There are still some people that just want their needs handled and to serve their caretaker right? I have a good job, im alright looking, and practical, but people gasp when I expect things in return from a partner.I want someone who likes being looked after and doesn't mind taking direction, that’s not a flaw in my opinion its normal.I’m not into endless debates or pretending everything’s equal all the time, the roles should be set, I take care of you and you take care of me.You do what’s expected, I make sure you’re comfortable and accounted for. I don't know how I can say it more plainly but It seems impossible to find someone who wants and understands that.I like to think this kind of setup works best for people who can more easily relax when someone else is fully in charge and fully takes care of them. Also im not here to convince anyone.If this bothers you, keep scrolling I don't care to debate the merits of my worldview. I'm mostly asking why this seems so hard to find these days.
Oh GodA feeder tranny mommy
>>42305511huh? where'd you get the feeder impression?
>>42305485Some true HSTS are like this: the ones who had very low prenatal T and E, whose brains neither masculinized nor defeminized. They're essentially the platonic ideal of a 1950s housewife, psychologically. Lots of fakers who pretend to be HSTS, though. Even among true HSTS it's not universal, though. The androgen insensitive ones are a mixed bag because their brains didn't masculinize but did defeminize.
>>42305559idk i socially masculinized but instinctively revert to tradwife when a man performs his role with me.
>>42305576Well, there's being naturally socially masculine, and there's trying as hard as you can to fit in and be accepted by other boys but it never works out no matter what you do.
hi hello? yes? is this even a question??? (´-﹏-';)
>>42305617you'd be surprised how difficult it is to find. for whatever reason, not many people want to be in that sort of tradwife setup. esp not with a tran. most people into that sort of thing want a man
>>42305485I want a boyfriend or husband who will either earn a nontrivial income relative to my own (enough to hire help to take care of the house) or will take care of the house himself. I don't care as long as he pulls his weight and I don't need to do housework. In return I will provide a very comfortable standard of living.
>>42305485Probably because you fall short on executing that hot fantasy “wealthy, good looking, dominant master” and instead come off as more of a saudi prince prick. I’m assuming you want to have it your way unquestioned, including some possibly flawed aspects that entails. Flawed aspects that read their head clearly to the sub partner. And then they realize “wow, this really isn’t as fair an exchange as I imagined”.Yeah it’s going to keep being a difficult thing for you if you’re not actually holding up to your end of the bargain.
>>42305640r u for reali'm like pre-everything because i'm a neet lozer but being the housewife to another girl who is more of the leader and breadwinner is literally my dream wtf.pretty sure that's a super common transbian fantasy lol
>>42305640i guess its kinda cheating cause im bi but as long as i get to pour my heart out for somebody with nice food and warm cuddles and lots of love and they take good care of me and assume the in-control roll i think id be happy no matter what.if you cant tell already im a sad lonely faggot!
>>42305647that's very basedi wish you luck>>42305669>i'm like pre-everything because i'm a neet lozer but being the housewife to another girl( ._.) it's always the "pre-everything" NEETs who want this arrangementnever the multi year hrt passing tranniesthis is why i will die alone>>42305672god i need this in my life
>>42305685Thanks anon.I want to come home after a long day at the office to a clean house, a hot dinner, and a man who loves me.
>>42305685>never the multi year hrt passing trannies >this is why i will die aloneyoud be surprised i think! like i pass pretty well but i just dont put out for lack of social spaces and confidence and id bet a ton that im not the only one out there
>>42305705would you like to be my petwife?
>>42305685just tell me to kms fuckwell duh. people who *want* this have a disposition that makes them wind up in positions like that.plenty of people want this either way lol.
>>42305485I have always desired a relationship like this, but figure it comes from a place of selfishness since I have been a recluse for many years. It has been so so lonely that 10,000 words could not describe it, the solitude makes me want to puke. But, any relationship would be very unequal, all I have to give is love & would otherwise be a bum who requires so much emotional energy from you. How could I do that, dump all my shit on someone I love and watch it suck the life from them like it has from me? Idk. It is a nice thought though </3
>>42305735Bpd alert
>>42305737nah, avpd
>>42305719sorry i feel a little bad being so mean but i'm just really tired of people like you adding me and wasting my time whenever i post somewhere looking for this sort of arrangement so many times it's happened that i have added someone who wanted the setup and claimed to be cute, talked for some period of time, and then i get sent a selfie and want to gouge my eyes outit's demoralizing>>42305735homemaking, to include cooking, cleaning, etc. is extremely valuable. it's genuinely worth a lot
>>42305713probably! but then id actually have to take some romantic initiative and that's scary (;ŏ﹏ŏ)
>>42305740Nigga hush
>>42305735you put this so eloquently
>>42305742scared girls are hot..... especially when they whimper
>>42305741>homemaking, to include cooking, cleaning, etc. is extremely valuable. it's genuinely worth a lotis it? idk. it feels very burdensome to not be a financial contributor, as someone who has always been pretty poor. having someone who makes your meals & cleans your toilet is nice, and i am no material hound, but everything adds up when its x2. if you're absolutely sure though...i'd pursue this, tentatively>then i get sent a selfie and want to gouge my eyes outit's demoralizingmy body https://files.catbox.moe/g7lber.jpgif you've been on passgen you've probably seen me, but i can DM face if you're legit
>>42305768ive been told i do but im always worried it comes off as annoying so i try to stay quiet!
>>42305741>talked for some period of time, and then i get sent a selfie and want to gouge my eyes outno, i understand. i've had a million bad experiences from the other side (they're very attracted but they still end up ghosting after a week, they start dropping the red flags or being super annoying or whatever) ime it's best to exchange pics like, quickly because of all that, of course.
>>42305784Nta but you should lose...20... pounds
>>42305797meh. 135 at 5'5 is good enough
>>42305784i mean, i make a decent amount. not like rich or anything, but enough to provide for two without issue (around 150k/year)i honestly have been considering hiring a maid service or something because i just never feel like i have enough time to clean properly. pair that with hating to cook for one, and it's really tough. i don't like itcute booba btw >>42305787but the cute noises are the best part...
>>42305813I respectfully disagree
>>42305821Seriously. Hire someone to clean. The time saved is more than worth the money spent unless you're extremely bad with your financies.
>>42305485I feel you OP. I'm pretty young too and yet can completely provide for a shut-in girl. No one ever commits to it thougheverbeit>>42305647location?
>>42305821its okay i make up for my soothing voice and cute whimpers with an awful slight rural twang i cant shake no matter how hard i try and a very mid face n body (〒﹏〒)
> easily relax when someone else is fully in charge and fully takes care of them>If this bothers you, keep scrolling I don't care to debate the merits of my worldview. I'm mostly asking why this seems so hard to find these days.Without moralizing over whether this is okay or not (I don't care either way, you do you, not my life) I'll try to answer that. Being financially dependent on someone is a massive risk and puts you in a vulnerable position. If they turn into a psycho you can just kick them out, if you turn into a psycho they have to choose between enduring how you treat them or being on the street with no money. If 10 years down the line you're sick of them and they get dumped they'll have no skills and will now be an old person in the position of an 18 year old neet. At least if this happens in a traditional cis hetero marriage situation the submissive one has a lot of safeguards in place to make sure she doesn't end up on the street (alimony, domestic violence shelters, relatives more likely to take her in). These factors mean it's going to be extremely rare to find someone who actually wants this in its entirety. I'm sure they're out there though
>>42305863slight rural twang is EXTREME sexxohow mid is "very mid"..... asking for a friend>>42305846ugh don't tempt me
>>42305821Wellllll, I'm a midwestern mutt, but I can learn to cook whatever foods you prefer. Slow on prep but it's not too hard to make sure there's a warm yummy meal on the table every night. Cleaning is just like mentally turning yourself into one of those youtube cleaning shorts & zoning out from the bacteria until it's clean & smells good. What type of shows do you like?
>>42305874skinny 5'11" and tiny boobs... ngmi im afraid
>>42305912you sound like wife material, but you are taller than me, which i know ruins it for some people..... to give up the game a little, i'm honestly bottom-coded in pretty much every way (looks, personality, etc.) except for the fact that i want to be a provider for my wife and am kind of into the tradwife setup.... that's another reason i fear i am doomed>>42305884gosh it's crazy you say this, because i had a setup with someone, and if you listened to hear, you'd think cooking and cleaning were impossible tasks that you couldn't complete even within an entire week.........i have not watched a lot of shows recently. i like spy and heist movies, thoughhorror is really good, too, but it's way too scary to watch alone......
>>42305576>i socially masculinized but instinctively revert to tradwife when a man performs his role with melmao this is exactly me
>>42305943i can understand being demotivated to do for yourself, because i often am, but when it's for someone else it's totally different. having the privilege to be a pampered little house pet that gets to provide these things for my superior would be a dream...that girl is crazy for messing up the chance x.xas for shows, i binge a lot of Star Trek these days, but also like mob & historical movies. horror is interesting...ive never watched any bc it is def too scary to watch alone, even lost media videos give me the heebie jeebies. but im 5'5 so if you're able for me to be little spoon...<3
>>42305485im actually in this dynamic with a cis woman, look for kinsey 5 women who identify with the feminine role.
>>42305976haha, well, i can't say i understand it, but yeah. it was an unfortunate situation overalloh, 5'5" is a breddy gud height >>42305980i think this task is probably a bit easier said than done
>>42306027>i think this task is probably a bit easier said than doneyoud be surprised. think about it from her perspective, how hard is it to find a woman willing to support a partner financially?
>>42306027welp, you're not interested. maybe in another life ;-;
>>42305485This is literally all I've ever wanted. I feel trapped in colorado and I just can't take the constant looking around for someone to take care of me. I work at my best when someone is in charge, and I yearn for the feeling of being needed by someone else just as much as I need them in that way.
>>42306048Maybe they will after the 20 >>42306094Selfie?
>>42306040ummm, really fucking easy if she's willing to accept trans women lol>>42306048i never said that bakai was just thinking on the subject cause you seem pretty into shows, but our taste doesn't really align>>42306094what's stopping you?
>>42306193you don't have the personality for this
>>42306204i'm aware. i said as much in >>42305943i am quite bottom-coded
>>42305485>There are still some people that just want their needs handled and to serve their caretaker right?There are, yes. It's like, I've been in vanilla relationships where I was expected to be on a rather equal footing as my partner, to be independent myself and so on, and those were very much not for me.And eventually I've spent a good amount of time just talking with a few doms and realised that what they have to offer is exactly for me, to be dominated in all aspects of my life, to be used sexually, to be controlled but also taken care for, protected, kept safe and in conditions that let me thrive. And I saw eventually that all the things that make a good sub are very much within me already and they just need a right type of man for me not to be afraid to show that part of me. There's a lot more to write about that but what I wanted to convey is that it is absolutely possible to find people who are going to want this
>>42305485Well me but I'm probably not pretty enough so maybe next year after ffs
>>42305869>Being financially dependent on someone is a massive risk and puts you in a vulnerable position. If they turn into a psycho you can just kick them out, if you turn into a psycho they have to choose between enduring how you treat them or being on the street with no money. If 10 years down the line you're sick of them and they get dumped they'll have no skills and will now be an old person in the position of an 18 year old neet. At least if this happens in a traditional cis hetero marriage situation the submissive one has a lot of safeguards in place to make sure she doesn't end up on the street (alimony, domestic violence shelters, relatives more likely to take her in).as the wiser women say, "a man is not a plan"
>>42305485>I want someone who likes being looked after and doesn't mind taking direction, that’s not a flaw in my opinion its normalim begging and pleading id be a good dog
