I never thought much about this but I think I may be a lesbian? I’ve had 4 sexual partners (all male) and i didnt enjoy sex at all, ive never finished before (even when they eat me out and finger me) I just did it because it’s the only way I know to show someone i care about them. I normally just close my eyes and think about other things. I always thought this was normal/ a chore for everyone because of how often other girls talk about their partners being bad at sex but i don’t know anymore. Im still young (CF18) maybe i will grow out of this or it is some kind of trauma response as ive been molested a few times. I have had crushes on women throughout my lifetime, and i’m not a big porn user but whenever i do i can only finish if it’s between two girls and if im thinking of something it never includes men/a distinct person. I dont know if this would make me bi or lesbian or straight and just going through a phase idk?
>im not attracted to men>i am attracted to women and am a woman>am i lesbian?complicated situation
>>42337311Sounds asexual
>>42337336Im attracted to their faces i just dont like having sex with them or their bodies
>>42337311All women are AGP lesbians hun
>>42337311probably lesbian. look up "compulsory heterosexuality" and see if that resonates with you.
>>42337311asexual lesbians exist, it's fine to just want a woman as a romantic partner but not desire her sexually, i've known a couple of women like that
>>42337402Can you be asexual if you masturbate regularly?>>42337414This made me laugh thanks anon :3
>>42337447> Can you be asexual if you masturbate regularly?Do you feel any sexual attraction when you’re not masturbating?
>>42337458Nah not that i can remember>>42337439Hm i will look into this, i never even considered rhe possibility i was asexual because ive had sex multiple times>>42337432Thank you
>>42337311pretty common for women to not get off just from piv and most dudes are really bad at sex like you mentioned>ive been molested a few timesprobably fucked up your ability to be intimate i would consider therapy if you haven'tcould be bi or a lesbian, you mentioned still being attracted to men but can't get off from sex with them so leads me to believe bi lesbian leaninggo fuck around with some girls op
>>42337496Well if you never enjoying the sex is a good indicator that you’re asexual it’s not bad at all tho anyways you should probably stay away from this board nona it’s bad for the mental health lol
>>42337511This fr, this place isn't good for young people
>>42337503Most women not cumming from PIV is insane to me, moids are evil and sex is definitelt an altruistic act wtf> go fuck around with some girls opI think ill do this after i move out, being bi with lesbian lean makes sense to me>>42337511>>42337540Thank you nonas, ngl this board is a breath of fresh air for me. way better than spending my time on /pol/ and /r9k/ :p Also ill learn more about asexual stuff thank u <3
>>42337625>way better than spending my time on /pol/ and /r9k/ :poh okay those places are much worse for a young girl, I guess you're used to negativity thenstill not healthy though!!!!!!!!!!!
>>42337625>moids are evilr9k pilledi think they are mostly just very dumb about sex and women's bodies