it feels like no matter what ill always have walls up with people or they will misinterpret me as something else. it feels like being trans puts you at such a disconnect with so many people. rn im enbycoping untill i start getting a passing ratio of 60% or higher. it feels like being trans just makes it uncomfterable with cis ppl even allies. if they are allies the most theyll ever do is liten to you talk abt how being trans sucks and go "that sucks" but also i dont have any trans friends. i just hangout w cis girls who are like all bi thats about it. unfortunately i find most trans women in my area to be insufferable or just ppl i dont connect with. the only trans person ive made a deep connection is a trans guy from another country but still i never feel fully seen. idk y
>>42326153what did i do wrong?? y is my post being ignored
you're probably just avoidant
>>42326793also never expect understanding from cis people, explaining yourself and trans problems to them doesn't go well
>>42326815i dont, theres no point.>>42326793i tried to reconnect w ppl from hs like literally a year after grad cus we didnt talk at all since and like 90% eventually just stopped talking to me. idk ig im just weird, i fit in with anybody
>>42326815like ig what i was getting at is that i like the temperament of cis women but i never relate to them cus trans but i dislike most trans womens personalities tho i relate to them abt trans shit. idk it feels stupid but i find so many other trans women so annoying.
>>42326793I don't get why people here are so quick to put labels like this or BPD on people and call it a day. Do you think that actually helps? Is OP just supposed to accept this and resign?
>>42326840i dont fit in*
>>42326888well usually people pursue cbt type stuff if you asked a therapist and said these issues were really bothering you they probably would recommend that, but it's never helped me personally
