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>be me (FTM, 18)
>live with transphobic parents
>live in a country where HRT is free if you have a gender dysphoria diagnosis
>therapist says he won’t diagnose me unless i come out to my parents first
>buying T at the drugstore costs 300 [currency] per month

my mom cries hysterically/screams at me/calls me a dyke/tells me to stop ruining myself every time i cut my hair short and tomboymode, i think she’d have a stroke if i pooned out
but i also think i’m too retarded to get a job
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>>42307227
you need to get out of the house. it's an unsafe environment. figure out how you can move out. yes start the drugstore t when you can afford it. your therapist is trying to look out for you so you dont get abused worse when you start growing hair. shouldnt gatekeep you but you have to understand that you are being abused and it will get worse if you transition under that roof. im so sorry
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>>42307227
Sounds like the only way out is to get a job and stand on your own feet. Or become my repper gf, your choice
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>>42307242
*sexually abused
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>>42307227
you need to move out. how do you know you can't get a job? it might be hard if you're autistic but it's not impossible
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>>42307227
what's your 'cord?
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>>42307227
>tells me to stop ruining myself every time i cut my hair short and tomboymode, i think she’d have a stroke if i pooned out
but i also think i’m too retarded to get a job

tsmt. i felt that
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>>42307227
Lie to the therapist? Say you told your mom
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>>42307227
>but i also think i’m too retarded to get a job
What's the plan then to hikkineet forever?
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>>42307227
>therapist says he won’t diagnose me unless i come out to my parents first
genuinely fucking crazy. imagine if we held any other treatment back to an adult under the guise of "tell mom and dad" first. i cant comment on ftm stuff bc im a troon in the other way but this entire situation sounds awful...sending you positive vibes <3
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>>42307227
>won't take the free route because of how she feels about someone else
>won't get a job because of how she feels about herself
>calls herself Ft"M" while still being a tomboy
Fem"reppers" always acting the exact opposite of how actual men function never isn't hilarious to see. You'll be fine.
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>>42310304
Well damn they need T to make T based decisions
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>>42310354
>T based decisions
If she isn't even capable of making those even beforehand it's already a lost cause.
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>>42310398
Naah the hormones change you. Trust.
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>>42307654
honestly there is no plan because i didn’t think i’d live until 18 but yeah you’re right i need to stop being a neet

>>42310304
i never said i wouldn’t do these things you retard i’m literally asking for advice because i wanted to see what other trans people think is the best option before following through with either
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>>42310464
>i never said i wouldn’t do these things
Yet you haven't.
>i’m literally asking for advice because i wanted to see what other trans people think
Again revolving your choices around other people's opinion when the obvious answer has already been there.
If you had anything to actually repress, you wouldn't need to go through the mental gymnastics to take initiative.
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Get a fucking job retard
>baawww my parents dont suppowt me baww!
Then hrtrep until you can cut them off. I was homeless and transitioning and sleeping in the alley behind my job. Not once did I think about going back
I would ask why standing on your own two feet is so hard for femreppers, but it's because they're all more fembrained than most cis women. None of you deserve to transition if you crumble versus the smallest adversity or challenge.
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>>42310731
i mean, yeah, i waited until i was 18 so i could access free HRT, i had no way of knowing my therapist would gatekeep me

plus i wouldn’t call being afraid of messing up something with high stakes “mental gymnastics” but whatever i’m sure you’re sooooo malebrained you don’t need to think at all before making life-changing decisions
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>>42307227
>300 [currency] per month
What currency?
It matters if it's euros, złoty or hrivnya, desu.
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>>42307227
she needs some bbc
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>>42310899
it’s none of those, eurofag
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>>42310839
>afraid of messing up something with high stakes
I wouldn't call bitching on the internet over an issue you already know how to solve whatever that is.
>i waited until i was 18
Now that you are, the time you spend blaming others for your own incompetency could've been spent at the very least writing a job application.
>basic knowledge is sooooo malebrained
At least you manage to prove that point.
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>>42310899
in the age of globalism too if you couldn't just freelance for americans, then lol.
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>>42307227
You should ignore your mom and verbally abuse her as retaliation.

Mothers who do not support their children's choices do not deserve respect.
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>>42310464
>i didn’t think i’d live until 18
Lmao child.
Go find a job. It's doesn't have to be epic, stocking shelves is enough.
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>>42310839
either lie to your therapist and get free hrt or come out to your parents and get free hrt
do you honestly expect to make it as a dickless manlet when you're already this helpless
>life-changing decision
can only be a boon if you're actually ftm and not another fem"repper" lying to herself



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