I hate interacting with other trans people irl, I've never interacted with someone who transitioned as young as me, but every one I deal with i always feel like they're so dismissive of my dysphoria and any issues eith my body just because I'm smaller and it's super upsetting to be venting and basically get dismissed and told how lucky I am.
>>42328053>look for community and understanding >met with resentment and dismissal that sucks op
>>42328053where are you meeting other trans people IRL? I almost never see trannies anywhere
>>42328053sorry op. I'm a big ol' brickhon but I have empathy so I would empathize with you and not dismiss you.
>>42328053I transitioned "late" by this board's standards. But you described impeccably why I don't interact IRL in queer spaces at all. Way too much resentment and bad faith, desuIt is what it is. Do like me: blend fully with normies.Normies are nowhere near as bad as these spaces make them out to be.
>>42328078It sounds like she deserves it.OP suck it up
You kind of have to looks match the people you vent to about dysphoria. If you have it better they get mad like you're humble bragging, if you have it worse they sometimes say some pretty mean shit passively. Personally I'd listen to you and not dismiss you cuz I'm not dysphoric anymore and don't really care if people have it better than me.
Honestly i probably wouldn't want to hear it if the difference is too big either.
wow OP I'm so sorry you don't have enough support as a passing youngshit.. it must be really hard to be so much better than all the fugly hons out there- in both looks and personality! it's okay though, your parents are probably rich enough to get you a good therapist. or, you could just go out and enjoy living your life as an incredibly fortunate young woman, and forget about all those fugly troons on the bad website?
>doesn’t share a great deal of common experience with a community >hmmmmm why am i not fitting in with this community
>>42328053Doesn't matter how young you transitioned; if you don't have one of a small number of intersex conditions then you still got normal prenatal masculinization which HRT cannot reverse.
tfw you hate interacting with other trans people so much you cant stop antagonizing older transitioners
>>42328117Thats what I do normally desu, I just had to interact with my new person for electrolysis and had this happen again. I learned my lesson long ago and aside from someone who's gonna know cause she's zapping my dick, I don't interact with any other trans people at this point. I just wish there was someone I could sometimes, after 12 years of stealth there are things i wish I could say to some people but the community has never changed.
>>42328053when did u transition?
>>42329557>but the community has never changedOh but it did. For the worse, that is.>t. trooned out in 2008
>>423295752011 when i was 15>>42329586At least here in California I've never noticed a differenceAnd online seems like the same attitude since 2011
>>42328053Bro, nobody fucking cares. The world has changed its mind about changing gender, you can't do it.
>>42329586I started in 2009. It felt like everything went to shit around 2014 when visibility exploded and unserious transitions became common.
>>42329620That is my impression too.Thank fuck I could go stealth by 2011 or so and blend with the normies,>>42329606Awww, you're so young.Congrats and hugs.>t. >>42329586
>>42329606like early 15 or late 15, like we’re u on puberty blockers beforehand or
>>42329620Ah right yeah unserious transitions did become more common i forgot that when I said nothing has changed I remember i had some "ftm" in my last year of higschool who she was such a feminine girl, walked around with a t shirt that just said HE on it and was such an obnoxious person she's the only person I ever bullied growing up. Tbh she's probably one of those they them girls nowadays I doubt she ever even took T.
>>4232960615 is far too late. You've had more than half of male puberty by that point
>>42329665>15 is far too lateDelusional nonsense.
>>42329659Doesn't matter. If you haven't started HRT (not just blockers) by 11 then you'd better hope you're intersex.
>>42329659Late 15 no blockers before hand. Just depression and a self castration attempt before that
>>42329684and you’re stealth now? how tall r u
>>423297075'3"
>>42329742So you "pass" because you're short lol
>>42329606you’re 30 years old? and you transitioned at 15? i would think after 15 years you’d figure out how to manage this on your own, even if you’ve never found others to commiserate with (which i highly doubt, other youngshitters exist) to be stuck like this for 15 years speaks to something internally you’ve been avoiding. idk, it’s not so hard to accept that nobody gives af about you at all. and that’s just how the world works it’s nothing personal.
