>be me>2y hrt>tops mainly>can't orgasm>tries bottoming>can't orgasm>masturbates>can't orgasm>sex feels like an unpleasant chore nowIs it normal for me to lose the ability to orgasm entirely this early? I've been quite sexually active I might add.
maybe you dont enjoy having sex with the person you were doing it with anymore?
Thrre are times in your life where due to stress or hormonal factors or physical changes you find it difficult to orgasm. Part of transitioning to female is reconceptualizing sex to where it's more about the pleasure along the way than orgasming every time. My guess is you need to change up your techniques as well to fit the slower ramp up your body needs. And if you're impatient or anxious or have this idea in your head that you "lost the ability to orgasm" you won't orgasm. Classic performance anxiety. Let go of the goal of orgasming and it will happen again on its own.
>>42317937Thanks for the advice, it's not that I'm hyper focused on orgasming it's just that it's frustrating how I've had next to no release for the past 2y, weird pattern I'm noticing
