Socialising guide for zoomers (Mostly for romance but a lot of it is applicable to platonic friendships too):>In general, you should type roughly the same amount as the other person types, and always ask them a question about themselves after you talk about yourself "Oh I really like this band, blah blah blah, what band do you like?">It is considered extremely rude to disappear mid-convo or take 10+ minutes per reply, if you are busy you say "Hey sorry, I'm outside/doing the dishes/working on something/etc. so replies might be slow for a bit">Check in with people at important times of the day, like when you wake up, lunchtime, early evening and before bed>If someone messages you, and you're too busy for a conversation, it takes 5 seconds to say "Hey I'm busy, I'll message you later">Show interest in the other persons life, ask them how they're doing, they will do the same for you if they care>You should want to be with someone you like all the time, it shouldn't be an effort, it should feel natural>IF THIS ALL SEEMS LIKE TOO MUCH, YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT THE PERSON, DO THEM The COURTESY OF NOT INTERACTING WITH THEM AND WASTING THEIR TIMETreat internet conversations as if you're stood face to face with that person irl, behave accordingly.
>>42300184I do all of these and I decided I didn't want to talk to someone and just stopped replying to their messages now they send me monthly messages asking what I'm doing
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Good advice bump
>>42300184I only do all this for romantic partners. Being like this with friends made me feel like I was everybody's ai boyfriend.
i just let grok respond for me
>>42300393I can tell you're a real zoomer because OP said that, but zoomies can't read and synthesize large blocks of text, so they just try to hunt for the most important information in them instead
>>42300201this, I ran out of juice so now I'm only focusing on surviving and maybe making steps to get out of the hole, there's too little life left to be others' emotional tampon, cheering them on while nothing improves for me
>>42300601find some friends who support you as well.a good friendship should go both ways.
>>42300609you're right
Any decent advice for actually finding other trans ppl that are at least somewhat mentally stable?I can't find any friends irl cuz all the other zoomies are normies or they don't gaf about relationships.coming from a 19yr old wageslave troon.
>>42300184>It is considered extremely rude to disappear mid-convo or take 10+ minutes per replyShit, is it? I do this a lot and never cared if it was done to me unless the person took literal hours to respond. And even then I'm just thinking something came up and they'll pick it up later
>>42300632>Any decent advice for actually finding other trans ppl that are at least somewhat mentally stable?They are called reppers who try to stay on the right path and haven’t thrown their humanity away for delusions We used to call them tomboys and soft men before the mass delusion hypnosis started being pushed in 2010
>>42300184>It is considered extremely rude to disappear mid-convo or take 10+ minutes per replyHow do you not do this though? It literally takes me 10 minutes to even think of a reply to any message I get. I actually get mad when people respond to me in under a few seconds, it's like fuck dude, give me some time to think first, you know? Or when people send you like 10+ messages in a row instead of typing in fucking paragraphs, that shit drives me up the walls.>IF THIS ALL SEEMS LIKE TOO MUCH, YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT THE PERSON, DO THEM The COURTESY OF NOT INTERACTING WITH THEM AND WASTING THEIR TIMEI'm like this with everyone, even people I like or am very close to. Sometimes they complain but I literally do not understand how you message quickly without sounding uninterested and short
>>42302118OP's advice is a bit extreme. Not really applicable if you and/or the person you're talking to have busy lives. But that's something you'd already be aware of. You can also take a bit to respond if you're writing a longer message or looking for a link to send them or something, depends on the kind of conversation it is.For a more down-to-earth example, my boyfriend and I don't text every day, and when we do we don't always respond right away, but we also live together so if it's that important we'll just bring it up in person. Face to face is always better than digital anyway.
>>42300184>>It is considered extremely rude to disappear mid-convo or take 10+ minutes per reply, if you are busy you say "Hey sorry, I'm outside/doing the dishes/working on something/etc. so replies might be slow for a bit"this is only considered rude if you are BPD and/or actually a teenager
>>42302208only one under delusion hypnosis is you retard
>>42302208lmao, reppers are quite literally some of the least mentally stable people on the planet
>>42300184this is psychotic
>>42302208>reppers>mentally stablewhenever i see these posts i wonder about the person writing them. are you a repper? schizoposting on the tranny board doesn't seem very stable of you.
>>42300184>Sure>Wtf no>Sure, depends>Depends>Yeah>Oh wait this is a bpd post>Lol.Got me.
>>You should want to be with someone you like all the time, it shouldn't be an effort, it should feel naturalThis one is not healthy. I would take a bullet for my partner and if he ever truly needs me I am there instantly but I do need to have some amount of alone time and so does he
