two confusing feedbacks a few days apart>ask my coworker if he thinks our new boss knows im trans>he hits me with "who knows, maybe he doesn't. some women just don't have a very feminine physiognomy.">mfw>few days later, meet my firends roommate. later she is told im trans. roommate is confused and asks if im starting a ftm transition, is shocked to learn im mtf.idk what to think anymore. i get all kinds of responses from strangers too.
Are you retardedPeople who know you're trans always think you're masc because they want to believe they can always tell.I had a former friend recently tell me I'm visibly trans during a chud spiel. He knew me before transition. Do you think that makes his opinion worth anything? Ofc he'd say that.
>>42338921i’m *a bit* retarded. ty tho. i guess i shouldn’t minimize the effect of having known me before
>>42338929I mean you know you're trans and that leads to your dysphoria too. Like you probably have benign features you attribute to being trans but if you'd had amnesia tomorrow and thought you were cis you'd never.But np nona
>>42338915phrasing it as kindly as i can:>he>shesurely you know what i'm aiming at, yea?
>>42339052could be that. it’s very difficult to tell tho>>42339078i getcha. maybe it’s that. desu this coworker gave me the vibe that he’s a bit of a chaser, he was telling me about this trans woman he knew who was “super hot”.
