how the fuck do you maintain a relationship if you have bi cycles?I was flirting with a girl for like 3 months that I was head over heels for. Now I'm just not attracted to her at all, by no fault of her own and the only thing I can think about how much I want to flatten a pathetic boys dick. This was a problem in my last relationship and it made her feel like shit.
>>42321096I experience bi cycles as well, but if I find someone attractive I'll always find them attractive no matter how my attraction is skewed that day, so I can't really help you here
It's usually done through open relationships but if you're monogamous you just have to thug it out. I not only threw away the best relationship I had with a woman by far by being in the mood for men for a single week but also cheated on a guy by having a woman mood for like a month.
I’m a bi guy. Married to a womanI have cycles where I really crave to suck and fuck a big dick but just jerk it out. Wish I could cheat or be in an open relationship but I’d hate for her to do that to me so I understand why that’s not an option. I have too high standards / morals to cheat. My bicycles never turn me off from being attracted to her though. The thoughts of dick aren’t a replacement - they’re bonus. Sure wish they’d go away though.
>>42321129Same, it only affects new attractions.>>42321256I'm engaged and sorta similar. My fiancee sometimes says it would be ok or hot for me to hook up with a guy, but I think she might be too jealous if I did it for real. So I just enjoy the variety when jerking it.
>>42321096>how the fuck do you maintain a relationship if you have bi cycles?You kill yourself, for taking pride in being a gross fetishist and labeling yourself as one and for not being able to take control of the said promiscuous cheating fetish. Will be a good thing for everyone.>>42321256>I’m a bi guy. Married to a womanYou don't to waste words on things that are obvious.
>>42321690I'm sorry I ghosted you grindrbro
>>42321096polygamy and polyamory
Idk for me over time my attraction to women grew more and more shallow and my attraction to men and need to have sex with them got stronger and stronger. Eventually i just have up and gave in, broke up with my GF and dated men. I wouldn't want to be in the pressure cooker of a heterosexual relationship when I wanted to bottom for men anyway. Over time my attraction to men kept deepening and intensifying and became romantic and my attraction women continued to decline to almost nothing, so i think I chose right. It was really hard to go through it in my 20s.I also don't realy have that much faith in "bi" as a concept. Many people who have a preference for men or women are not completely straight, but their lean is strong enough that identifying as straight or gay makes sense for them. So for some straight guys the occasional gay porn isn't a problem, but if they secretly actually prefer gay sex,that will often require honesty with their GF and maybe breaking up.
