>bi cis guy>6'1, stocky build somewhere between muscular and fat>got turned down by all three bi trans girls i asked outAm I just too ugly? Is it the diagnosed autism and speech impediment? Is it the giant philosopher-tier beard? Why am I so repulsive?
>>42330851It's probably the speech impediment>t. 5'9 chubbystrong autistic bearded bi guy but without a speech impediment who does well with trans women
>>42330864damn... that sucks. i hate my fucked speech, i guess i gotta work on that
>>42330851how did you ask them out? the fact you've asked out 3 separate trans girls makes me suspect you're doing something creepy tbdesu
>>42330887they're all friends i already knew, and we all stayed friends afterwardsi tell them i think they're pretty and would like to go on a date
>>42330906assuming they know each other mutually then? if i knew a guy was going through my friend group asking out all the tgirls i'd say hell nobut realistically you probably just aren't very good looking or have chud/incel energy or both. i've been asked out by decent looking guys but you can sense chud/incel energy from phenotype and demeanor. the beard is almost certainly not helping. a close shave/stubble or short, well groomed beard is ALWAYS more attractive than some long frizzy diogenes beard.also approach women with humility so that they don't reject instinctively, trans women are even more prone to doing this because we assume you will murder us if you didn't already know we're trans. your goal is not to date the woman but to get to know her to see if you would WANT to date, and just saying "you're pretty" gives a shallow, sex-forward impression.so something like "hey [name], i hope it's not too forward but i'd love to get a drink/coffee with you sometime if you're interested? cool if not," or similar. first dates are intimidating for women and trans women even moreso so you want to take as much pressure off them as possible and give an air of casual confidence.
