and catch yourself. But no, you wanna revel in your shittyness. Because it's what you know and it's easier than caring. "I don't care". You're all mentally children, you refuse to grow up.
