So everyone knows that being a visibly trans, non-passing tranny really fucking sucks, you get bullied and looked down upon by everyoneWhat I don't understand is, why don't people just hide their transition until 2yrs in? Like until then you are basically stuck getting read as a tranny and maybe pitied, or understood by other trannies and maybe cis women who view you as suffering toy, all of these are degrading. Should we just date gay men on grindr?
being unpassing trans is still more socially acceptable than being gay
>>42337913that's called boymoding
>>42337913i boymoded for 4 years and even now at 8 years i dont pass if i kept hiding id never come out
>>42337917How?
For me there's a high likelihood I'll need ffs, which means I'll have to hon mode for a year to get insurance to do its jobI've been considering just hiding in my house the whole time honestly
>What I don't understand is, why don't people just hide their transition until 2yrs in? Me when I boymoded for 7 years and after 15 months I was read as a tranny in men's clothes and people going "er umm ma'am er umm sir". In hindsight I think the humiliation of jumping right into it day 1 is better than this.
>>42337929The anon you are replying to is a deeply disturbed person, probably a third worlder. Truth is, being visibly trans is far more deleterious than being an openly gay male in the West. That anon posts endlessly about how trannies should just be “effeminate” gay men, and that trans women are just honophobic gay men. They will never engage in an actual discussion about their personal circumstances that have led them to spamming this board. Doing so is some sort of coping mechanism for them, and I deeply pity that they have to cope and seethe and project so hard. It’s so bad that they oscillate between LARPing as a “gay chaser” and a so-called “self aware tranny” that knows s/he is fundamentally male. They are a very disturbed person who could benefit from being honest, but instead opts to say very strange, even confessional things if you read between the lines.
>>42337913>What I don't understand is, why don't people just hide their transition until 2yrs in?first of all, living as a man is torture and being read as a tranny might be better than manmoding for a lot of troons, especially if you don't live in a conservatoid rural wasteland.second of all, i'm really not sure picrel would pass as well as she does if she'd have spent the last two years draining her soul by manmoding.>>42337917depends on where you are i guess, but certainly not in europe/america
What is it called when you don't put any effort on appearing manly and even act feminine, but you do all necessary to appear feminine except for clothing and makeup, that works for me, hair, skincare, mannerisms, basically one step away from honmoding, it has kept me relatively sane the last few years.
>>42337913At worst I look as bad as the pic in the upper left.... this timeline is fucking hopefuel.
>>42337913the real question is how did it take 2 years for this retard to discover tranny bangs?
>>42338189>tranny bangsThey are literally just bangs. They don’t hide a male brow as well as trannies think. Usually it accentuates masculine features by drawing the eyes to the lower visual third of the face which is where most trannies fail. Something like a wolf cut is always more forgiving because it balances the face instead of pulling the eyes to the mid face and lower 3rd where dimorphism becomes more apparent.
>>42338218blah blah blah blah I use chatgpt to help me choose my hairstyle. It can help some people pass better if they have small chins. If they have a long chin though curtain bangs are going to be better.
its actually crazy how HRT can save some peoples looks, this girl is hot now but before was probably a khhv virgin. im trutrans but if i was an incel id troon
>>42338280>but if i was an incel id troon*raises hand*I did.
>>42338280If i was an incel i would achieve enlightenment and find out the truth of the universe
>>42338280you can't just recc it to any incel though, only cutecels, prettyboys could are valid too, but they aren't usually incel. If you are ogrecel it's ogre.
>>42338143metrosexual moding?
>>42338269I’m giving real advice born of experience and you’re accusing me of using ChatGPT lmao you zoomers are so cooked. You can’t recognize a real one from fucking AI, good lord
>>42338323Retard alert retard alert retard alert
>>42338355>cis women never have bangs!Crazy work that you actually believe this
>>42337913>What I don't understand is, why don't people just hide their transition until 2yrs in?I waited 2 (actually 3) years because this place told me I needed to manmode, don’t do it, I’m miserable now. You basically stop any of the "obvious" transition from being noticed by your family and friends so expect zero support there. While I learnt presentation in private it didn’t prepare me for how cruel the world is due to harassment and never getting gendered correctly. Despite a shit ton of therapy even my trans peers, who I’m maturer than, don’t respect me and brush my experiences off as babytrans. You are fucking yourself over doing this. Fight for yourself to get supported, fight for your pronouns to be respected, fight to just generally be respected. Don’t become like me, fucking transition as intended.
Because it's a leap of faith. Most only get to the passoid 2yr mark by wading through the awkward hon period. Infinite boymoding is a trap only luckshits make it out of.
>>42337913I'm 2 years on hrt yet I have never malefailed
have you ever cooked pasta? once the water is hot it is just so happy to be hot, it boils over. you have to take it off and on and off of the stove to maintain something.the reason trans women dont date men is because the men would assume they too are men.
>>423379131y9 mogs 2y5
>>42337913if you know you dont pass yet you should manmode, its just safer for you, if you know you dont pass and wont pass in the future wihtout a full body replacement just detransition or rope if you think you cant live as a man anymore
>>42338686demon post
>>42338686Fuck you
>>42337913ive been on hrt for almost 3 years and still look like a regular ass dude. its a complete meme.
>>42338686cant believe we have people on this board advocating for honmoding.
>>42337913well if u look at the end result and think 'waow estrogen did all that huh?' then I think u kind of misunderstand...like it isn't about like the laws of physics prohibiting the end result from being achieved before 2 yearsit's like the whole process of being that person and learning to live w/ that routine and style, which u can then improve w/ timebut now ur like asking 'why not just wait' and misunderstanding that it all happened on its own or w/ethe same person in op could spend 8 years boymoding wondering why they always look masculine
>covid tourist gay retards discover boymoding
>>42338699...she's right tho?you're making us look bad going out honmoding
>>42337917try getting a job
>>42338746Recommending roping is not being right. It's being a fucking demon.
>>42338757she only said it as an alternative to manmoding. i don't think you ahould rope but its preferable to honmoding
I am a hon and I should have roped
