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my chaser told me that he’s had thoughts abt transitioning these past few years and so i blocked him right away
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>>42337963
sorry that happened to you nona, you did the right thing. good luck finding a new chaser
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>>42337963
what's the deal with the chaser to cracked egg pipeline anyway, someone explain this to me
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>>42337970
They live vicariously through the trans women they date it’s very disgusting
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>>42337980
It’s not disgusting it’s just a deep lack of self awareness that’s kind of startling. These sorts of chasers are ultimately harmless, just time wasters
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>>42337988
Yeah you’re probably right i just don’t like being used and feeling used
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>>42337963
Do the kind of chasers who do this ever look like they have potential or are they just unremarkable moids
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>>42337980
>>42337988
i guess it would explain why they become chasers to begin with, or at least in part
did any of you stay friends with them after this happened?
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>>42338026
You are too focused on them and their problems. Focus on yourself. Truthfully, the real question is what about you attracts a man like that. If you are early in your transition, men like that will readily latch onto you. As you progress they become less of a problem because the gap between where you are and where they are is too wide for them to project themselves into you. Just write it off as a symptom of where you’re at, lots of trans girls deal with this shit early on. Just keep pushing and let him and men like him sort out their own issues
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>>42337980
I don't get it, if you want to live vicariously through someone, why not do it through cis woman?

T. Chaser that don't want to live vicariously through anyone
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>>42338051
im just curious and like learning about these things and hearing peoples stories
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>>42338060
>why not do it through cis woman
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>>42338051
Someone early in their transition is easier to map yourself onto, almost a “ok if I trooned out this person is a good approximation of where I could be in the immediate future”
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>>42338064
I didn’t stay friends with my ex who was like this because he decided to drink and goon and physically abuse me because I progressed beyond a point that he could reliably map himself onto. Once I stopped functioning as some sort of template for him he got sadistic. This is why so many trans women avoid questioning men - they can be dangerous
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If you knew for a fact he'd become a 10/10 passoid with a big cock would you have still blocked them.
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>>42338090
explains why you or the other anon said you felt used by them and makes sense why op just blocked after finding out about it
ive heard about this from trans women i talk to irl but none of them really went into depth about it and with what you are saying that makes sense why
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>>42338069
Makes a bit of sense i guess. Still think its retarded, like wtf is the point if living
vicariously through someone that is barely ahead of you? I'm not into celeb worship but i kinda get it, you live a shit life and follow some tabloid star that has it all or whatever. But this shit is like a homeless person gooning over someone that lives in his car.
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>>42338153
imagine it's similar to how some parents live through their kids with sports, etc which is also often abusive
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>>42338153
>this shit is like a homeless person gooning over someone that lives in his car.
I have never been a person motivated by jealousy so it’s incomprehensible to me at every level, but I sort of imagine it’s like you’re starving while someone is eating white rice. Like sure, there are people eating gourmet Michelin dinners out there who it would make more sense to be jealous of, but the person that’s barely above you is relatively closer, so latching onto them sort of makes more sense. Idk
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>>42337988
>It’s not disgusting it’s just a deep lack of self awareness that’s kind of startling.
Sometimes I forget that introspection and self understanding is not innate to everyone and is a skill you develop. It feels easy when you do it effortlessly but we're like marathon runners not understanding why someone gets winded after 30 seconds.
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>>42338228
Yeah and I think at the end of the day it’s not so important to dunk on people as it is to just warn girls and encourage them to trust their intuition. A chaser who is clearly confused is just better off avoided. Like don’t try to be their lodestar, their therapist, their friend, or demonize them. Just cut them off dry and move on. Everyone will be better for it.
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>>42337963
here little hsts I'll break it down for you if that nigga is AGP, they are probably a gynophile in the first place. This means that you are feminine, consider yourself validated dumb hoe.
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I wish a tranner could love a perma repper



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